You know, I’ve been asked many times how to create online seduction. When I’m talking about online seduction, I’m not talking about you getting the initial contact with a woman and taking her on a date. I’m talking about seducing her late at night and getting her to come over.

It takes a couple of things to do this. First off, one of the things you need to realize is that if you’re online on a dating site late at night after say 10:00 p.m. and you connect with a woman at that time, you need to quickly – immediately – get her to instant message with you.

It’s a two-step process. One, there’s some websites like jdate.com that have instant message right away (which is fantastic!). But let’s say you’re on Yahoo! Personals or match.com or lavalife.com or date.com, or one of those.

Let’s say a woman contacts you first, and she writes something like “Nice profile.” You write back to her immediately if you’re online. Because what’s happening here is she’s fishing . . . if she’s fishing late at night, it probably means she’s bored. She might also be a little horny too, you never know. So you just need to play around a little bit.

What you need to do is immediately email her back and say:

You: “Yeah, I like your profile too.”

And then you bust her on something. Let’s say there’s something in her profile that says she’s spontaneous and daring. So you’ll then write

You: “Are you spontaneous and daring really? ‘Cause everybody writes that.”

Send it . . . immediately challenge her. By challenging her, she’s going to respond to you immediately. If she responds to you right away, she will likely say something like this:

Her: “Yes I am spontaneous and daring. Do you want me to prove it?”

You know, they’re always about proving it. Then you say:

You: “Yes I do. Send me your IM screen name right now, and I’ll send
you and instant message and we’ll chat.”

So immediately she’ll send you back the IM screen name. So now what you’ve done is set up a daring exchange with her.

It doesn’t matter if you use the “daring/spontaneous” exchange with her. There’s a lot of different ways to get her attention. But the bottom line is that if a woman emails you late at night, say after 10:00 p.m., she’s up for an IM session. She’s not up for a LONG email exchange back and forth . . . she’s up late and feeling a little frisky, so you’re playing the odds.

So what needs to happen next is you’ve got to create tension with her. Now let’s say you’re on instant message and you say:

You: “Wow, you really are a daring person.”

Congratulate her for being daring. Congratulate her for coming out a little bit. So she’ll instant message you back and say:

Her: “See, I told you I am.”

What you need to do now is IMMEDIATELY take it out of the small talk range. See, most guys will keep it in the small talk range here and get into a boring conversation about work, the weather, or about other things. What I do is I like to push the gusto.

So congratulate her a little bit for being daring. Then, instead of talking small talk like most guys do, don’t play it safe. Most guys play it safe. Women are looking for guys who take control. Most women are looking for guys who want to be the leader. Women want you to be the leader. Women want you to be daring.

Women want you to be confident. That’s what they’re looking for, so what you need to do is open her up a little bit and say:

You: “Yeah, I’m glad that you’re a little daring, but IM is nothing. I’ll tell
you what, do you want to have some fun tonight?”

She’ll respond and say:

Her: “Absolutely.”

Of course she wants to have fun. You’re getting inside her head! She’s been bored. She’s been sitting around her house just like you have all night long. She wants to have a good time. You don’t know yet what she wants or what type of good time she wants to have, but you have to push the envelope. A strong guy will push the envelope. A strong guy lead her down the path she where wants to go, and you’ll create tension to build the steps. So you’re not going to play it safe like every other guy.

So you’re going to go back to the instant message, and you’re going to say:

You: “OK . . . Have you ever played IM truth or dare?”
Her: “No. What is that?”
You: “Well basically what it’s ’20 Questions,’ but ALL questions
have to be something that’s different, interesting and daring.
You can’t ask any boring questions.”
Her: “Like what?”
You: “Boring questions . . . like about work, family life. It’s got
to be about something interesting and exciting – about
something you’ve always wanted to ask a guy.”

You’re leading her a little bit. And then what she’ll say next is:

Her: “OK.”
You: “OK? I thought you were daring and spontaneous.”

Throw it back at her. She’ll say:

Her: “Yeah, yeah – I’m daring and spontaneous!”
You: “Good. That’s the attitude I like. Now, being a gentleman
like my Mother always taught me, I want you to go first.”

Now what you’re telling her is that you’re a gentleman by letting her go first. There’s a lot of subliminal stuff in here. There’s a lot of subliminal mind teasing.

Nine times out of ten, she will come back at you with some kind of sexual remark. Meaning things like “What do you like to do?” or “What type of sex do you like to have?” or “What’s your favorite position?”

Now, what you need to do is get very creative here. Because most guys would write back and say something very caveman-like and very sexual and in response to a question about his favorite position say something like “I like to pound a woman on top.” No, no, no!! You have to speak woman-talk. You’ve got to be able to seduce her and tease her. Women are all about very visual things described in words.

So let’s say a woman asks me what my favorite sexual position is. What I’m going to do is I’m going to get her so hot right now that her mind is going to be on fire which will turn her body on fire. I’m going to describe a very hot, sensual, erotic massage. I’ll say:

You: “I love to give a hot, sensual, erotic massage.”

And what I’ll do is describe it detail by detail . . . talking about how I love to flip her on her stomach, and how I love to put oil and rub my hands together to get them all warm so she can feel the sensation of how warm the oil is on my big, large hands. You describe it. Then you tell her how you’re going to massage every little inch of her body, how you’re going to touch her thighs, the back of her knees, how you’re going to touch her back.

You: “I love at that point to alternate between my hands and my mouth,
slowly taking my lips and gliding them over your body.”

