I just finished watching a new video about online dating called… 

”The Strangest Way To Attract Women”

You can watch it here:

This is cool because he figured out how to meet as many women as you want …WITHOUT having to approach them in bars, clubs or in public and you can see what happened at that link.

The video shows you exactly how I meet women on AUTO-PILOT — without ever having to leave your house. He finally put an end to rejection and the frustration of getting no girls to reply to his emails.

This is not a gimmick. It’s cutting-edge psychology combined with real-world application. He was sick and tired of not being able to meet girls online – nothing he tried or found online ever worked.

Then something incredible happened to him and as a result, he discovered a “cut and paste” attraction system that works nearly every time. This makes a huge difference! If you’re ready to attract women using online dating sites, then this system is for you. But you have to watch his entire presentation to find out exactly how to do it.

Remember: Watch the entire video! The end of it may shock you.

Seriously – He spills the beans in this video.



Go watch this video now:

http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/video2-c.html



The best part is he reveals the 3 things he did that got him all those women when you watch this free video.

In all my years of coaching men how to succeed in online dating the one thing that always amazes me is the amount of men who still cut and paste a canned opener and send it to a woman.

Guys, women know when you cut and paste and send something, it shows that you did not read their profile and the first thing they think about is that you’re lazy and not very clever.

The correct online opener is no different than the perfect bar, party or supermarket opener. Don’t just send off 100 emails to women and expect to get a response back. Most men who use the shotgun approach tend to never ever receive responses.

So what is a guy to do to succeed in the competitive world of online dating?

1. Keep in mind that the women have all the power.

What works offline is going to work online. You need to be different and clever just like you do when you approach a woman in a bar or market. It really is all about having fun. To make your profile rock, instead of saying: “I love to travel”, share a story about one of the places that you have traveled to. For example: “I love the Italian coast and when I was in Positano I had the best Lemon cello in the world. When we speak, ask me about the view.”

Why is this better? Because it will make them picture what that was like and it will peek their interest and it will be something that they can ask you when they are responding to your profile. You need to create an emotional response so they feel compelled to write to you or write you back.

2. So now that you have spruced up your profile, how do you get their attention and distinguish yourself from all the other guys online?

This is the easy part but it will take some work. Instead of burning through 100 profiles and sending out a shotgun mass email that does not work, you need to pick 10 to 15 women at the beginning of the week that you want to get to know. The reason is that each week their emotions and dating moods change. Plus, if you do it right, you will get a good response rate and have a few dates that week. Now comes the work. You need to read through their profiles and find the fun tidbits. For example, if the both of you have a dog, you can send this email:

Subject: If not for us…our dogs will never be able to meet?

Body of email:

My dog is really visual and when she saw a picture of yours her stubby tail could not stop thumping! We need to hook them up, plus I have to get her off Dogdate.com; she is becoming addicted!

Lets talk about this,
Your Name

There are few reasons why this will work besides the fact that it is original and funny. What you are doing is making fun of yourself here. Men are visual and you are telling her that your dog is visual which will get a laugh from her immediately. You want to make her laugh. She is getting all these horrible emails from all of cut and paste men and yours comes in with some originality and creativity. It shows that you tried to get to know who she is by reading her profile.

Now lets say that you or she does not have a dog. This is also easy you need to read her profile and pick out a fun tidbit. If she says that she is spontaneous and adventurous what I like to do is challenge them on that. Women like their minds to be challenged.

Subject: So you say…

Body of email:

…that you are adventurous and spontaneous. What was the last adventurous thing you did? And if you are really spontaneous why don’t you send me your number so we can talk. 5 minutes on the phone and we will know if we have chemistry.

Lets talk today.

I dare you.

Women like a man that is bold and one that challenges her mind. You are also getting to the point and creating intrigue. She will wonder what you are all about. Now why do I use the … on the subject line? I use it so they feel compelled and intrigued to open it. It is all about what may come after the … that makes them curious. You need to realize that most women get tons of emails from guys so you need to get that email opened.

3. Stay on a site.

This is by far the best advice. Stop jumping from site to site every 2 weeks and think that you are going to get different results. You need to realize that women will check you out and read your profiles and it may take a few emails to get them to respond. They may be dating someone else the first time you contacted them and they may have been intrigued but they were too busy with other things or you got them on a bad day. I always tell my clients that it is ok to lob another email in a few weeks later. Now don’t send the same one find something new to connect with her about.

It is all about being persistent and I have found in all my years of advising people on the internet that the ones who stay on a site and are persistent will be the ones that get all the great dates. You need to be patient some weeks you will have a lot of responses other weeks we may not get much of anything but if you use some of the pointers above you will increase your odds every day.

David Wygant’s online dating program is by far one of the best I’ve seen, and one that has gotten me consistent results when I’ve applied it. It’s worth checking out at this link here.

Well dah… of course they need Insider Internet Dating to date women on Facebook.

Check out this video from Dave M of Insider Internet Dating. haha

http://www.insiderinternetdating.com/FreeVideos/FGOP.html

Don’t doubt the power of social networks for dating and getting your image across! Window Shopping for Women goes a lot deeper into this, but this is a very interesting article about crafting your image on Facebook from UCLA:

Students are creating idealized versions of themselves on social networking Web sites — Facebook and MySpace are the most popular — and using these sites to explore their emerging identities, UCLA psychologists report. Parents often understand very little about this phenomenon, they say.

“People can use these sites to explore who they are by posting particular images, pictures or text,” said UCLA psychology graduate student Adriana Manago, a researcher with the Children’s Digital Media Center, Los Angeles (CDMCLA), and lead author of a study that appears in a special November-December issue of the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology devoted to the developmental implications of online social networking. “You can manifest your ideal self. You can manifest who you want to be and then try to grow into that.

