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“Is there a difference in the way you approach hot women than those who aren’t as hot?” The answer to that is: YES.

And if you ignore this difference, you will strike out 10 times out of 10. Here’s the KEY factor in how to approach hot women.

Ready? It’s VALUE.

If you come off as some shlub walking up to a 9 or a 10, she’s probably not going to give you the time of day. This is because she has 100s of guys approaching her every hour! It’s up to you to make yourself stand out. See, when men approach hot women they often tend to have their “bitch shield” up. This is a self-defense mechanism that helps to ward of horny guys who approach hot women.

If she’s out in a bar or club with a friend, that shield is amplified by 1,000! So unless you’re incredibly rich, good looking, AND famous, you’re going to have a hard time breaking through that shield when you approach hot women.

Unless you create value for yourself. So here’s the question: How do you create value?

Answer: By Acting Like You’re Not Attracted To Her!

This is where the concept of “Active Disinterest” becomes vitally important. See, when you deal with a “normal” looking woman, those who range from mildly attractive to really cute, but who aren’t drop dead gorgeous, it’s okay to flirt a little bit and hint at your attraction. With 9s and 10s, doing this too soon can ruin your chances.

You have to treat hot women in the 9 & 10 category as though they were really 2s and 3s on the looks scale. The reason for this is that if you approach hot women like they’re not all that hot, you make yourself stand out from all the other blokes approaching her all the time!

In essence, you’re placing a value on yourself, and lowering her value in the process. And what does this do? IT MAKES HER FEEL SHE’S GOT SOMETHING TO PROVE TO YOU!

And when that happens, you open the possibility to create some powerful attraction there. But guess what? You’re not going to get anywhere CLOSE to that level of skill, unless you master the fundamentals first. This is how you approach hot women.

There is also another contrary thought.

How To Approach Hot Women: The 10’s

It might surprise you to hear that very beautiful women are often the easiest to approach. Most women of great beauty are so intimidating to men, that the best a guy can do is pick his jaw up off the floor and keep walking. Truth is, extraordinary beauty strikes the fear of God in many men.

So, if you want to learn how to approach and attract very beautiful women, the most important thing to remember is….relax.

I realized that to approach hot women: the 10’s is rarely accomplished by most men. The women hardest to approach are those that are a “8″ or a “9″. They are less intimidating, and therefore more men approach them. They are the ones who will often throw tests at you.

Why?

They have had to learn how to deal men approaching them, and have developed an arsenal to defend themselves from guys only interested in their bodies. However, the “10″s of the world are already so fearsome to men, that they tend to get off slightly easier.

Of course, they have challenges in different ways, but for now I encourage you to go for it and approach hot women.

When (and if) you do, be sure not to fawn over their beauty or even remark that they are attractive. This will instantly blow it for you, as you become one of the many who are not able to get past their looks. If you asked an extremely attractive woman what is it that most upsets her about her beauty, it would probably be that people see her as a hot body, rather than as a person. So, remember - relax - and go for it. And when you do, be sure to talk to the person and not the body. Ask her questions, chit chat with her, tell her funny stories, probe her opinions on subjects. Be interested in what she is saying rather than her amazing figure.

If you’re new to seduction and dating you owe it to yourself to check out our Beginners Seduction Guide.

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