What you’re doing here is you’re creating a scene. You’re teasing her a lot. What happens next is you say:

You: “That’s what I like to do.”

Don’t turn around and tell her you like to screw her afterwards. Just get her really, really hot. What she’s going to do next is she’s going to say:

Her: “Wow!”

Then you’re going to say:

You: “Yeah, that’s nothing. That’s just the beginning. It’s my turn, right?”

So then what you do is throw something out of left field, because it shows that you’re in control. What most guys are going to do now is to ask her what her favorite sexual position is or what she likes to do. What I like to do is say:

You: “What was your favorite pet you ever had?”

So at that point she becomes very confused thinking “Wait a second. This guy just described the most hot, sexual thing to me in the entire world, he has me totally turned on, and NOW he’s asked me about my favorite pet.” So what she’ll say is:

Her: “My cat fluffy was my favorite pet.”

And you’ll say:

You: “Fluffy, huh? So Fluffy was a cute little pussy cat? Awww . . .
What a cute little pussy cat.”

Tease her a little bit. By using the term “pussy,” she’s already thinking about how her pussy is hot and wet to begin with anyway. So you see that what’s going on here. It’s a lot of creating tension, and it’s showing her that you’re strong. So then what you’re going to do is say:

You: “Your turn, right?”

Then she’s probably going to ask you a sexual question again. She’s going to say something like:

Her: “If you could have a woman do anything, what would it be?”

Then what you need to say is:

You: “I love a woman who respects my dick.”
Her: “What?”
You: “Hmmmm . . .”

Then you wait ten, twenty, thirty seconds, and she’s going to be wondering “What is this about me respecting his dick?” and she’ll start saying things like:

Her: “Well?”
You: “Are you sure you can handle this?”
Her: “Absolutely!”
You: “OK, before I tell you this about how I want a woman to
respect my dick, I want to know what your favorite sexual
thing is to do to a guy.”
Her: “Oh God, I love to give a guy head.”
You: “You know what, so many women say that. But women
who don’t respect dick don’t really know how to give head.”

Challenge her a little bit. She’ll come back and say:

Her: “Oh I know how to give the best head.”
You: “You know what, all women say that.”
Her: “Oh, but I really do.”
You: “Maybe one day you’ll get lucky enough to show me
your skills.”

So what you’re doing is teasing her a little bit, and you’re showing her you’re in total control of the situation. It’s unbelievable . . . it works every time.

Now between emails and IM’s, you’ve probably been into this thing about 45 minutes. So what you need to do now is ask her a question like:

You: “Let me ask you a question. Are you wet right now?”
Her: “Yes.”
You: “What are you wearing?”
Her: [She'll tell you what she's wearing]
You: “Look, do you want to talk on the phone? It would be
great to hear your voice. Plus I’d really like to hear more
about how you’re going to respect my dick and I want to
tell you what I like to do after that sensual massage.”

She’ll give you her phone number and you get on the phone with her. The next thing you do is start talking to her in a very deep, seductive voice. Then you start saying:

You: “Do you want play more ’20 questions?’”
Her: “Absolutely.”

So, every time she asks you a sexual question, you take a long, slow, drawn out way to describe what you want to do to her. During this time she’s going to be getting very wet. During this time she’s probably going to be touching herself.

So what you need to do when she’s touching herself, is listen for some sighs or some moans. When she starts moaning a little bit or sighing, you then confront her on it because it’s showing that you’re in complete and utter control.

You: “Are you touching yourself right now? Are you touching
your pussy right now?”
Her: “Yes.”
You: “How does your pussy taste? Does your pussy taste good?”
Her: “It tastes so good.”
You: “Taste your pussy for me, because I want to know how good
it tastes and I love eating pussy that tastes good.”

And you know what? She’ll taste it for you, because she knows you’re in complete control and she wants a guy who is in total control over her sexually. It shows that you’re extremely powerful and you’re strong. That’s how you successfully seduce a woman.

So what you do next when she does that is you say:

You: “Are you going to touch yourself right now? Are
you going to bring yourself to orgasm?”
Her: “Do you want me to?”
You: “You know what? I’d much rather see it in person. I’d
much rather have you here, standing here so I can watch
you. I want to sit in my chair, and I want to tell you
exactly what to do to your pussy.”

Take control!

Her: “Do you really want that? Do you really want to?”
You: “Absolutely. But you know what? I don’t even know you.
I’d invite you over right now, but you could be a crazy
chick. So I don’t want to invite you over.”

Do a little laughter here, because she’s probably thinking the same thing and wondering if you’re crazy. What’s happening here is you’re in complete control, and you’re throwing her fears back in her face.
By making her think you are afraid, it’s a very subliminal, subconscious way to mind f&*@ her all the way into your bedroom. She will show up.

You’ve got to have some balls, and you have to get her to come over. If she doesn’t come over, allow her to masturbate to you but while she’s masturbating tell her:

You: “Look, this is driving me crazy. I’ve got to see you. I’ve
got no problem engaging in phone sex with you, but
tomorrow night I want you to come over and I want to
lick your pussy all night long.”

You need to tell her these things. Get her off. Get her off so strong over the phone if she doesn’t come over, that the very next night she’s going to come over and she’s going to want to be seduced by you all over again. She’s going to think about it all day long at the office.

The next day you’re going to text message her and tell her things you’re going to do to her that night. You’ve got her opened up sexually, so now what you need to do is hammer it home.