“We’re always engaging in self-presentation; we’re always trying to put our best foot forward,” Manago added. “Social networking sites take this to a whole new level. You can change what you look like, you can Photoshop your face, you can select only the pictures that show you in a perfect lighting. These Web sites intensify the ability to present yourself in a positive light and explore different aspects of your personality and how you present yourself. You can try on different things, possible identities, and explore in a way that is common for emerging adulthood. It becomes psychologically real. People put up something that they would like to become — not completely different from who they are but maybe a little different — and the more it gets reflected off of others, the more it may be integrated into their sense of self as they share words and photos with so many people.”

“People are living life online,” said Manago’s co-author Patricia Greenfield, a UCLA distinguished professor of psychology, director of the CDMCLA and co-editor of the journal’s special issue. “Social networking sites are a tool for self-development.”

The Web sites allow users to open free accounts and to communicate with other users, who number in the tens of millions on Facebook and MySpace. Participants can select “friends” and share photos, videos and information about themselves — such as whether they are currently in a relationship — with these friends. Many college students have 1,000 or more friends on Facebook or MySpace. Identity, romantic relations and sexuality all get played out on these social networking sites, the researchers said.

“All of these things are what teenagers always do,” Greenfield said, “but the social networking sites give them much more power to do it in a more extreme way. In the arena of identity formation, this makes people more individualistic and more narcissistic; people sculpt themselves with their profiles. In the arena of peer relations, I worry that the meaning of ‘friends’ has been so altered that real friends are not going to be recognized as such. How many of your 1,000 ‘friends’ do you see in person? How many are just distant acquaintances? How many have you never met?”

“Instead of connecting with friends with whom you have close ties for the sake of the exchange itself, people interact with their ‘friends’ as a performance, as if on a stage before an audience of people on the network,” Manago said.

“These social networking sites have a virtual audience, and people perform in front of their audience,” said Michael Graham, a former UCLA undergraduate psychology student who worked on this study with Greenfield and Manago for his honor’s thesis. “You’re a little detached from them. It’s an opportunity to try different things out and see what kind of comments you get.

“Sometimes people put forth things they want to become, and sometimes people put forth things that they’re not sure about how other people will respond,” he added. “They feel comfortable doing that. If they put something forward that gets rave reviews from people, it can alter the way they view their own identity. Through this experimentation, people can get surprised by how the molding goes.”

Is this exploration of identity through these Web sites psychologically healthy?

“Every medium has its strengths and weaknesses, its psychological costs and benefits,” said Greenfield, an expert in developmental psychology and media effects. “Costs may be the devaluing of real friendships and the reduction of face-to-face interaction. There are more relationships, but also more superficial relationships. Empathy and other human qualities may get reduced because of less face-to-face contact. On the other hand, new college students can make contact with their future roommates and easily stay in touch with high school friends, easing the social transition to college, or from one setting to another.”

“I hate to be an older person decrying the relationships that young people form and their communication tools, but I do wonder about them,” said Kaveri Subrahmanyam, associate director of the CDMCLA, professor of psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and senior editor of the special journal issue. “Having 1,000 friends seems to be like collecting accessories.”

Middle school is too young to be using Facebook or MySpace, Subrahmanyam believes, but by ninth grade, she considers the Web sites to be appropriate. She recommends that parents speak with their children, starting at about age 10, concerning what they do online and with whom they are interacting. Subrahmanyam notes that some of parents’ greatest online fears — that their children will be harassed by predators or receive other unwanted or inappropriate Internet contact — have been decreasing, although parents may not know this.

In her own study in the journal, Subrahmanyam and colleagues Stephanie Reich of the University of California, Irvine, Natalia Waechter of the Austrian Institute for Youth Research and Guadalupe Espinoza, a UCLA psychology graduate student, report that, for the most part, college students are interacting with “people they see in their offline, or physical, lives.”

“Young people are not going online to interact with strangers or for purposes removed from their offline lives,” she said. “Mostly they seem to be using these social networking sites to extend and strengthen their offline concerns and relationships.”

Research shows that adolescents who have discussed online safety with their parents and teachers are less likely to have a meeting with anyone they met online, Subrahmanyam noted.

“The best thing that parents can do is to have a rough idea of what their teens do online and have discussions with them about being safe online,” she said.

What does having 1,000 friends do to your relationships with your true friends?

“Relationships now may be more fleeting and more distant,” Manago said. “People are relating to others trying to promote themselves and seeing how you compare with them. We found a lot of social comparisons, and people are comparing themselves against these idealized self-presentations.

“Women feel pressure to look beautiful and sexy, yet innocent, which can hurt their self-esteem” she said. “Now you are part of the media; your MySpace profile page is coming up next to Victoria’s Secret models. It can be discouraging to feel like you cannot live up to the flawless images you see.”

“You’re relating to people you don’t really have a relationship with,” Greenfield said. “People have a lot of diffuse, weak ties that are used for informational purposes; it’s not friendship. You may never see them. For a large number of people, these are relationships with strangers. When you have this many people in your network, it becomes a performance for an audience. You are promoting yourself. The line between the commercial and the self is blurring.

“The personal becomes public, which devalues close relationships when you display so much for everyone to see,” Greenfield added.

“Who we are is reflected by the people we associate with,” Manago said. “If I can show that all these people like me, it may promote the idea that I am popular or that I associate with certain desirable cliques.”

Not much remains private.

“You can be at a party or any public place, and someone can take a picture of you that appears on Facebook the next day,” Manago said.

However, Graham said, the social networking sites can also strengthen relationships. He also said many people have “second-tier friends that they may have met once but would not have stayed in touch with if not for the MySpace or Facebook networks.”

The study by Manago, Greenfield and Graham, along with co-author Goldie Salimkhan, a former UCLA psychology undergraduate major, was based on small focus groups with a total of 11 women and 12 men, all UCLA students who use MySpace frequently.

One male student in the study said of MySpace, “It’s just a way to promote yourself to society and show everyone, ‘I’m moving up in the world, I’ve grown. I’ve changed a lot since high school.’”

