Pickup Lines – The Ultimate Guide

Do you want the best pickup lines? The seduction community has been influencing the way men use pick up lines for years now. After Vh1′s The Pickup Artist, and Neil Strauss‘ expose “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society Of Pickup Artists” men all of the world have started evolving their pickup techniques. Before we dive to the right way to seduce a woman with pickup lines, let’s look at the worst pick up lines.

Warning: You might have used some of these before:

Worst Pickup Lines

    Pickup Lines
  • What’s your sign?
  • You must be a hell of a thief, because you stole my heart from across the room.
  • My love for you is like the Energizer bunny, it keeps going and going.
  • Are you lost? Because heaven is a long way from here.
  • If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
  • Your legs must be tired because you’ve been running through my mind all night.
  • Excuse me, can I have your phone number? I seem to have lost mine.
  • If I told you that you had a great body, would you hold it against me?
  • I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away.
  • You must be Jamaican, because Jamaican me crazy.

Have you HEARD of or USED some of those pickup lines? Horrible pick up lines aren’t they? No need to fear though. First, let’s understand what a pickup line is trying to accomplish. Neil Strauss author of “The Game” talks about pick up lines:

“Logically speaking, they never, ever could work. The biggest mistake guys make is hitting on someone before they’re attracted to you,” Neil Strauss says. Neil’s best advice: “What you might imagine to be a bad way to start a conversation is often the best.” He goes on to say, “If you know how to do it right, anything you say will work, as long as you’re not making someone uncomfortable or hitting on them too soon.”

Best Pickup Lines

There are a few things you need to accomplish with the best pickup lines. First, you need to approach in a physically non-threating way. We don’t have to do delve into the specifics of this, but for a great resource on approaching check out the guide, Art of Approaching. Second, you need to figure out which type of pickup line or opener you want to use.

An opener is another word for a pickup line. It’s the first thing you say when opening a set (another word for a group of people).

There are indirect pick up lines and direct pick up lines.

Example Indirect Pickup Line

An example indirect opener would be:

“Hey guys, can I get your opinion on something? Did you see the fight between the two chicks outside that just happened?”

or

“What’s up guys, what do you think about a girl that keeps pursuing a guy that has stood her up before?”

Example Direct Pickup Line

An example direct opener would be:

“Hey, I was across the room and I had to come meet you. My name is Brian.”

or

“Hi! My name is Donovan, I just couldn’t resist your charm. You really should hide your attraction towards me…

Why These Pickup Lines Work

These pick up lines are great because they communicate a non-clingy, relaxed and fun vibe that gets women thinking about you in a way other than the norm. Remember, if you’re trying to be original, you already aren’t.

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