We’ll talk more about this . . . if you guys want to know more information, and go deeper into her mindset and how to get her to become your sexual slave at all times, email me! I’m putting together an amazing program to teach you how to seduce a woman . . . any place, any time, anywhere. Hope you enjoyed this, and I hope you enjoy today’s blog.

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This goes along with my previous post on meeting girls on Facebook, but is more general in the sense of your approach to internet dating and why it kicks ass if you do it right.

The Internet Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone Your Skills

If you’re looking to hone your skills for meeting and interacting with girls in “real life”… the internet is the ULTIMATE training ground.

It’s literally a “dating simulator” – you can practice your skills with DOZENS of real live girls every day, and find out exactly what works and what doesn’t – WITHOUT experiencing the painful rejection you’d have to face otherwise.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much the internet has helped me personally to improve my skills with girls… I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time to approach a girl on the street… but interacting with DOZENS and DOZENS of girls on the internet built my confidence to the point where it just wasn’t an issue… It also didn’t hurt that the internet also filled my calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence booster in itself. The internet was also where I REALLY perfected my Cocky and Funny skills…

With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make girls laugh… and how to build attraction FAST. I’m sure you’ll discover the same.

One of the really cool things about interacting with girls on the internet is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when responding to them.

You can carefully plan out what you want to say until you have it exactly right… and you won’t have to worry about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or flustered… Because of this simple fact alone I’ve seen many guys who are too shy to approach girls in real life EXCEL on the internet… because they don’t let themselves get in the way of their success.

The same may hold true for you…

The Internet Is The ONLY Place Where Girls Approach YOU Constantly

How many times in your life has an attractive girl approached YOU because she was interested in getting to know you? If you’re like most guys, you can probably count on one hand. And that’s if you’re lucky…

But on the internet, it’s an entirely different story… You’ll probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER DAY from girls who want to find out more about you.

Some will be from girls who aren’t your type – and that’s ok – because chances are you’ll also receive notes from about 2 or 3 girls each week that are what you are looking for… and sometimes BETTER.

That rounds out to about 10 a month… and even if you only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer considering the skills you’ll have, and that they approached YOU first) that’s almost one new hot date EACH WEEK… with next to no effort on your part!

Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and getting the same results. Unless you’re tending the bar, it just isn’t happening.

Combine that with all of the girls you’ll meet that you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting this can get…

The Competition Is Weak!

Here’s another thing that is VERY interesting – and very good news for us – about the whole internet dating world… The competition is PATHETIC.

Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in “the real world” often consider themselves “too cool” to meet a girl on the internet… so they never even try. And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a few emails… and quickly write the whole thing off when they don’t get any responses back. They never take the time to figure out what works… because it’s easier for them to go back to what they know. Hey, I don’t blame them…

So what’s left?

A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can’t meet girls in real life OR internet… and only make YOU look better with their unoriginal – and sometimes even offensive – letters and profiles.

And what does this mean for you?

This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-desirable girls that other guys might be able to “out-game” you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that stands head and shoulders above the rest with an awesome profile and clever communication skills.

The Supply Is UNLIMITED… And You Have The Resources To Take Advantage Of It

As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of girls on internet dating sites… and guess what?

They are ALL single and looking!

Now in real life this would be useless – even if you were tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night…

But on the internet, things are different.

You can easily talk to DOZENS of these girls at a time.

Once you get your “system” down, you can “scale up” and join other dating sites… and multiply your opportunities each time you do.

You’re not limited to those you see out on the town or those you meet through your circle of friends… you can meet girls from all over your state, country, or even the world. You’ll never again worry about being lonely while traveling… simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line up some dates while you are there. And if you’re as good as some of my friends that you’ll hear from… a ride to your hotel from the airport!

My friends aren’t kidding when they say they have to take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to “stop the flow”.

If you want to meet a lot of girls FAST… or date several girls at once… this is the way to do it.

If you do date fairly regularly, but have a “dry spell” every once in awhile… the girls you meet on the internet will “fill in the blanks”… you won’t have to worry about being dateless ever again.

As I mentioned before… if you’re new to the whole dating scene, this is the best place to start. You’ll hone your skills WHILE you are getting dates… instead of while you are just trying.

Isn’t that the way it SHOULD be?

You Can Meet High Quality girls You Simply CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else

It’s simple fact: I know more men who have met “keepers” on the internet than any other one single place… myself included. If you’ve spent any time at all going out and meeting girls, then you know that a girl of quality is a rare thing indeed. Many of the intelligent, attractive girls who have it together are over the bar scene… and your chances of meeting a girl like that through your circle of friends is slim.

Sure… you might bump into someone you like at a coffee shop or grocery store… but why leave it up to chance? If you are serious about finding a high quality girl to have a great relationship with, the internet is the best place to start.

In general, the girls you meet on the internet AREN’T superficial, don’t play “head games”…and most importantly… are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you. And if you think you can’t meet a girl who is attractive on the internet, you had best think again…

I’ve met models, actresses, and dancers on the internet… and of course, many beautiful “regular” girls as well. So have my friends (I’ve seen them). And so will you.

So let’s do the math:

An unlimited supply… of high quality girls… with ZERO competition… that approach YOU?

Hmm.

It’s easy to see why internet dating is the best thing going… for a select few of us that is.

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I’ve been wanting to get down to the essentials of what it takes to meet women on Facebook. I’ve spent the last year really hitting the social networking sites hard using a trial and error approach. There are many ways that work, but this method works the most consistent. I get the majority of my dates this way now because it’s easy and time efficient.