How honestly do people present themselves on these sites?

Another male student in a focus group said, “One of my friends from high school, I saw her profile and I was like, ‘Whoa, she’s changed so much from high school,’ and I see her this summer and I’m like, ‘No, she’s exactly the same!’ Her MySpace is just a whole other level.”

“Just at the age where peers are so important, that’s where social networking — which is all about peers — is very attractive,” Greenfield said. “Just at the age where you’re exploring identity and developing an identity, that’s where this powerful tool for exploring identity is very appealing. These sites are perfectly suited for the expanded identity exploration characteristic of emerging adults.”

Another study in the special issue of the journal, conducted by Larry Rosen of California State University, Dominguez Hills, and colleagues Nancy Cheever and Mark Carrier, shows that parents have high estimates of the dangers of social networking but very low rates of monitoring and of setting limits on their children.

Rosen and his colleagues found that a parenting style that is marked by rational discussion, monitoring of children, setting limits and giving reasons for the limits is associated with less risky online behavior by children.

Greenfield advises parents of adolescents not to give their child a computer with Internet access in his or her bedroom.

“But even with a computer in a family room, complete monitoring is impossible,” she said. “Children have so much independence that parents have to instill a compass inside them. Seeing what they are doing on the computer and discussing it with them is a good way to instill that compass.”

In an additional study in the journal that highlights the beneficial nature of Facebook “friends,” Charles Steinfield, Nicole B. Ellison and Cliff Lampe of Michigan State University examine the relationship between Facebook use and social capital, a concept that describes the benefits one receives from one’s social relationships. They focus on “bridging social capital,” which refers to the benefits of a large, heterogeneous network — precisely the kind of network these sites can support.

Their article argues that there is a direct connection between students’ social capital and their use of Facebook, and using data over a two-period, they found that Facebook use appears to precede students’ gains in bridging social capital.

They also found that Facebook use appears to be particularly beneficial for students with lower self-esteem, as it helps them overcome the barriers they would otherwise face in building a large network that can provide access to information and opportunity.

“Young people do seem to be aware of the differences between their close friends and casual acquaintances on Facebook,” Steinfield said. “Our data suggest that students are not substituting their online friends for their offline friends via Facebook; they appear to be using the service to extend and keep up with their network.”

The Children’s Digital Media Center, Los Angeles, has received federal funding from the National Science Foundation. For more information about the center and the special journal issue, please visit www.cdmc.ucla.edu.

BONUS Today: Here’s a free podcast from David. It’s in MP3 format and you can download it here.

Here’s today’s column:

The best place to meet women is on line. No, not online on match.com or on Yahoo! Personals . . . but rather while you’re waiting on a line.

We spend so much of our lives waiting on a line. We’re waiting for coffee. We’re waiting at the bank. We’re waiting at the grocery store. We’re always waiting on a line . . . sometimes for one minute and sometimes for two hours.

Do you talk to people while you’re waiting on a line? If the answer is no, then read on because what I’m about to tell you is one of the best time management tools you will ever learn.

As a matter of fact, Microsoft Outlook was thinking of adding this tool to their software for Blackberries. Alright maybe not . . . but you get my point.

The other night I was out with a large group of students doing a bootcamp. We walked by this trendy Hollyweird nightclub. I looked at the line waiting to get in, and I asked my students:

DW: “What do you notice about what people are doing in that line . . . besides looking pissed off that they have to wait?”

S1: “No one is talking to each other.”

DW: “Exactly! No one is talking to each other while waiting on line to get into a bar or nightclub . . . waiting to get into a loud, crowded, place so they can potentially scream in each other’s ears.”

The best conversations you’re going to have are when you’re waiting on line to get into the bar. They will be far better than any you’ll have while you’re inside the bar.

To prove my point, we got on line there and we proceeded to have a conversation with the group in front of us and the group behind us. When it was time to enter the club, the doorman asked me how many we were, and I said that we were seven but that we wanted to wait on line for awhile before going inside.

As each group behind us got to where we were at the front of of the line, we met a whole new group of people. By the time we left that line about twenty minutes later, we’d met and spoken with about forty people! In light of this, let me ask you a few questions:

• How many of you speak to forty people when you’re IN a nightclub?

• How many of you get phone numbers when you’re IN the nightclub?
• How many of you get people to text you as soon as they leave a nightclub to see where you’re hanging out and what line is cool right now?

These are just some of the things that happened to my students and I when we were waiting on line at a trendy Hollywood nightclub.

Since you’re able to speak about the obvious while you’re waiting on line, how silly is it to wait to get inside a loud club before you start talking to people? Whatever your approach is, when you speak to someone while your on line you can always state it with humor. You can always say something like:

“Aren’t we getting too old to hang out on line to get into a crowded nightclub? This is the best conversation we’re going to have all night. If we met in there, I’d have to scream in your ear.”

It doesn’t matter what you say. It’s stating the obvious.

I also told my students that if you like someone you meet on line, just close them with this:

Man: “Let’s exchange numbers. If the loud music gets on your nerves, text me and I’ll let you know where we’re at.”

What you’re doing here is playing the odds. Most women when they go to a nightclub think they’re going to have fun. After about an hour in the nightclub, however, most of them tend to get annoyed. So after about an hour and a half, what you do is text her.

You: “Are you ready to continue our conversation? I enjoyed speaking with you on line about [fill in the topic you were discussing]

That’s it! Short . To the point. All my students did this, and it worked.

It’s called being different. It’s called seizing the moment.

In addition, when you send this text at this time, you’re most likely going to be texting her when she’s at her breaking point. She’ll remember what a great conversation she had with you while hanging out on line. She’ll already have fended off a slew of drunken horny men who had no rap. So what you’re doing is rescuing her from another 90 minutes of thump-thump music and drunken horny men.

