You guys wanted me to be more personal on this blog. So this past few weeks have been interesting for my pick up lifestyle. Doubts and confirmations are the name of this month.

My options with women have been going down hill. Actually, I’m not sure that’s the correct way to word it. I’ve noticed the women that I have been dating are getting attached to me quicker and on a deeper level, but FEWER of them. Quality over quantity.

The problem is… I’m not that into most of them. Don’t get me wrong, they are beautiful and really fun to hang out with, but for some reason I just don’t “feel” it with this one particular girl called Stephanie. Am I gay?! ha ha

Stephanie’s from California. She’s laid back, good looking, nice body, and has very witty sense of humor which I love. I just don’t feel it on a gut level. Could I not be as attracted to her because she’s been too easy for me?

We steadily moved up the physical levels on our first date. I usually call girls the next day, but she sent me a text that night saying how much of a great time she had.

Cool.

I text her back saying, “I had fun too, lets do something again”

The attraction started to die. This is totally unconscious, and on paper she’s exactly what I’m looking for in a girlfriend.

Then a few days later, “How’s life?”

Oh geez, is this what thought goes through her head when she’s not interested in me?

I text back, because I’m a nice guy. Hell, I remember when I didn’t have any options with women, now I have some, but I still don’t want to be mean. I like to think that those old days made me appreciate what I do have, and there’s no reason to act like a jerk.

Then I saw her today, this is about two weeks after our first date. She was flirty, touchy and playing it subtle. It was clear she was VERY attracted.

I felt my gut sink. Three years ago I would have literally given my left nut to be with a girl like this, and today… I’m over it. I’ve learned a few things… If a girl is texting you back with short text messages that are straight to the point and not flirty, she’s probably over it, or you haven’t done enough yet. That’s what I do.

Clearly, “ATTRACTION ISN’T A CHOICE” (David Deangelo)

What’s wrong with me? How do you guys let down girls?

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