How To Meet Girls On Facebook: The Friend Building Phase

Before you can start PIMPING your Facebook account, you should understand a few things first. You should realize that this technique takes advantage of your current friends and acquaintances. I’ve actually found this scouting technique works really well with friends OF friends that you’ve met once or twice. I dip into the best friends pool sometimes, but using this technique exclusively on your friends limits its potential and scalability.

You need to go out an actively build your friends on Facebook. Everyone you meet in a decent passing conversation you say, “You gotta be on Facebook right?” “Ok then, whats your last name, I’ll add ya!” Then you add them. This is just like building rapport with women. You want to build on commonalities, so they remember you when you add them and you can use that social equity when you get them to set you up. People will accept 99% of the time. You want to do this with women, especially an ugly or not your type of woman, but not men (straight men). Men are protective over women in their network, even if they don’t know them well. Chances are that the guy is trying to seduce her anyway, so why would he want you as competition? The only guys of seen this work on are the really uber-social, that are friends with EVERYONE and never hook up. =)

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Rapport Building Phase

Once you’ve added these people, try and remain decent friends. About a week after adding them as friends, comment on a photo, post on their wall, saying stuff like, “What did you do in Thailand?” or “Nice beach. You guys must of RIPPED those waves up!” Just don’t come across as creepy or annoying. Just play it relaxed and sociable.

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Searching Phase

Now you’ve built some sort of rapport with your friends. Make sure you keep it relaxed and friendly. People love this. Next, this could take some time. Go through your friends Photos, usually not Photo Albums. Go through Photos were they are tagged. This usually means they are in a social environment and you have a better chance of finding women quicker. You need to do a little investigative work, but you should determine quickly if the women that you see with her are married/single/in a relationship. Once you have determined that…

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: The Messaging & Connecting

This step is crucial, but fairly simple. Message (don’t write on their wall) your friend this, “[Friends Name], you gotta set me up with that [NAME] girl! Tell her you’ve got a cool friend to set her up with”. They would say, “Yeah, I can. Come around and meet her.” This is fine, but if you want her phone number quicker. “Just get her to check out my profile and ask her if she doesn’t mind you giving me her number to call her!” This is a softening request that I’ve never had not work. Sometimes your friend would say, “Oh, shes taken.” or “Oh, every guy asks about her.” Then say, “Thats fine, you gotta set me up with someone though. Your friends are cute”. She will say, “Have a look at some photos and let me know” or typically, “What about my friend [NAME]?” You can be honest, say, “Oh yeah. Nice. Get me her number.” or, “I’m more of a [QUALITY (hair color, personality type)] type of guy.”

IMPORTANT: If you already have this friends number, you don’t have to message them on Facebook. You can just text them.

Once you have her number. I usually text first. Say, “This is [NAME], [FRIEND]‘s friend. Is it true what they say about [QUALITY]?

Then flirt away before meeting up.

How To Meet Girls on Facebook: Conclusion

That’s how to meet women on Facebook.

This is one of the best ways to meet women, because you already have a level of social proof, and you can see what women look like so it’s better than a blind date with minimal effort. I also don’t think it’s needy or supplicating by asking to be setup with women. If anything, it shows how masculine you truly are because of the mindset of the “prize”. Women already know men want women, by ignoring that fact you make yourself look feminine. The trick is to follow this with power and focus. Women should be with you and by setting you up with her friend, she’s doing her friend a favor.

This method however doesn’t alleviate a bad Facebook profile. If you enjoyed this post, or maybe even probably wanted more information but didn’t get it, you should check out Race and Kelly’s Window Shopping for Women. It’s got everything you’ll ever want to know about meeting women on Facebook and Myspace.

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Have you ever thought online dating took to long? Apparently, you can now meet the “love of your life” in less than 3 minutes.

“People go through the long process of filling out profiles and sending e-mails, maybe for weeks or months, and within two seconds of seeing the other person they realized they had no chemistry,” co-founder Dan Abelon said. “We thought this would be a good solution.”

Speeddate.com members provide only a few key details, including their sex and age; the desired sex and age of their partner; and their ZIP code. After logging in, they click through a series of Web pages featuring people who meet their criteria, connected via live video. The service is now free, though there might be a subscription fee in the future.

After each three-minute session, people click a box to indicate whether they want to interact again. If both say yes, Speeddate.com allows them to correspond through the site.

The business idea and site seem like a good idea. The good thing: appearance will matter. This will give you the edge against other men on this “sight”. I say this because you can peacock in a good way, and enable those questions to follow. This will help you gain attraction, get the number and date.

If you know other online dating strategies though, you have nothing to fear. You can still use traditional online dating sites. They are highly effective, if you get the right site, and provide a great way to leverage your time better. Remember, the point of internet dating is not to talk and converse online for months on end. It’s to get the number and setup a meeting. It’s simply method to get numbers. (Look at David Deangelo’s Meeting Women Online for proven tactics for this)

With speeddate you can see what woman look like, instead of wasting your time on unattractive fat women who only take photos above their bust. (Dammit) There’s just not as much faking with email routines and airbrushing your photos. Get your conversational skills up, and go out in real life so you can then attract the few successful and ambitious women who have resorted to online dating because of their career and other time constraints.

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***QUESTION***

Dave,

Let me start by telling you, you ‘da man! I really got to hand it to you, your stuff has given me confidence I’ve never had before, and I’m just trying to absorb as much of it into my head as possible. I really want to thank you for being able to share this stuff with guys like me and not keeping it to yourself.