It’s all about being different and taking chances. So the next time when someone asks you if you’ve tried online dating, you’re answer is going to be: “Not on the Internet . . . but on line at a club.”

This weekend, go hang out outside a bar . . . and don’t go inside. You’ll have far less competition and have far better conversations than you would have if you went in the place. Oh and by the way, you don’t need a cheesy picture for this form of “on line” dating.

This “on line” dating also goes for all the “on lines” in you life. This is not just for bars . . . this goes for any line on which you find yourself waiting. Welcome to David Wygant’s world of “on line” dating! Welcome to the www of your life.

Myspace, Facebook and other social networks are great places to meet women. Remember my post on meeting women on Facebook? Well, apparently I’m not the only guy doing this successfully. I found the following video on youtube yesterday:

Looks good huh?

After seeing the video I decided to get in touch with the social networking seducer Race De Priest and his accomplice Kelly. I asked them a bunch of questions.

Race, what kind of success did you have with women before getting great at social networking?

Well I wasn’t too shabby. I had a decent amount of women in my life but not nearly as many as I wanted. My goal was 3 new dates a week. I had to go out 4 or 5 nights a week to achieve those types of results and even then I didn’t always make it. Now that Kelly has taught me his system for meeting women on social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace it’s not uncommon for me to have a new date every single night of the week. Sometimes 2 in a single day. Ridiculous right? I wouldn’t have believed it either. The secret is meeting women online allows you to leverage your time so you can seriously meet as many women as you want to.

Do you prefer Myspace or Facebook more? What are some of the differences of each?

I will always have a special place in my heart for MySpace since that is where I first learned this system. Recently I have been using Facebook a lot and am getting just as many dates from there. In fact, I am meeting a new girl tonight from Facebook. I’ll break down the differences as I see them.

MySpace:
Pros
-Highly Customizable to show off your attractive qualities
-Easy to navigate and very intuitive
-The most popular social network site on the planet (over 250 million people)
Cons
-Since there are so many people girls get hit on much more frequently

Facebook:
Pros
-Highly targeted to the college crowd
-Integrated chat feature
-Since it is more private girls don’t get hit on as often
Cons
-Harder to navigate and find quality girls
-Girls overall take longer to reply

My suggestion is since they are both open to the public and are both free get an account on both sites. Our system shows you how to set both profiles up step by step so you can attract women on autopilot.

Can you give me a sample interaction on Facebook?

Sure, no problem. Here is a girl I met a couple of months ago.

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Subject: I’m confused…..

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Race
Date: Jan 12, 2008 12:59 PM

are you shy, or something?

-Race
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From: Her
Date: Jan 13, 2008 11:16 PM

A little… why?

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From: Race
Date: Jan 14, 2008 12:01 AM

well I’ve been on MySpace for a while now and you still haven’t said hi. That’s a little rude don’t you think?

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From: Her
Date: Jan 14, 2008 10:53 AM

I would never be rude. Did you say hi to me? Your page is very interesting…

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From: Race
Date: Jan 14, 2008 12:13 PM

my page is interesting like how..weird???…are you being rude again????..haha j/k We’ll hi Have you seen the Secret?

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From: Her
Date: Jan 14, 2008 7:31 PM

I have seen the Secret and I’ve read it. How do you feel about it? And what’s your name by the way? What made you write me?… I’m glad you did.. I’m intrigued for some reason… Hope you’re having a great night!

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From: Race
Date: Jan 14, 2008 9:37 PM

my name is Race. I have watched, read and worked with some of the people in the secret. I agree in the principles but am wary of people who take it to the far extremes so they no longer have a foot in the “real world” so to speak.

What are you view on it?

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From: Her
Date: Jan 15, 2008 5:14 PM

It’s nice to meet you Race (even though it’s not in person)! I completely agree with always trying to think positive and finding the silver lining in everything that you do. I know from experience that a positive attitude can make a world of a difference! But you’re right, it’s gotta be in moderation. Some people take it way too far! So you’re from New Mexico, right? Do you live in Vegas now?

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From: Race
Date: Jan 15, 2008 5:38 PM

Why thank you kind woman..haha. You seem like a person who is at ease with herself…it is as rare as it is a pleasure to be around. Perhaps I am missing something but how in the world do you know I am from New Mexico? Are you stalking me…cause I am actually in the market for a new stalker…my old one is getting boring And yes I do live in Vegas…going on 9 mo now. I moved here from San Diego/ New Zealand.

Have you ever been bowling at southpoin?

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From: Her
Date: Jan 15, 2008 6:43 PM

lol… Doesn’t your page say that your from there?? If not, I have no idea and now I am really confused! Maybe I am your next stalker and I didn’t even realize it So New Zealand, how long were you there and for what… if you don’t mind me asking! Your pictures are amazing! And the photo comment that you left me is hilarious! So how do you like Vegas so far? I’ve never been bowling at South Pointe. Do you like it?

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From: Race
Date: Jan 15, 2008 9:16 PM

I really don’t think my page says it…at least I couldn’t find it..but hey your the stalker with the excellent observation skills and sneaky info gathering tactics

I lived in New Zealand for 1yr total. First for university and then just to travel and bartend. Vegas has treated me well though the girls here are less than satisfactory…and say girls because they all act like little girls not women. Not sure if that makes sense to you.

I was asking about southpoint because me and my friends go bowling there every now and then and I thought you might like to come so I could kick your ass

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From: Her
Date: Jan 17, 2008 5:20 PM

Yeah, I checked your page again too… I couldn’t find it either!! Who knows where I pulled that one from??

So did you like New Zealand?

I understand what you’re trying to say about girls in Vegas, but let me reassure you that these boys aren’t much better!! Much different from the midwest! So why’d you pick Vegas as your next stop?

I would love to go bowling!! But to be honest, you probably will beat me. I’m not so good, but then again, I hardly ever fail to surprise myself!

