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Jay & Ray, sometimes known as “Formhandle” and “TokyoPUA”, the Fast Seduction guys created something called “The Art of the Pickup” a couple years ago and it looks like they’re working on something new called “Tactics & Techniques”. From what I heard, it’s looking awesome and they’ve even set up a new blog called “What is AOTP?”.

Check it out:

http://www.whatisaotp.com/

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Well… it happened without warning.

I logged on to YouTube to throw up a new video, and YouTube had permanently disabled my account.
Why would this happen?

Apparently, Real Social Dynamics filed a copyright infringement notice for that infamous Alex Infield Video.

Interesting considering a comment that notevenwater made on the blog:

From what I heard, Tyler said Alex was acting on his own in those videos and those videos weren’t an RSD product or RSD related. In other words Alex wasn’t acting as an RSD instructor when he made them. This just goes to show why Tyler needs a better attorney: if those videos weren’t made for RSD, then RSD doesn’t own the copyright to them and RSD has no authority to ask youtube to take them down. Either they were (1) RSD products or (2) they weren’t–Tyler can’t have it both ways.

Well…

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Over the past two years I’ve noticed an influx of “gurus” going to teach you the same stuff that was already revealed in The Game about three years ago.

When will it stop?

Many of these guys want one simple thing - your money.

Seriously, I receive over a dozen emails a week from a new dating pickup startup saying something along these lines…

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I was in Vegas last weekend with The California Pimp and his friend Big Z. Lately my interests in learning game have ventured outside of the community. I think the community is an amazing resource and has a lot of great tactics and techniques, but to truly innovate and come up with NEW information you have to be able to look at ANYONE who is successful with women and break down what they’re doing and how it works. That led us to the Cali pimp and Big Z. Seeing what these guys do with their delivery, dominance and frame control is amazing. They’re also super charismatic guys. We’re trying to organize a podcast with them sometime this week so stay tuned.
Shockingly because this never happens with me, the conversation turned to game. And Big Z had a lot of really interesting ideas and ways of thinking about things. All of which amounted to his idea of game, which he calls your swagger. Z said the first thing that you need to accept is that everybody gets rejected sometime. And that as a man you have to be able to handle rejection. I couldn’t agree with this more in fact it cracks me up when I hear any guru saying he can pick up any girl, any time, anywhere with a 100% success rate. Even Brad Pitt can’t do that. But the idea that as man you need to possess the strength of character and confidence in yourself to get rejected but not get dejected( hey that rhymes) or beat yourself up is key. John Wooden once said that he never wanted anyone looking at his locker room to be able to tell if his team won or lost a game. This is the core of being detached from the outcome. One of the biggest differences between naturals and non naturals is that naturals NEVER blame themselves for their failures. They always say something to the effect of “ she was a bitch anyway.” That attitude isn’t productive for learning but when faced with rejection you should ask yourself what you could have done differently or what you could learn from this experience. I personally feel that if you aren’t getting any rejections throughout an entire night of gaming, you’re probably not pushing the interaction far enough. This results in a rare disease called celibacy. The ability to face rejection is a key part of swagger because it gives you the ability to tell yourself that you can get rejected and still be ok.

The second part of swagger is a delusional belief in yourself and your abilities. It’s often been said that the best are crazy and delusional. This goes back to one of my key teaching concepts. Beliefs don’t need to be true to be helpful. A lot fo guys when they hear that they should act like the prize or act indifferent get fucked up because they’re true emotions are those of neediness and despair, so to act otherwise seems somehow dishonest. But the truth is it’s simply a matter of belief. Look at religion, UFOs, Magic, or anyone who thinks Leona Lewis is hot. People believe in things that can’t see or prove all the time. So it’s uber important to adopt beliefs that are helpful not necessarily true. These include the idea that people are generally friendly and open to the idea of meeting new people, that women want sex just as much if not more than men do, that you are a catch and any woman would be lucky to be with you. It can even be helpful to write down any reasons you think a woman would be lucky to be with you. Do it right now stop reading this article and write down ten qualities about yourself that women would like about you. I’ll wait….

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Sorry for the lack of updates in the last week.

I’ve been working in my free time programming a new skin that will enable you guys to find the information you’re looking for quicker, and easier. I’m also re-doing the email newsletters, and the whole vibe of the site. Hang on to your pants, cause it’ll be alot better to visit here. (And quicker) I’m going to put a few new features I got from your suggestions which you gave in the comments a few weeks ago. If you have any more, post in the comments below!

Should be around Wednesday this week.

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