There’s just one thing wrong with your material: its way TOO CHEAP!!! Seriously Dave, I think WE’RE ripping YOU off! Thanks to you, I started to apply the Cocky and Funny in chatting rooms and in the real world, and it is a hell of a lot better than the Mr. Nice guy act. However, I use emails and chat to practice my Cocky and Funny and it is improving. For example, I have one trick I use and it works on a girl whether she’s younger, older, or the same age as me.

I asked one girl her age, and she turned out to be as old as me, 21. I then replied by telling her “ahh forget it, your too young for me” I assume that this girl wasn’t used to a rejection like this and she was intent on knowing how old I was. I told her that I was also 21, and she reacted like most girls do at this part, by laughing and turning into a stuck up and asking me how she could possibly be too young for me. I then respond saying something like “I guess your right, its not your age, you just wouldn’t be able to handle me,” then she reacts like most girls do at this point, continuing to be even more stuck up and laugh sarcastically, while I tell her that Ill give her a chance because she wants it so much, and she has 2 minutes to convince me she can handle me. Now
this is a great conversation starter, and while she argues the fact that she can handle me, I occasionally send her teasing comments like, “honey, your wasting my time” or “Why are u not entertaining me” or “ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz”. I kind of understood how being Cocky works, and if the girl really meant the insults she said to me at first, she still wouldn’t be talking to me, right? After
doing this to one particular girl, who turned out to be hot as hell from a pic she sent me, she completely forgot about being stuck up and told me “ok, Im sorry, lets start over” this is when I realized I had her in my grasp and I continued being Cocky but turned it down a notch, was this the right thing to do? Around the end I asked her for her email and she replied by telling me she canceled it yesterday, a terrible excuse. I persisted and said “yeah sure, just type it down, it’ll be ok.” she stuck to her story and I gave up
and gave her my email which she “supposedly” wrote down. Now I know I probably shouldn’t of backed down on her email, but I thought the conversation was going so great she would actually want me to have her email. Is there something I did wrong for
her to refuse giving it to me, and what other ways could I make a girl give me her phone # and/or email? Also, you stress how you should never answer a girls question directly, to leave her unsure. This happens to be my weakness and I would appreciate a few tips on this too.

Thanks for everything Dave, your reply would really mean a lot. W.C.

>>> >>>DAVID’S COMMENTS:

Great story… and great job.

One thing you have to remember about chat rooms and online IM sessions is that they’re great PRACTICE.

Now, I’ve met some UNBELIEVABLE women on the internet… so don’t get me wrong here.

But don’t worry too much about any particular girl… or any particular situation.

She could have had a boyfriend, or even a husband… and was just online because she was bored… or any of 100 other scenarios.

When something like this happens, just move on.

The point is that you’re using the Internet for a GREAT “practice environment”, and you’re training your mind to be Cocky & Funny in the moment… which begins to translate into the REAL world as you do it.

To answer your question about how to get a girl to give you her email address and/or number, just do more of what you’re already doing…

Keep throwing down the challenges…

Write back and say, “Yeah, you’re probably not that adventurous”.

She’ll say, “Yes I am!”

Then say, “Well, if you were then you would have asked me for my number and called me already. But you’re not. So you didn’t….”

Keep this up until she asks for YOUR number.

Then, as soon as you hit the “send” button, IM her again quickly to say, “I don’t hear my phone ringing! Hurry up!”

You’ll love the results you get from this kind of thing.

But be careful. And get LOTS of CURRENT pictures. Take it from someone who knows… lol… don’t just take her word for it.

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave man!!!!

I’m taking your advice and not being an ass kisser, so I won’t say how much your book rules (even though it does). I’m seeing 2 girls and potentially 3, but I have some questions. First off, any advice when dealing with a really shy woman? It’s tough to do some of the things like the kiss test when they’re timid (but oh so cute). Second, the potential one I’m kind of interested in, but definitely not long-term, and I think she knows that, but I’d like to get to know her and have a little fun…any words of wisdom? Third, this may be covered in the book and I haven’t gotten to that chapter yet, but any style advice when it comes to clothing? I’m clueless there. Thanks in advance dude!

>>> >>>DAVID’S COMMENTS:

I’ll answer them in reverse.

Yes, style advice is in the book. Turn to pages 33 and 34.

To contestant number 2, just keep on doing what you’re doing. Women usually know what’s going on, and she’ll start making relationship noises if she really wants one. Until then, keep doing what’s working.

And about the oh-so-cute shy girls: I know, I know… but you must remember that if you’re the one that brings the shy girl out of her shell, she’s probably going to want to marry you… and if she’s not very experienced with guys, you might mess with her head too much. Do the right thing.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I was just wondering if you think it’s a good idea to call a woman before a date to confirm or should I just show up at her doorstep and hope shes there? A while ago I had a date with a woman and I didn’t call before I left to pick her up then when I got to her house she wasn’t there. Do you call before the date to confirm?

Z. From Florida.

>>> >>>DAVID’S COMMENTS:

You know, it’s been so many years since I’ve gone out to a woman’s house and picked her up for a first date, I can’t even remember.

I recommend that you DO NOT do something expensive and typical like going and picking a woman up, taking her to dinner, etc. for a first date.

Instead, either:

1) Have her come to your place, and leave for a cup of tea from there.

2) Meet her at a coffee shop that’s CLOSE to your place, and if she flakes out, you can still enjoy yourself and you’re not far from home.

