Archive for Fashion

10 Ways To Get Started With Game (Sinn Column)

Welcome to the fastest growing seduction tips website for men. Browse the menu above for tons of free articles, interviews and multimedia. Post comments and join with 3500+ regular readers and keep up-to-date automatically with the latest advice with our free subscription methods. Why not signup for a free account with our pickup artist forum that's just been launched? You can ask questions and get help from dating gurus that stop by regularly! -Donovan


SinnHey guys for my first article on the Seduction chronicles, I wanted to write to the brand new guys who may need a guiding hand in getting in the game. So without further ado here’s 10 things to do to get started in “The Game”.

1. Get a new haircut. This doesn’t have to be expensive, but the psychological ramifications of shedding your old look can’t be overstated. The first thing you should do is find a gay hairstylist. For the most part female hairstylists will cute your hair to make you look safe, whereas a gay guy will cut it to make you look sexy. Don’t try to control what he does, just let him go to town. You’ll now also have a new way of looking at yourself when you see your new haircut in the mirror.

Popularity: 29% [?]

Neil Strauss On Calibration

Neil Strauss recently said this and it goes along with my post about peacocking done right.

I recently saw a heavily peacocked guy at a bar who thought he was a ladies man. Women laughed at his jokes and allowed him to have his hands all over them. However, what he didn’t realize was that these women were humoring him. They were being nice because they felt sorry for him, then they’d quickly and politely extricate themselves.

What he was missing was something called calibration, which most of you read about on Day 28 of Rules of The Game. However, there’s something I’d like to add to that: measure yourself by your RESULTS. If you go out and you’re surrounded by women, yet you still sleep alone every night, it’s time to examine your behavior and figure out what you’re doing wrong.

Popularity: 20% [?]

Peacocking Done Right

Grim has posted a very insightful comment about peacocking:

I find it funny the biggest complaint with Mystery is his clothing. Any woman who would judge solely on your clothes despite an amazing personality, charisma, and humor is not a woman worth dating. I say to hell with those types of women. Secondly, you have to know that Mystery goes for the more liberal type of women… What many people don’t know is that he prefers the stereotypical “club” type of girl. If you’re looking to pick up conservative women, then peacocking is probably not a good idea.

This is spot on. When pickup artists peacock, you should be doing it with congruency. That means, if you want to pickup a club, party, or “freaky” girl you should be peacocking appropriately for those venues. I would say typically look at what the “alpha” guys are doing in those scenes. We’ve all seen them, the guys in the corner that women seem to flock towards, or the guys that are constantly approached by these types of women. Take note and duplicate with your personality added.

Popularity: 21% [?]

The Fashion Ten Commandments

The Fashion Ten Commandments:

1. Thou shalt not be ungroomed. Hair, sideburns, beard, goatee, stache, whatever. Got hair on your body, keep it under control. Don’t get lazy and let the fur grow caveman-style. Cavemen don’t get hotties.

2. Thou shalt not wear clothes that don’t fit. There’s a reason clothes come in many sizes, guys. It’s so you can buy the ones that actually fit you. Women notice an M wearing XL, and they ain’t going home with him.

3. Thou shalt not wear crappy shoes. Shoes tell women everything they need to know about you. Smelly sneakers, sandals with socks, and gore-tex hiking boots do not get into the hottie’s sheets.

Popularity: 6% [?]