Hope you’re enjoying your evening!

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From: Race
Date: Jan 17, 2008 5:27 PM

maybe you have latent psychic abilities…lol

I loved loved loved New Zealand!

I picked Vegas because I wanted to assist my buddy with his music and start a new company:)

well I am not the best at bowling either but I have a blast doing it. Shoot me over your # and we’ll go in the next week or so. It is after midnight so you’ll have to be a little bit of a night owl to keep up

ps have you ever tried hookah?

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From: Her
Date: Jan 17, 2008 6:05 PM

That’s so amazing! I can’t wait to go to another country! You’ll probably have to tell me all about it

So what kind of music does your buddy play and what type of company are you starting?

I AM a night owl with a day job, unfortunately;) But I’ll see what I can do! My number is xxx*xxx*xxxx

And I’ve never tried hookah, but I would love to!

It’s just that easy…haha Just kidding. It took us years to develop this system but we did all the hard work so you guys don’t have to. There are a ton more sample interactions like this one in our Insiders Club so guys can get learn from them.

How easily can a guy implement your techniques and will they get old after a few months from other guys using them too?

That is a common concern. The techniques we teach can be implemented rather quickly so that guys could be up and messaging girls almost immediately. Our free video training series walks guys through step by step. As far as them getting old we teach guys how to created their own material so they will be the only ones using it. In addition, we have set up an Insiders Club which has a huge database of all our best material (openers, role-playing, games, conversational hooks, real life start to finish interactions with girls, techniques to make her want to give you her number, how to set up a date, etc) so that guys can get new material instantly as it’s created as well as submit their ideas for review or to help other guys out.

Amazing video! What is the fastest thing a guy can do to improve his social networking game?

The fastest thing a guy can do is, and probably the most important, is to set up his profile correctly to demonstrate all his attractive qualities. It is kinda like his very own commercial selling him to all the girls who come look at it. We have training videos that show you step by step how to do this. We even include the code to use along with the applications to make it a piece of cake.

Your ebook is released on Friday, what can guys expect?

Here is the cool thing, we are actually releasing not just an ebook but an entire system called Window Shopping For Women! With the purchase of the book you also get access to our insiders club which includes a huge database of all our material, an interactive media training center and even a software program that we had to build out of necessity to keep track of all the girls who are responding. We are making it so that it is almost impossible for any guy to fail using our system.

Have you noticed anything else on the market, and how does it compare to yours?

Our niche of meeting women on social networking site like MySpace and Facebook is relatively untouched. I think I have seen a couple ebooks on the subject. I even bought one to see what they were teaching. It was sad. The advice would leave a guy just as frustrated as before he read it. On top of that there was no support in place to help guys when they had questions. We truly want guys to have as much success as we have had. We want every guys out there to have as many quality women in their life as they want.

I’ve heard some girls are turned off by tons of women commenting on your profile, have you noticed anything to back that up?

Turned off isn’t the word. Jealous is more accurate. When a girls sees comments from other girls of her same social standing/ perceived beauty level she subconsciously accepts you as a dating possibility. It also makes her more comfortable with you. If other girls similar to her find you attractive and like hanging out with you then you must be ok. It is a form of social proof. In most instances her competitive drive will kick in and she will want to be the one who steals you away from all those other girls. You become the prize she wants all to herself. It’s a social status thing.

Get more videos, tips, strategies and social networking insights like the ones you’ve read from Race and Kelly’s website Window Shopping for Women.

You know, I’ve been asked many times how to create online seduction. When I’m talking about online seduction, I’m not talking about you getting the initial contact with a woman and taking her on a date. I’m talking about seducing her late at night and getting her to come over.

It takes a couple of things to do this. First off, one of the things you need to realize is that if you’re online on a dating site late at night after say 10:00 p.m. and you connect with a woman at that time, you need to quickly – immediately – get her to instant message with you.

It’s a two-step process. One, there’s some websites like jdate.com that have instant message right away (which is fantastic!). But let’s say you’re on Yahoo! Personals or match.com or lavalife.com or date.com, or one of those.

Let’s say a woman contacts you first, and she writes something like “Nice profile.” You write back to her immediately if you’re online. Because what’s happening here is she’s fishing . . . if she’s fishing late at night, it probably means she’s bored. She might also be a little horny too, you never know. So you just need to play around a little bit.

What you need to do is immediately email her back and say:

You: “Yeah, I like your profile too.”

And then you bust her on something. Let’s say there’s something in her profile that says she’s spontaneous and daring. So you’ll then write

You: “Are you spontaneous and daring really? ‘Cause everybody writes that.”

Send it . . . immediately challenge her. By challenging her, she’s going to respond to you immediately. If she responds to you right away, she will likely say something like this:

Her: “Yes I am spontaneous and daring. Do you want me to prove it?”

You know, they’re always about proving it. Then you say:

You: “Yes I do. Send me your IM screen name right now, and I’ll send
you and instant message and we’ll chat.”

So immediately she’ll send you back the IM screen name. So now what you’ve done is set up a daring exchange with her.

It doesn’t matter if you use the “daring/spontaneous” exchange with her. There’s a lot of different ways to get her attention. But the bottom line is that if a woman emails you late at night, say after 10:00 p.m., she’s up for an IM session. She’s not up for a LONG email exchange back and forth . . . she’s up late and feeling a little frisky, so you’re playing the odds.

So what needs to happen next is you’ve got to create tension with her. Now let’s say you’re on instant message and you say:

You: “Wow, you really are a daring person.”

Congratulate her for being daring. Congratulate her for coming out a little bit. So she’ll instant message you back and say:

Her: “See, I told you I am.”

What you need to do now is IMMEDIATELY take it out of the small talk range. See, most guys will keep it in the small talk range here and get into a boring conversation about work, the weather, or about other things. What I do is I like to push the gusto.