Another rule of thumb I have is to not make a date too far in advance.

I’ve found that often times, you can call a woman up and say, “Let’s go get a cup of coffee RIGHT NOW”.

It’s rare that I would ever make plans more than a day in advance… this also helps prevent flaking.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

You DVD program has made me get up from the sofa and do something about my love life. No real success yet but I can now see beyond my fears and actually approach women.

As you recommended I started using the Internet as A ‘women simulator’, it’s great and I think I’m doing fine with the cocky and funny stuff. For example, I call my self “too witty for you” and in my description I write “don’t please don’t… well OK – are you cute?” and it works Sadly, I can’t give example from the chats since they are in Hebrew but you know… it’s even funnier in
Hebrew.

My question is simple: you said to move quickly from the chat to the phone. Well, do you have a “3 minute phone technique” adopted for the chats? (the problem is that I can’t say something like “I going back to my friends” like I do in a bar).

Thanks,

U.W. from Israel.

>>> >>>DAVID’S COMMENTS:

Nice!

Maybe you can work with me soon on the “Ultimate Comprehensive Guide To Cocky & Funny Online Chat In Hebrew”.

I answered this question above, but loved your email so I had to include it.

When you’re online, you have to REALLY go the extra mile and EXXXXXAGGGGERATE everything.

You can’t just say “You seem cool, let’s talk sometime”.

You have to say “You’re a pain. I’ll bet you can’t keep this up live on a telephone. You’re probably too much of a scaredy-cat to even TRY it…”

Work it. Try things. You’ll find that these kinds of challenges work VERY well online.

And if you really want to learn how to write a great online profile, flirt with women online, and get women to give you their numbers more often… then you need to check my Meeting Women Online program.

Till next time,

David.

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Five simple techniques that help men dramatically improve their response rate with their emails and to increase getting dates through online dating and social networking websites.

Online dating is becoming the preferred method of dating for a lot of men and women. It was a held generalization a few years ago that you either had to be socially awkward or a psychopath to have a real profile on a matchmaking site. That was a few years ago. Due to the influx of social networking sites, it appears that the overflow of serious date seekers have been introduced to the concept of meeting decent people online, and have started to use sites like Match.com, Nerve.com, and other specialty sites (not eHarmony). Men are meeting women online these days, and are having incredible success.

This article is specifically for men, there are beautiful women to be found online, you just have to seek the women out efficiently and give yourself the best chances for responses to your emails and requests.

I’ve had incredible success with online dating, and in this article outlined some of the surefire tactics I’ve used to dramatically increase women’s response rate and getting dates.

Photo Rotation For Higher Responses

I can’t take credit for this tactic, but will mention it first because of its sheer simplicity in boosting your success. I learn about this technique in an interview I had with Tim Ferriss, author of The 4-Hour Workweek. I asked Tim what yielded the highest profile views with his online dating efforts, and I later confirmed this technique for myself. The trick is to rotate your profile photo every week. This does a number of things. It places your profile near the top of search results because of it being new. Matchmaking sites love to have active users, and this is one of the ways they use to gauge it. Another valuable reason is that it keeps women who weren’t interested in you before because of a particular “look” you may have had in another photo that didn’t stand out to them in her search results before. Oh, and before I forget, never post a photo with your shirt off. Never.

Never Wink

You may have seen on some of these online dating sites a feature called “Wink” or “Poke”. Hmm… poke? Don’t use these features. They are completely and utterly counterproductive to you. They are for women to express a small interest in you, not for you to be a wuss to express interest in a woman that you think is a good match.

Use Direct Subject Lines To Get Your Point Across

In that same interview with Tim, he said he was getting a 20% or so response rate. Then one of his Virtual Assistants tried a very different approach, a subject line with a direct attitude. He used “Looking For A Date” as the subject line with amazing results. Apparently, his return email rate got a 50% jump to 70% of every email he sent out with that subject line. I don’t recommend using that particular line, but come up with your own direct lines. Remember, when a woman is getting 50+ emails a day from every time of man, it’s a good idea to stand out.

Don’t Be Too Dominant, But Don’t Be A Pushover

A lot of guys send out emails saying, “You’re so cute” or “I had to contact you, I think we have a lot in common.” Yawn. Take it from a purely statistical standpoint. When you’re receiving those emails one after the other, they’re getting old. Look at her profile, does something jump out? If so, mention it in the first few lines of the email, but not in a pushover way. If she has an interest in Costa Rica, be flirty about your take on it. “You’ve been to Costa Rica? I’ll take it that you dodged Miguel, that local conman at the airport in San Jose, and got to surf in ” Basically, you want to point out something about her in a non-sucking up way. But you don’t want to be an asshole by saying “You’ve been to Costa Rica? Hmm… Maybe we can go together sometime, if you’re lucky!” Ok, that screams creepy, and delete is the destination for anything that in overtly says it. What I’m saying is, you want to be confident, but not seem arrogant, and you want to come across with security. It’s OK to send longer emails, but don’t jump into deep identity conversations at first, remember you’ve got some time if you make that good impression, so take it easy and keep it light.

