Archive for Talking To Women
The #1 Communication Problem Men Have
The other night during dinner I came up with a quote I want you to read:
“Embrace change at my own pace.”
I embrace change at my own pace.
You need to really take that statement in and listen to what it’s saying. How many times in a relationship have you talked to someone and given them your point of view, and then expected them to just react right away?
Let’s say you’re dating someone and you’ve been talking a little here and there about moving in together. Then you say to the other person that you want to move in with them and you list all the reasons why it’s a good idea. Do you then expect the other person to immediately respond with an answer? Do you get angry if they don’t immediately react and respond?
So many of us spend so much time wanting people to react the way we react. We want them to react exactly how we react and do it when we want them to do it.
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A Quick Bar Opener
Do you want a quick easy fun bar opener that no one ever thinks of or uses.
Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar – so that everyone in the bar was standing around us – and just talked animatedly.
And women started coming over to us, asking, “What are you guys talking about?” We’d say, “Look, I’ll meet with you in five minutes; we just have to finish this conversation.” I would push them away a little bit, which would intrigue them a little bit more. In a bar, you can be very playful like that.
So after a few minutes, I looked at one woman and kind of waved her over. She came over and asked, “What?” and I said, “You were curious about what we were talking about, and I want to tell you.” Then I explained what it was we were talking about. “We were just discussion life and the nature of spirituality…” and she just stood there with her mouth wide open.
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Getting A Womans Phone Number While Driving
by Vin Di Carlo.
I live in L.A. and I see hot girls all the time in traffic. I have a nice car (BMW) and I have a nice job and style. I read the ‘code so I know what to do but I am always in LA traffic seeing these hot ass girls lol! What do you suggest for “traffic game?”
– Seth, Long Beach, CA
I had to laugh at this email, because I know exactly what Seth is talking about.
(living right next to New York City makes driving by a hot woman an EVERY DAY thing)
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Is “Romance” Attractive To Women?
You’ve probably noticed that I don’t talk about the idea of “romance” very often.
There’s a good reason for this.
I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are interested in. I’m going to take some time here to talk about my personal perspective on romance, how it is misused, and how to use it to really make a woman feel attracted to you. Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be “romantic”:
1) They try to use romance to CREATE attraction.
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How To Talk To Women – Free Video Training
Have you ever been talking with a bunch of guys, shooting the breeze, and all of a sudden a woman joins your group, and the vibe of the conversation changes COMPLETELY?
It’s like someone just threw a wrench into the gears. Suddenly the subject changes, and you hear a record scratch in the background.
Now all of a sudden you start censoring yourself and talking the way you think you “should” around a woman.
I remember when I would walk up to a group of girls and feel my mind freezing up on me like a puddle in winter. My mind would just go completely blank.
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What Game Really Is
You probably have often heard this infamous phrase: “Man, that guy has game!”
What does that mean? How is it that one guy “Has game” and the next guys doesn’t? What does it really imply to even have game? What sort of a mystical power is this? What the f*ck is game anyway?
Let me strip it down to its basic components for ya!
We say a guy “Has game” when he is pretty good at attracting women to himself. The good old 80/20 rule applies here. 20% of men probably have game and the other 80% sort of fall into various categories of having little to no game.
Regardless of whether a guy learned to be good attracting women through the seduction community or just happened to be naturally good at it, he possesses certain ingredients.
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Thundercat Talks To Hot Chick (Video)
I thought this video was cool. It was the chick from Vh1’s Rock of Love. I watched every episode of that show… for some reason. 
A while back I was at a club for a private charity event. The guy throwing this event spared no expense, and shipped in some of the HOTTEST girls I’d ever seen from lord knows where.
There were lots of models, dancers, and eye candy all over the place.
This included Body Painted Girls. These are models who are basically NAKED, but have clothes (usually lingerie) painted on their body.
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Attention To Detail by Kezia
When asking a handful of men to describe a particular man after he has left the room, most men would probably say…
“Blonde guy in a black a jacket and jeans”
Where as a woman would describe him as…
“Good looking in a metro sexual kind of way”
“Wearing a wine colored polo neck”
“He had a nicely cut jacket perhaps made of tweed and has buttoned down pockets”
“Fairly loose fitted dark denim jeans”
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How to Have an Interesting Conversation by David Wygant
Here’s a video in which I go into depth about making your conversations dynamic with women.
This blog is part of a recent bootcamp from London. Hopefully this will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am leading bootcamps!
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Be Interesting (David Wygant)
Nobody likes someone who is boring. Nobody likes someone who can’t contribute to a conversation.
Have you ever just stood there in front of a woman and you just didn’t know what to say? You’re standing there, and all of a sudden, you draw a blank.
Maybe you’re there with another person – a friend of yours that is a pretty good conversationalist. For instance, let’s say you’re in a clothing store, and you don’t really know much about fashion at all. He’s there talking about all sorts of jeans, and fashion trends, and everything else. And you’re just standing there like the dunce that you’re not! You feel like this goober doofus guy that doesn’t have a brain and doesn’t know what to say.
So instead of saying something stupid – you’ve learned that saying something stupid and changing the subject just kills the conversation – you sit there in utter silence.
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How To Compliment Correctly (Kezia Column)
Why does the average man give a woman he has just met, a compliment?
In his head when giving the compliment, he’s thinking. Woman like compliments, it makes them feel good. If I make them feel good. They will like me. If they like me, they might sleep with me. In theory it works, but the reality is sometimes a little different.
Woman like alcohol too; so they buy her a drink, if I buy her drink she will be happy if she is happy….…you can see where this is going.
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The Importance of Baiting (Sinn Column)
Baiting is the art of enticing a woman to escalate the interaction, physically, verbally and sexually. We want to bait the girl to escalate as much as we possibly can. But there is a difference between baiting and playing hard to get. This is what most guys don’t understand. You have to continue to demonstrate interest even as you bait a girl to escalate the interaction. In fact you can use baiting as a way to get the girl to qualify herself and even as a way of touching you and moving in physically early on.
The first way that we want to bait is by physically advancing and retreating. Around the Dallas crew we call this the Captain Jack special move. El Topo first noticed it and he did it in an exaggerated way while leaning back too much. This of course led to us making fun of him until he told CJ that he learned it from watching him. What you do is you lean in to whisper something in the girl’s ear preferably a teasing comment like “ You’re trouble” Then you rock back and cover your mouth as if what you said just really cracked you up and you’re laughing at her. If you do this right, it results in the girl laughing and touching you on the arm. Every time. What you’re doing is by going into and out of her personal space and teasing her at the same time the attraction gets magnified and she feels the need to chase you. It’s the essence of a physical push pull routine, all of which can be considered baits.
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