So congratulate her a little bit for being daring. Then, instead of talking small talk like most guys do, don’t play it safe. Most guys play it safe. Women are looking for guys who take control. Most women are looking for guys who want to be the leader. Women want you to be the leader. Women want you to be daring.

Women want you to be confident. That’s what they’re looking for, so what you need to do is open her up a little bit and say:

You: “Yeah, I’m glad that you’re a little daring, but IM is nothing. I’ll tell
you what, do you want to have some fun tonight?”

She’ll respond and say:

Her: “Absolutely.”

Of course she wants to have fun. You’re getting inside her head! She’s been bored. She’s been sitting around her house just like you have all night long. She wants to have a good time. You don’t know yet what she wants or what type of good time she wants to have, but you have to push the envelope. A strong guy will push the envelope. A strong guy lead her down the path she where wants to go, and you’ll create tension to build the steps. So you’re not going to play it safe like every other guy.

So you’re going to go back to the instant message, and you’re going to say:

You: “OK . . . Have you ever played IM truth or dare?”
Her: “No. What is that?”
You: “Well basically what it’s ’20 Questions,’ but ALL questions
have to be something that’s different, interesting and daring.
You can’t ask any boring questions.”
Her: “Like what?”
You: “Boring questions . . . like about work, family life. It’s got
to be about something interesting and exciting – about
something you’ve always wanted to ask a guy.”

You’re leading her a little bit. And then what she’ll say next is:

Her: “OK.”
You: “OK? I thought you were daring and spontaneous.”

Throw it back at her. She’ll say:

Her: “Yeah, yeah – I’m daring and spontaneous!”
You: “Good. That’s the attitude I like. Now, being a gentleman
like my Mother always taught me, I want you to go first.”

Now what you’re telling her is that you’re a gentleman by letting her go first. There’s a lot of subliminal stuff in here. There’s a lot of subliminal mind teasing.

Nine times out of ten, she will come back at you with some kind of sexual remark. Meaning things like “What do you like to do?” or “What type of sex do you like to have?” or “What’s your favorite position?”

Now, what you need to do is get very creative here. Because most guys would write back and say something very caveman-like and very sexual and in response to a question about his favorite position say something like “I like to pound a woman on top.” No, no, no!! You have to speak woman-talk. You’ve got to be able to seduce her and tease her. Women are all about very visual things described in words.

So let’s say a woman asks me what my favorite sexual position is. What I’m going to do is I’m going to get her so hot right now that her mind is going to be on fire which will turn her body on fire. I’m going to describe a very hot, sensual, erotic massage. I’ll say:

You: “I love to give a hot, sensual, erotic massage.”

And what I’ll do is describe it detail by detail . . . talking about how I love to flip her on her stomach, and how I love to put oil and rub my hands together to get them all warm so she can feel the sensation of how warm the oil is on my big, large hands. You describe it. Then you tell her how you’re going to massage every little inch of her body, how you’re going to touch her thighs, the back of her knees, how you’re going to touch her back.

You: “I love at that point to alternate between my hands and my mouth,
slowly taking my lips and gliding them over your body.”

What you’re doing here is you’re creating a scene. You’re teasing her a lot. What happens next is you say:

You: “That’s what I like to do.”

Don’t turn around and tell her you like to screw her afterwards. Just get her really, really hot. What she’s going to do next is she’s going to say:

Her: “Wow!”

Then you’re going to say:

You: “Yeah, that’s nothing. That’s just the beginning. It’s my turn, right?”

So then what you do is throw something out of left field, because it shows that you’re in control. What most guys are going to do now is to ask her what her favorite sexual position is or what she likes to do. What I like to do is say:

You: “What was your favorite pet you ever had?”

So at that point she becomes very confused thinking “Wait a second. This guy just described the most hot, sexual thing to me in the entire world, he has me totally turned on, and NOW he’s asked me about my favorite pet.” So what she’ll say is:

Her: “My cat fluffy was my favorite pet.”

And you’ll say:

You: “Fluffy, huh? So Fluffy was a cute little pussy cat? Awww . . .
What a cute little pussy cat.”

Tease her a little bit. By using the term “pussy,” she’s already thinking about how her pussy is hot and wet to begin with anyway. So you see that what’s going on here. It’s a lot of creating tension, and it’s showing her that you’re strong. So then what you’re going to do is say:

You: “Your turn, right?”

Then she’s probably going to ask you a sexual question again. She’s going to say something like:

Her: “If you could have a woman do anything, what would it be?”

Then what you need to say is:

You: “I love a woman who respects my dick.”
Her: “What?”
You: “Hmmmm . . .”

Then you wait ten, twenty, thirty seconds, and she’s going to be wondering “What is this about me respecting his dick?” and she’ll start saying things like:

Her: “Well?”
You: “Are you sure you can handle this?”
Her: “Absolutely!”
You: “OK, before I tell you this about how I want a woman to
respect my dick, I want to know what your favorite sexual
thing is to do to a guy.”
Her: “Oh God, I love to give a guy head.”
You: “You know what, so many women say that. But women
who don’t respect dick don’t really know how to give head.”

Challenge her a little bit. She’ll come back and say:

Her: “Oh I know how to give the best head.”
You: “You know what, all women say that.”
Her: “Oh, but I really do.”
You: “Maybe one day you’ll get lucky enough to show me
your skills.”

So what you’re doing is teasing her a little bit, and you’re showing her you’re in total control of the situation. It’s unbelievable . . . it works every time.

Now between emails and IM’s, you’ve probably been into this thing about 45 minutes. So what you need to do now is ask her a question like:

You: “Let me ask you a question. Are you wet right now?”
Her: “Yes.”
You: “What are you wearing?”
Her: [She'll tell you what she's wearing]
You: “Look, do you want to talk on the phone? It would be
great to hear your voice. Plus I’d really like to hear more
about how you’re going to respect my dick and I want to
tell you what I like to do after that sensual massage.”