Limit Your Search To Increase Your Results

Guys want it all. They want every woman that they find attractive. This mindset is the approach most men are wired with, which can be a flaw when the algorithms on matchmaking websites kick in. Basically, say you live in 90028, Hollywood. When you search with a 10 mile radius, because of the population you will get drastically different results than a 5 mile radius search using the exact same 90028 zip code. What’s going on? Wouldn’t the search results just return as many possible results as it can? No, because that’s not the way they’re setup. Here’s the flaw in their system, and how I used to search for women in my local area. Most online dating sites have a result limit, which dictates that if 100 pages of results are returned for a 10-mile radius search from 90028 then only 50 pages will show as results. This excludes a bunch of women in your 90028 zip code because of preference for more active users in that 10-mile radius. Another technique that you should employ if you really want to search in the 10-mile radius (or whatever distance you prefer) is to choose preferences. Say you love brunettes; search a larger radius around your zip-code (depending on the population in your local area) with that specification and you’ll get more results that you’re interested in.

By using these tactics, you’ll dramatically increase your online dating success, and won’t be wasting so much money on the monthly fees which yield little or no women to date.

If you’re interested in taking your online dating to a new level, check out David Deangelo’s Meeting Women Online program, which features a bunch of experts in the field giving step-by-step methods that they’ve used.

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Have you ever wondered why many of the emails you send out DON’T get responded to?

You are not alone!

Well, do yourself a big favor…

DO NOT sign up to any online personals site UNTIL you read this post.

I’m about to share some VERY VALUABLE tips it would be wise for you to know…

If you’re like many guys who write me, you’re probably THROWING AWAY HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS on online personals sites right now that you could have easily saved!

Money I bet you can’t afford to waste…

Here’s the scoop:

One of the biggest downsides to the paid online personals sites is many of the women on the site are what I call WINDOW SHOPPERS.

These are women who are non subscribers, yet have a profile posted on the site.

Unfortunately, you have no way of knowing WHO is subscribed and who isn’t — which is a problem because if she’s not a paying member, then she can’t even READ your email!

TALK ABOUT A PAIN IN THE REAR END!

This of course works to the sites favor and is one of the biggest revenue sources for online personals websites and gets many guys to signup.

I can’t even begin to tell you how much money I shelled out over the years on online personals sites before I figured this out.

Picture this:

You log into an online personals site…

You see a bunch of women you might be interested in and think to yourself “Wow, there’s a lot women on here I can contact.”

So you sign up for an account.

Then you fire off a bunch of emails, sit back and wait for replies.

What you don’t know is you have no way of knowing which women are even able to READ your emails.

As you can probably imagine, if a woman can’t read your email, there’s no way she can reply to it.

Needless to say, this isn’t only FRUSTRATING but it can be a MASSIVE problem for guys on the sites.

… UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW TO USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

On match.com for instance, only PAID members can read and respond to your emails.

(This wasn’t always the case)

You of course, have no way of knowing which of the women are members, and which ones aren’t.

It’s frustrating to send emails and get nothing back, isn’t it?

What’s EVEN WORSE is you really have NO WAY of knowing if she’s just not interested, or if she isn’t a member and can’t even read your message.

So you’re left wondering…

I really think you need to pay CLOSE ATTENTION to what I’m about to share with you.

Here’s the bit you might already know: sites like match.com have a feature which allow you to see who’s opened your emails. I believe its an add on to your monthly membership… I think $5 a month.

HOW CAN YOU USE THIS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

If you notice many of your emails are being opened, but you rarely get replies to them — SOMETHING in your email is the problem.

I mean, if you keep sending the same emails and not getting responses, what you’re sending probably isn’t working.

Makes sense, right?

You don’t have to sit in the dark and wonder why your emails aren’t being responded to.

Now for our little ‘tweak’… Something you’re sending is NOT working, so fix it.

Here’s how …

Go back and pull a couple of the emails you recently sent, then start to change various parts of your email.

Then send a few of them out an monitor them.

Once you figure out the right combination, In no time flat you’ll start to get more responses to your emails.

Instead of a long email, try a shorter version.

Instead of saying you have something in common, try ruffling some feathers.

Instead of using someone else’s template, try writing something just like you talk.

Very often the guys who are crushing it meeting women online are doing *something* other guys aren’t (they might be SLIGHTLY tweaking the same emails you send, they use a particular buzz word, etc.)

Try it right now with some of the emails you’ve been sending out and see what I mean.

Very often after making a few slight changes you will find the right changes that will allow you to generate a staggering amount of responses.

In some cases, just changing 1 word in my emails resulted in a dramatic increase in email responses.

Try it and let me know what happens.

Your Friend,

Dave M
Insider Internet Dating

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I just got this email from David Deangelo:

Before I share with you what this method is and how you can start using it… let me give you a little background on this amazing guy, and explain how I was able to nail down an interview with him…

This new friend of mine is an author who is quickly making a HUGE name for himself in the world of business and personal success.

He just finished up a new book that is taking the country by STORM… and is currently sitting high on the New York Times Bestseller List.

One of the most impressive things about this man is that he has figured out how to outsource a tremendous amount of the pain-the-ass stuff in his life so he has more time to spend improving himself.

And here’s what’s REALLY impressive:

My friend has even figured out how to outsource his DATING.

In this interview, you’ll learn the fascinating story of how my friend hired teams of virtual assistants from around the world to set up dates for him using his online profiles.

If you want to skip the David Deangelo interview, and read the interview I’VE ALREADY DONE with Tim Ferriss, where he reveals some great strategies for outsourcing online dating, then visit those links!

Donovan

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I have 3 questions for you:

1) How many e-mails does it take to get one RESPONSE from a woman on an online dating site?

2) How many responses does it take to get a woman’s PHONE NUMBER?

