How To Ask A Girl Out On A Date
The best way to ask a girl out on a date is to have her join you doing something. When asking a girl out on a date, you really should have a life that’s fulfilling and exciting to you. That’s rock bottom. You need to have something low-key, fun and interesting to get her out on a date. Trust me, it’s easier than saying “Do you want to go out to dinner?” and if you use that line you’re just asking for rejection. But there’s more to the equation for asking a girl out on a date successfully. Here are three easy steps.
Step 1: Ask A Girl Out On A Date
It’s time for you to have more options available to you than just this ONE woman. If you go out one evening and find a girl you really click with, get her number and decide you’d like to go on a date. Go out and get another girls phone number. It helps you not be so “creepy” and “clingy”, and it gives you another girl to go out with so you don’t obsess over this one girl.
This way, when you’re picking up the phone to call (or sending out emails), you’ve got another woman to phone right after her. In other words, if it doesn’t go well, no big deal. Instead of putting all your “hopes” in this one date, go get more options and you’ll prevent many problems as well as giving you more women to date!
When are you MOST likely to get a woman’s phone number? When are you most likely to be in a great mood that actually ATTRACTS women? In the moments after you’ve already gotten another womans phone number. So take advantage of your great vibe!
Step 2: Ask A Girl Out On A Date
You should be dialing the phone expecting it to NOT work out with this girl. That sounds WEIRD doesn’t it? I have news for you though, most women have something about their personality, behavior, future plans, that is going to disqualify them from being good “potential partners” for you. Now, I’m not saying that “all women are screwed up”, but what I am saying is that you should realize that the only reason you’re freaking out about calling her for a date is because your emotions are running wild.
You should be thinking about how rare it is that you actually meet a girl that you are 100% compatible with. You should enjoy spending time with her even if she isn’t hot, beautiful and is on the front of a Victoria’s Secret store. If you have this in mind as you ask her out, then you totally get rid of the “I need you badly” vibe that you’re probably putting off. Women can feel this “needy” vibe a mile away and so this is definitely a crucial step. It may not come easy but keep working at it. Step 1 helps!
Step 3: Ask A Girl Out On A Date
Instead of asking a woman out, tell her what you’re doing, and then tell her she can come along. When you ask a woman out early on, you are investing way to much. You don’t know how you guys are going to get along, so why spend $50 on a girl you probably don’t like. You should realize that when you say, “I’d love for you to come to dinner with me Friday night” is interpreted by a girl as “I don’t think you would really like spending too much time with me, unless I slip in this extra set of steak knives.”
It’s totally weak sauce. A girl will totally see through this, and group you in with all the other guys that “bribe” her. What’s your alternative when you ask a girl out on a date?
Tell her that you’re going to be doing something and that she should join you.
“I’m going to go down to Starbucks and get that new tea. You should meet me down there. I can’t promise anything but a nice cup of tea.”
If she hems and haws, or hesitates just interrupt and say, “Another time then”. I also like “You know, never mind. I guess you don’t like fun times…”. This is solid cocky and funny material, and it’s the right time to use it.
It Gets Better
I always got VERY nervous before asking a woman out on a date. Now that I understand this “moment in time” better, and more of the dynamics of what’s going on, I get MUCH better results personally. In fact, I hardly ever get “nervous” before I ask a girl out on a date, and I rarely if EVER have a woman “flake out” on me. If I do, I usually always follow the rules to prevent a woman flaking.
You should read this article before you ask a girl out on a date for the next 10 women you meet. As you can tell, this is just one of MANY important facets of success with women. In fact, this is just scratching the surface of the skills you’ll need if you want to have CONSISTENT success with the most DESIRABLE women.
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