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You probably have often heard this infamous phrase: “Man, that guy has game!”

What does that mean? How is it that one guy “Has game” and the next guys doesn’t? What does it really imply to even have game? What sort of a mystical power is this? What the f*ck is game anyway?

Let me strip it down to its basic components for ya!

We say a guy “Has game” when he is pretty good at attracting women to himself. The good old 80/20 rule applies here. 20% of men probably have game and the other 80% sort of fall into various categories of having little to no game.

Regardless of whether a guy learned to be good attracting women through the seduction community or just happened to be naturally good at it, he possesses certain ingredients.

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When asking a handful of men to describe a particular man after he has left the room, most men would probably say…

“Blonde guy in a black a jacket and jeans”

Where as a woman would describe him as…

“Good looking in a metro sexual kind of way”

“Wearing a wine colored polo neck”

“He had a nicely cut jacket perhaps made of tweed and has buttoned down pockets”

“Fairly loose fitted dark denim jeans”

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Nobody likes someone who is boring. Nobody likes someone who can’t contribute to a conversation.

Have you ever just stood there in front of a woman and you just didn’t know what to say? You’re standing there, and all of a sudden, you draw a blank.

Maybe you’re there with another person – a friend of yours that is a pretty good conversationalist. For instance, let’s say you’re in a clothing store, and you don’t really know much about fashion at all. He’s there talking about all sorts of jeans, and fashion trends, and everything else. And you’re just standing there like the dunce that you’re not! You feel like this goober doofus guy that doesn’t have a brain and doesn’t know what to say.

So instead of saying something stupid – you’ve learned that saying something stupid and changing the subject just kills the conversation – you sit there in utter silence.

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Baiting is the art of enticing a woman to escalate the interaction, physically, verbally and sexually. We want to bait the girl to escalate as much as we possibly can. But there is a difference between baiting and playing hard to get. This is what most guys don’t understand. You have to continue to demonstrate interest even as you bait a girl to escalate the interaction. In fact you can use baiting as a way to get the girl to qualify herself and even as a way of touching you and moving in physically early on.

The first way that we want to bait is by physically advancing and retreating. Around the Dallas crew we call this the Captain Jack special move. El Topo first noticed it and he did it in an exaggerated way while leaning back too much. This of course led to us making fun of him until he told CJ that he learned it from watching him. What you do is you lean in to whisper something in the girl’s ear preferably a teasing comment like “ You’re trouble” Then you rock back and cover your mouth as if what you said just really cracked you up and you’re laughing at her. If you do this right, it results in the girl laughing and touching you on the arm. Every time. What you’re doing is by going into and out of her personal space and teasing her at the same time the attraction gets magnified and she feels the need to chase you. It’s the essence of a physical push pull routine, all of which can be considered baits.

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I had a get together planned with a girl that served me at another restaurant. I was with a girl I’ve been seeing and so messaged the waitress on Facebook later that night. She gave me her number and we arranged for last night. I really didn’t feel like going and thought it would be a good opportunity to test the waters after she responded the way she did.

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I had an interesting conversation the other night that I wanted to share.

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