3) How many phone numbers (and phone calls) does it require to get a woman interested enough to GO ON A DATE with you?

In a nutshell, how long does it take you to get one date through the online dating sites?

If you’re like most men, it takes dozens of e-mails (and sometimes, hundreds) to get one response, if any.

That’s because most women who are at least decently attractive get 30 to 50 e-mails a day from men, and the ones who are very attractive get even more.

As a result, they delete most of their incoming e-mail unless there’s something in them that stops them dead in their tracks.

This may be the reason why 97% of the men who join online dating sites quit within the first 3 months, according to Jupiter Research.

They spend hours online fishing for women, but they get only a few bites, if any – and usually, they’re from women who aren’t desirable to them.

Let’s analyze the numbers a bit further.

If you’re like most men, it would take 5 email responses from women (or more) to get one phone number. And it would take 10 phone numbers (and phone calls) to get one woman to go on a date with you.

All told, it would take hundreds of e-mails to generate the responses and phone numbers that will result in a single date.

And that’s an undertaking that takes HOURS to do. The question remains: Is it really worth HOURS of your time to get a single date through the online dating sites?

At least one guy I know has found the whole online dating process too tedious that he said, “It’s enough to drive men to a house of prostitution to get away from the hassle of getting dates online.”

Now how about you? How does your batting average compare with these average Joes? Are you doing any better?

What if I told you that in just 20 minutes per week, I can show you how to get more dates than you can handle?

The key is to maximize every single interaction you have with women on the online dating sites so that you can have MORE RESULTS IN LESS TIME – and that’s exactly what I show you in my Insider Internet Dating program.

I also show you how I easily get 30 to 50 dates a month when other men average 1 or 2 a month – if they’re lucky. .

Now, imagine being in front of your computer, logging onto an online dating site and finding a drop-dead gorgeous woman that you’re really interested in.

I’ll show you how you can easily…

* Spend just 2 minutes typing out an e-mail to her that will make her instantly interested in you and give you her phone number.

* Call her on the phone without fear or nervousness, and in under 15 minutes, get her to say “Yes” to a date with you

* Get her out on a date, wherein she not only enjoys being with you but feels strangely intimate with you — even if it’s only your first date

* Get her to be attracted to you – even if you’re an average-looking or physically unattractive guy – and want to hold hands with you, kiss you, and maybe agree to a ‘more physical’ encounter

You can just glide effortlessly through the above steps – and get date after date with any woman you want whenever you want — when you get your hands on my Insider Internet Dating program.

It’s as easy as following a paint-by-numbers system – and when you follow it, you’re guaranteed to get dates every time.

So what are you waiting for?

Try the Insider Internet Dating program risk-free for 45 days. If it doesn’t do for you everything I said it would do, I want you to return it for a full refund – and keep the free bonus that I provide with your purchase.

There’s nothing to lose – except a life with no dates.

Dave M

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Tim, you’ve just released your book “The 4-Hour Workweek“. In a nutshell, what’s it all about?

It’s about how to outsource and automate your life. How to use lifehacks, technology, and more to create a luxury lifestyle of time abundance and complete mobility.

I hear you outsourced your online dating. Such a crazy concept, even for my readers. Could you explain the general idea?

A friend challenged me, over some wine, to the limits of outsourcing your life. He said I couldn’t outsource my dating, as one example, and I bet him that I could. Online dating is largely a numbers game, so I hired virtual teams of people all over the world — India, Phillippines, Jamaica, Canada, and others — to compete against each other and set dates for me on an online calendar. Each of them were assigned one of my accounts on either online dating sites like Match.com, or on social networking sites like Friendster, and there would be a $150 bonus to whichever team set the most good dates.

Did you just “cold turkey” the outsourcing, or did you work out a system first?

I worked out a one-page “rules and regulations” sheet with all of the goals and guidelines, being sure to include links to girls I found attractive, must-haves and must-not-haves, etc. I moved all of my online to the teams at once. The experiment was 4 weeks long, and I got more than 20 dates. It was unreal.

What is the best word of advice for guys looking to meet women online?

Rotate your profile photo, use direct subject lines for email, and focus on volume. I used clever, time-consuming subject lines that got nowhere, then one Filipino pulled in ridiculously good results with “looking for a date” as the subject.

How did outsourcing work for getting the types of women that you’re attracted to?

It worked extremely well. Perhaps a 70% hit rate, which is just as good, if not better, than what I was averaging on my own.

What sites did you use and which ones had the best results for you?

Match.com has the most profiles but also the most competition. It’s good for short emails with direct subject lines. The social networking sites consumed more time but got more dates.

Did any problems arise while outsourcing your dating?

Only once. One of the outsourcers neglected to put a date in the calendar, and I happened to be in the spot where the girl and I were supposed to meet at the right time. She walked right up to me — I was writing on my laptop — and started chatting like an old friend. I had absolutely no idea what was going on. I felt really badly about it, but the entire 4-week process was — after all — a social experiment. If I hadn’t had any problems, I would have felt like I hadn’t tried hard enough.

Thanks Tim!

My pleasure. I should add that every girl I had a second date with was told about the outsourcing. This was part of my litmus test. I needed a girl with the same odd sense-of-humor that I have, and if she couldn’t find the outsourcing at least a bit funny, we wouldn’t last anyway. The result? Most of the girls called me a jerk with a smile but found it pretty damn funny. Those are the keepers who will keep me sane when I take myself and the world too seriously.

The Four Hour Workweek

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