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Women of high quality get asked on so many first dates or have so many guys wanting first dates with them that they get bored. They get asked out so many times, but all their first dates are the same - dinner, drinks, coffee, and movies. First dates get old quickly. I’ll tell you why this is good for you.
You have a chance to have some clever and creative first dates, because if you can do different first dates, it will be very attractive. It will also usually cost less than you’re spending now. I’ll show you how to get more women getting attracted to you after the first date, and save you money. Good deal?
Where does a creative guy take a girl on a first date? Here are the best first date ideas:
Activity-based First Dates
An activity based date is where you meet and do something on the date. It is great date for her, but afterwards you should also go for a drink or sit down somewhere so that you can connect on a deeper level with her. She’ll be much more open to it after a fun first date. What are some examples of a good activity-based first date?
- An event like UFC, concert (one you can speak at), football, basketball, or a friends “band”.
- The games arcade. No not to play Tekken. Do physical games like the dancing games, racing games, and if she is a bit tough, the punching games.
- Play a sport or game - table tennis, table football, darts, pool, badminton, or a tumble gym with friends.
- Go to a class together - Dancing (Salsa is good), karate, or massage. If it is something you wanted to try already, even better.
- Fly a kite.
Nature-based First Dates
A woman loves animals and nature. Design a nature based date and it should be a memorable experience. Examples would be:
- Feeding the ducks and squirrels in the park.
- A boat trip up the river.
- The zoo (make sure she doesn’t morally object).
- The aquarium..
Interest-based First Dates
If she has expressed or you both have a common interest in a certain area like art, history, or foreign films, take her on a date that matches this interest. Make sure its something obscure and interesting. If you can teach her something by taking her to this interest-based first date, then all the better.
Touristy First Dates
It’s amazing how many City-dwellers haven’t done the famous tourist stuff in their city. Casually find out if she has been to the Brooklyn Bridge, Rockefeller Center, Coney Island, LACMA, Santa Monica Broadwalk, Sears Tower, Park City in Utah, or whatever your local attraction is that’s typically visited only by tourists. Chances are neither of you have so it will make a great first date.
Buy a Local Events Guide
There are all kinds of cool events going on in big cities all the time. Things like food festivals, charity concerts, and street parties. Find one that sounds cool and go together.
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