She’ll give you her phone number and you get on the phone with her. The next thing you do is start talking to her in a very deep, seductive voice. Then you start saying:

You: “Do you want play more ’20 questions?’”
Her: “Absolutely.”

So, every time she asks you a sexual question, you take a long, slow, drawn out way to describe what you want to do to her. During this time she’s going to be getting very wet. During this time she’s probably going to be touching herself.

So what you need to do when she’s touching herself, is listen for some sighs or some moans. When she starts moaning a little bit or sighing, you then confront her on it because it’s showing that you’re in complete and utter control.

You: “Are you touching yourself right now? Are you touching
your pussy right now?”
Her: “Yes.”
You: “How does your pussy taste? Does your pussy taste good?”
Her: “It tastes so good.”
You: “Taste your pussy for me, because I want to know how good
it tastes and I love eating pussy that tastes good.”

And you know what? She’ll taste it for you, because she knows you’re in complete control and she wants a guy who is in total control over her sexually. It shows that you’re extremely powerful and you’re strong. That’s how you successfully seduce a woman.

So what you do next when she does that is you say:

You: “Are you going to touch yourself right now? Are
you going to bring yourself to orgasm?”
Her: “Do you want me to?”
You: “You know what? I’d much rather see it in person. I’d
much rather have you here, standing here so I can watch
you. I want to sit in my chair, and I want to tell you
exactly what to do to your pussy.”

Take control!

Her: “Do you really want that? Do you really want to?”
You: “Absolutely. But you know what? I don’t even know you.
I’d invite you over right now, but you could be a crazy
chick. So I don’t want to invite you over.”

Do a little laughter here, because she’s probably thinking the same thing and wondering if you’re crazy. What’s happening here is you’re in complete control, and you’re throwing her fears back in her face.
By making her think you are afraid, it’s a very subliminal, subconscious way to mind f&*@ her all the way into your bedroom. She will show up.

You’ve got to have some balls, and you have to get her to come over. If she doesn’t come over, allow her to masturbate to you but while she’s masturbating tell her:

You: “Look, this is driving me crazy. I’ve got to see you. I’ve
got no problem engaging in phone sex with you, but
tomorrow night I want you to come over and I want to
lick your pussy all night long.”

You need to tell her these things. Get her off. Get her off so strong over the phone if she doesn’t come over, that the very next night she’s going to come over and she’s going to want to be seduced by you all over again. She’s going to think about it all day long at the office.

The next day you’re going to text message her and tell her things you’re going to do to her that night. You’ve got her opened up sexually, so now what you need to do is hammer it home.

We’ll talk more about this . . . if you guys want to know more information, and go deeper into her mindset and how to get her to become your sexual slave at all times, email me! I’m putting together an amazing program to teach you how to seduce a woman . . . any place, any time, anywhere. Hope you enjoyed this, and I hope you enjoy today’s blog.

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This goes along with my previous post on meeting girls on Facebook, but is more general in the sense of your approach to internet dating and why it kicks ass if you do it right.

The Internet Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone Your Skills

If you’re looking to hone your skills for meeting and interacting with girls in “real life”… the internet is the ULTIMATE training ground.

It’s literally a “dating simulator” – you can practice your skills with DOZENS of real live girls every day, and find out exactly what works and what doesn’t – WITHOUT experiencing the painful rejection you’d have to face otherwise.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much the internet has helped me personally to improve my skills with girls… I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time to approach a girl on the street… but interacting with DOZENS and DOZENS of girls on the internet built my confidence to the point where it just wasn’t an issue… It also didn’t hurt that the internet also filled my calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence booster in itself. The internet was also where I REALLY perfected my Cocky and Funny skills…

With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make girls laugh… and how to build attraction FAST. I’m sure you’ll discover the same.

One of the really cool things about interacting with girls on the internet is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when responding to them.

You can carefully plan out what you want to say until you have it exactly right… and you won’t have to worry about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or flustered… Because of this simple fact alone I’ve seen many guys who are too shy to approach girls in real life EXCEL on the internet… because they don’t let themselves get in the way of their success.

The same may hold true for you…

The Internet Is The ONLY Place Where Girls Approach YOU Constantly

How many times in your life has an attractive girl approached YOU because she was interested in getting to know you? If you’re like most guys, you can probably count on one hand. And that’s if you’re lucky…

But on the internet, it’s an entirely different story… You’ll probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER DAY from girls who want to find out more about you.

Some will be from girls who aren’t your type – and that’s ok – because chances are you’ll also receive notes from about 2 or 3 girls each week that are what you are looking for… and sometimes BETTER.

That rounds out to about 10 a month… and even if you only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer considering the skills you’ll have, and that they approached YOU first) that’s almost one new hot date EACH WEEK… with next to no effort on your part!

Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and getting the same results. Unless you’re tending the bar, it just isn’t happening.

Combine that with all of the girls you’ll meet that you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting this can get…

The Competition Is Weak!

Here’s another thing that is VERY interesting – and very good news for us – about the whole internet dating world… The competition is PATHETIC.

Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in “the real world” often consider themselves “too cool” to meet a girl on the internet… so they never even try. And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a few emails… and quickly write the whole thing off when they don’t get any responses back. They never take the time to figure out what works… because it’s easier for them to go back to what they know. Hey, I don’t blame them…

So what’s left?

A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can’t meet girls in real life OR internet… and only make YOU look better with their unoriginal – and sometimes even offensive – letters and profiles.

And what does this mean for you?

This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-desirable girls that other guys might be able to “out-game” you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that stands head and shoulders above the rest with an awesome profile and clever communication skills.

The Supply Is UNLIMITED… And You Have The Resources To Take Advantage Of It

As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of girls on internet dating sites… and guess what?

They are ALL single and looking!

Now in real life this would be useless – even if you were tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night…

But on the internet, things are different.

