Questions on Sources

[Sonis]

I'm new to the game, and I'm having a problem sifting through the sheer amount of material available out there.  I'm sure many others have had this problem.  What are some good books to buy anyway?  I've heard about a lot of them, but PUAs are always bashing each other's methods, and I don't know what's worth the time and money or not.  I read The Game, and am starting on Double Your Dating.  I need some material to work with - I've got the basic framework down, but a lot of websites just give you vague advice.  Most of the time it's about how epic important each little phase is or whatever without any specifics.  And every single little niche has it's own $100 or more ebook.  Any advice is appreciated

[Poppagopolis]

Sonis,

The Game is a great start.  Before you start spending money on books and programs, go nuts on youtube.  There a ton of videos on youtube.  I also read Mystery Method which, if you have more of a scientific mind, will work too. 

Watch a lot of videos on youtube and it'll be a good catalyst in your life.  I can also recommend to go out in the field and work on your confidence.  Learn how to take rejection as a good thing.  Remember, every time you get rejected, you can learn from it. 

I am a big believe in inner game and confidence.  So, before you start any of this stuff make sure you invest some time improving yourself.  None of these techniques will work if you don't have confidence.  A good way to teach yourself confidence is getting out there and embarrassing yourself.  It sucks at first, but you just have to keep plowing through.

IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH STUFF YOU READ, IF YOU WANT TO BE GOOD, YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO FAIL!!!

Except that point and you will be fine


-POPP

[Sonis]

Popp,

Thanks for the advice.  What are some of the video names on youtube?  I don't have a problem approaching women, just don't really know where to go from there at this point.  Trust me, I've embarrassed myself plenty, lol.  I finally found Mystery's book online, it got some good reviews.  They're also offering a bunch of CD's for $250.  About a year ago they wanted over 3 grand. 

- Sonis

[Poppagopolis]

Sonis,

David Deangelo and Mystery both have a ton of internet videos.  I would recommend starting there and just keep clicking on different related videos.  I can't remember what it's called, but I found this seminar by David Deangelo on there that was a total of about 15 hours.   It was broken up into about 90/ 10 minute videos.  Try looking up Approaching Women or Aproaching Women (I know it's spelled wrong, but I think thats how youtbe got away with putting it all up.

Good Luck Brother


POPP