David DeAngelo

David DeAngeloDavid DeAngelo is a dating expert who instructs men on how to improve their dating lives with women. David DeAngelo has been an influential member of the seduction community for many, many years now. David Deangelo is considered to be one of the leading experts for assisting men with their dating lives. To watch a special message from David DeAngelo and signup for his weekly dating tips newsletter simply click here.

David DeAngelo argues that alot of human social behavior is related in some way to sexual reproduction, and that human mating habits do not differ significantly from other species. He suggests that habits and social conditioning have made many modern men develop involuntary habits that increases their chances of rejection with women or neglect their attractive qualities that were evolutionarily designed to assist them in the mating game.

In a recent Double Your Dating seminar, David expressed that men can use his dating techniques to achieve a variety of goals, whether that goal is to have casual sex or to form more lasting relationships.

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Attraction Is Not A Choice

David DeAngelo Kiss TestDavid DeAngelo states that the majority of men lack a deep understanding of women, and are thus at a loss when trying to attract the women they really desire. As a result, these men simply accept women who select them, instead of the other way around.

David DeAngelo believes that women are not as obsessed with the appearance of prospective mates as men are. He also contends that the average male courting rituals like excessive flattery and gifting, are seen by women as manipulative, and are therefore unattractive. Instead, he contends that “attraction isn’t a choice” — women cannot be bribed into choosing to feel attraction for you. Rather, David DeAngelo asserts that women will feel attraction automatically when they perceive a man to have certain alpha-male characteristics such as confidence, lightheartedness, humor and independence, qualities he labels “cocky and funny“, “C&F”, or “cocky funny.”

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David Deangelo Terminology

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  • Being A Wussy: a male trait developed over time that causes them to become submissive towards women in order to “win” their approval. DeAngelo claims that women prefer men who are of higher status than they are.
  • Cocky and funny: also known as ‘cocky comedy’ can be called flirting, this refers to combination of arrogance and humor. A humorous mock arrogance intended to communicate with intelligence and being ‘a challenge’. DeAngelo says that it is important to get the balance right, as using just ‘cocky’ “comes across as insecure, and comedy alone usually comes across as goofy and dumb.” “Cocky and Funny” is abbreviated as “C&F.”
  • Counterintuitive behavior: DeAngelo’s description of some of his techniques to attract women, as they are the opposite of what most people think is attractive. Examples of such behavior include teasing a woman offhandedly and refusing to compliment her appearance. Can also be phrased as Don’t behave in a boring or predictable way.
  • Life transformation: DeAngelo reiterates that the purpose of his programs is to effect a complete personality and lifestyle change among men that will help them achieve dating success.
  • Learn from the Successful: DeAngelo encourages the following and emulation of those successful with women. He records interviews with those very successful in dating and releases them monthly as part of a subscription service.
  • Sexual Communication: DeAngelo’s principle of a ‘secret mating language’ or ‘secret mating dance’ that takes place between a man and a woman before they can have sex.
  • Reframing: Restructuring one’s own beliefs set into a new one, such as changing self-doubt to positive thinking.

Double Your Dating Book

Double Your Dating

The Double Your Dating ebook outlines David DeAngelo’s core philosophies and techniques that claim to help men “demystify” much of what goes into attraction. Most of the techniques mentioned on this page are explained much more extensively within the Double Your Dating book.

As of 2011, millions of men have read Double Your Dating and are using it in their lives to get more phone numbers, more dates, more relationships and more sex in their lives.

Read J.K’s experience with David DeAngelo and his book Double Your Dating:

“…I have finished the book (2, maybe 3 times!)… I want to tell you something. And I want you to really hear this. Thank you. This has really opened my eyes! I am seeing this whole ‘dealing with women’ thing in a completely new light! I am acting more relaxed, confident, and self assured with women than I ever have before. I have had more conversations with women in the past week than in the past 6 months. It has been over a year and a half since I split with my ex-wife, and I have not had a single date since.

But now, I have two dates lined up for the next week. With two different women! And not just any women, either. These women are hot!… Let me say it again: Thank you. By the way, there were a few times I busted up laughing at some of the suggestions you gave. It’s not only good advice, but makes for an excellent read!…” -J.K. Portland, OR

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