You can easily talk to DOZENS of these girls at a time.

Once you get your “system” down, you can “scale up” and join other dating sites… and multiply your opportunities each time you do.

You’re not limited to those you see out on the town or those you meet through your circle of friends… you can meet girls from all over your state, country, or even the world. You’ll never again worry about being lonely while traveling… simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line up some dates while you are there. And if you’re as good as some of my friends that you’ll hear from… a ride to your hotel from the airport!

My friends aren’t kidding when they say they have to take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to “stop the flow”.

If you want to meet a lot of girls FAST… or date several girls at once… this is the way to do it.

If you do date fairly regularly, but have a “dry spell” every once in awhile… the girls you meet on the internet will “fill in the blanks”… you won’t have to worry about being dateless ever again.

As I mentioned before… if you’re new to the whole dating scene, this is the best place to start. You’ll hone your skills WHILE you are getting dates… instead of while you are just trying.

Isn’t that the way it SHOULD be?

You Can Meet High Quality girls You Simply CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else

It’s simple fact: I know more men who have met “keepers” on the internet than any other one single place… myself included. If you’ve spent any time at all going out and meeting girls, then you know that a girl of quality is a rare thing indeed. Many of the intelligent, attractive girls who have it together are over the bar scene… and your chances of meeting a girl like that through your circle of friends is slim.

Sure… you might bump into someone you like at a coffee shop or grocery store… but why leave it up to chance? If you are serious about finding a high quality girl to have a great relationship with, the internet is the best place to start.

In general, the girls you meet on the internet AREN’T superficial, don’t play “head games”…and most importantly… are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you. And if you think you can’t meet a girl who is attractive on the internet, you had best think again…

I’ve met models, actresses, and dancers on the internet… and of course, many beautiful “regular” girls as well. So have my friends (I’ve seen them). And so will you.

So let’s do the math:

An unlimited supply… of high quality girls… with ZERO competition… that approach YOU?

Hmm.

It’s easy to see why internet dating is the best thing going… for a select few of us that is.

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I’ve been wanting to get down to the essentials of what it takes to meet women on Facebook. I’ve spent the last year really hitting the social networking sites hard using a trial and error approach. There are many ways that work, but this method works the most consistent. I get the majority of my dates this way now because it’s easy and time efficient.

How To Meet Girls On Facebook: The Friend Building Phase

Before you can start PIMPING your Facebook account, you should understand a few things first. You should realize that this technique takes advantage of your current friends and acquaintances. I’ve actually found this scouting technique works really well with friends OF friends that you’ve met once or twice. I dip into the best friends pool sometimes, but using this technique exclusively on your friends limits its potential and scalability.

You need to go out an actively build your friends on Facebook. Everyone you meet in a decent passing conversation you say, “You gotta be on Facebook right?” “Ok then, whats your last name, I’ll add ya!” Then you add them. This is just like building rapport with women. You want to build on commonalities, so they remember you when you add them and you can use that social equity when you get them to set you up. People will accept 99% of the time. You want to do this with women, especially an ugly or not your type of woman, but not men (straight men). Men are protective over women in their network, even if they don’t know them well. Chances are that the guy is trying to seduce her anyway, so why would he want you as competition? The only guys of seen this work on are the really uber-social, that are friends with EVERYONE and never hook up. =)

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Rapport Building Phase

Once you’ve added these people, try and remain decent friends. About a week after adding them as friends, comment on a photo, post on their wall, saying stuff like, “What did you do in Thailand?” or “Nice beach. You guys must of RIPPED those waves up!” Just don’t come across as creepy or annoying. Just play it relaxed and sociable.

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Searching Phase

Now you’ve built some sort of rapport with your friends. Make sure you keep it relaxed and friendly. People love this. Next, this could take some time. Go through your friends Photos, usually not Photo Albums. Go through Photos were they are tagged. This usually means they are in a social environment and you have a better chance of finding women quicker. You need to do a little investigative work, but you should determine quickly if the women that you see with her are married/single/in a relationship. Once you have determined that…

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Messaging & Connecting

This step is crucial, but fairly simple. Message (don’t write on their wall) your friend this, “[Friends Name], you gotta set me up with that [NAME] girl! Tell her you’ve got a cool friend to set her up with”. They would say, “Yeah, I can. Come around and meet her.” This is fine, but if you want her phone number quicker. “Just get her to check out my profile and ask her if she doesn’t mind you giving me her number to call her!” This is a softening request that I’ve never had not work. Sometimes your friend would say, “Oh, shes taken.” or “Oh, every guy asks about her.” Then say, “Thats fine, you gotta set me up with someone though. Your friends are cute”. She will say, “Have a look at some photos and let me know” or typically, “What about my friend [NAME]?” You can be honest, say, “Oh yeah. Nice. Get me her number.” or, “I’m more of a [QUALITY (hair color, personality type)] type of guy.”

IMPORTANT: If you already have this friends number, you don’t have to message them on Facebook. You can just text them.

Once you have her number. I usually text first. Say, “This is [NAME], [FRIEND]‘s friend. Is it true what they say about [QUALITY]?

Then flirt away before meeting up.

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: Conclusion

That’s how to meet women on Facebook.

This is one of the best ways to meet women, because you already have a level of social proof, and you can see what women look like so it’s better than a blind date with minimal effort. I also don’t think it’s needy or supplicating by asking to be setup with women. If anything, it shows how masculine you truly are because of the mindset of the “prize”. Women already know men want women, by ignoring that fact you make yourself look feminine. The trick is to follow this with power and focus. Women should be with you and by setting you up with her friend, she’s doing her friend a favor.

This method however doesn’t alleviate a bad Facebook profile. If you enjoyed this post, or maybe even probably wanted more information but didn’t get it, you should check out Dave M’s Inside Internet Dating (my review). It’s got everything you’ll ever want to know about meeting women online, from online dating sites to Facebook. Check it out.