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PickUp101 Releases Zero Drama Dating

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Pickup101 has released a new program called Zero Drama Dating. I’m yet to receive a copy so I can’t say if it’s good or bad, but I do know that Lance Mason usually releases comprehensive products albeit some of his old products have been repetitive.

This seems like a far shot from the previous products though. Zero Drama Dating has to do with relationship management, and having your dating life void of distractions and unnecessary anxiety.

From Lance:

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Represent What Women Want… And Start Calling The Shots

Last time I shared with you all the secrets to becoming the “chooser” instead of the “chaser”?

What is all comes down to is representing what women crave in a man rather than trying to cajole women into giving you what you crave first. Leadership, right? You deliver what high-quality women want, and you get your desires met in return.

Now, as promised, it’s time to get down to the practical ways you can become that man who women crave long-term.

Rest-assured, there are indeed certain traits that a woman is looking for in a man when deciding who to spend the rest of her life with, build a family with, etc.

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The Magical Relationship Management Skill

There’s a lot of focus on getting the lay in the Seduction Community. And let’s hear it for good, hard mind-numbing all-nighters with hot sexy vixens who are obsessed with both giving and receiving multiple orgasms. I’m a red-blooded guy and you’ll get no argument from me.

But here’s the problem. Based on what lands in my inbox day after day, there are a lot of guys who aren’t getting what they want out of their dating lives, despite having what would appear to be a rock-solid skillset when it comes to pickup.

There’s a laughably simple reason for this.

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Why Even Desperate Guys Won’t Marry Their Girlfriends

Welcome to the latest installment on relationship management. I’m appreciating your comments and e-mails. I’m also stoked that so many of you guys are ready to take the long-view past pickup and look into what it takes to be the master of your own destiny with women…no matter what your personal vision of the future looks like.

A subtitle to the admittedly brash title of today’s article could be, “Why Some Women Can’t Go Three Dates Between Marriage Proposals”.

What we’re talking about here are the differences between women we want to have around for as long as possible, and the ones we can’t quite see a future with.

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Relationship Management: Being In Control Vs. Being A Controller

Back when I was in the IT world I flew to Chicago quite a bit. Since United Airlines is hubbed at O’Hare (or “ORD”), that was my usual airline of choice.

Now, whatever your personal opinion of United Airlines is, there are two ultra-cool things about UA that cannot be denied: 1) They serve Starbucks on board, and… 2) …if you tune in to channel 9 on their in-flight audio system, you can listen to air traffic control (aka “ATC”) in real time.

While cruising at 38,000 feet, overhearing the Ft. Worth Area Control Center hand off to Kansas City Center is admittedly not the most exciting thing in the world.

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Five Ways To Become P-Whipped Without Even Knowing What Hit You

This is the first article by Scot McKay of X & Y Communications. He’s going to be our featured columnist on Relationship Management. I know many of you guys would love to know how to keep girlfriends and make your relationships more enjoyable.

There’s always a lot of emphasis placed on not giving one’s power away when relating to women. Yet, the exact meaning of this concept continually eludes a lot of guys out there.

It’s easy to see why this would be the case.

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How To “Re-Attract” A Woman

The reason why you don’t hear me talking about this particular topic is because it’s a tough one. The problem is usually that when a woman gets to the point where she doesn’t want to be with a particular man, there may be a lot of factors involved.

1. She has made a mental decision that this isn’t what she wants anymore.

2. She has a gut-level emotional feeling associated with the man and the situation, and she just doesn’t “feel it” anymore for the man.

3. There are usually patterns of communication, thought, and feeling in these situations that act as further nails in the proverbial coffin.

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My Way To Handle Competition From Other Guys

My previous girlfriend met a guy before I met her. She was really into both of us, but I’m not the sharing type. This is a short breakdown of what I did to get her to feel attraction for me, and at the same time feel less for the other guy.

I acted very aloof about the situation. I would be totally non-reactionary when he was brought up. She wanted to make a decision about us, and she was going to. She liked us both equal and wondered what she should do. She let alot of clues go about not liking the jealous type. (Well dah) It got to a boiling point one night when she’s like, “I got physical with him last night.” (Previously, she had been physical with me before him) This got me jealous, because I’m an emotional guy that likes my territory, but didn’t show it. I said, “That’s cool, sounds like things are moving along for you.” She was puzzled. She revealed that this guy was getting jealous of her and I, and that he demanded a decision.

Perfect.

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Reclaiming Your Game After Breakup

I was dating a HB8.5 Atlantan girl for a month or two and felt close to her. While things were great most of the time, I eventually had to break up with her. Her selfishness and tiring mannerisms got to me. I had to quit. I made the break with her late last month. Since then, I’ve noticed approach anxiety come back, flirting and bantering skills have diminished, and a general lack of positivity when dealing with women and surroundings. Maybe I cared more for her than I lead myself into believing.

I didn’t have a lack of power in the relationship, I was never a “wussy” nor was I broken up with. However, I think relationships take their toll on my game simply because I’m not active in the pursuit. In my mind, the proper solution would be to hit the ground running and practice, practice, practice. It’s depressing to come the full circle and once again back to near AFC in skills. Just like with muscle gain, the learning curve won’t be as dramatic, but it’s still there to large degree. That’s what I’m going to do, starting with two dates this weekend, one a HB9 half-latina, and another a HB8 musician girl who I’ve been decent friends with over 2 years. I think… I’m heading down the correct path to full recovery. Just need to start approaching more instead of relying on my social circle.

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