Archive for Encouragement

Even Colin Farrell Gets Rejected… You Got It Bad?

March 7th, 2008 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under • 6 comments

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Colin Farrell Gets RejectedJust picture this…

You get your courage up and approach that 10 in the club. You figure, what’s the worst that can happen?

You talk and banter, then a guy comes and stands next to her.

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How I Reframe Rejection

March 4th, 2008 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under • 2 comments

I never used to be able to deal well with rejection. Now that I think about it, the possibility of rejection used to control my actions. I’d be lying if I said that I still don’t have a fear of rejection to some degree, but I think it’s now within a manageable level.

Here’s what I do:

If I ever get rejected, which rarely is as bad as you picture it, reframe it.

You’ll notice naturals doing this. If a girl doesn’t respond well to you, ignore it and move on. I noticed my friend, who is extremely good with women, doing this the other night. He did his little dance move that he always does at this house party and the girl didn’t respond. Instead of it effecting his state of mind, he moved on and ended up dancing with his now girlfriend.

It’s all about how you frame the situation. He could have easily said, “That girl didn’t like my dancing, and therefore me.” But he instead just wrote it off, didn’t dwell on it, and moved to the next girl for success.

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Why You’ll Never Be Successful With Women

December 22nd, 2007 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under • 0 comments

You know what?

You need so much improvement (and you know it)… I don’t think you should even bother with learning new tactics for seducing, attracting and dating beautiful women.

Think about it…

If you need to come to this site, to learn these tactics — THEN THERE IS NO HOPE FOR YOU!!

Think about this:

* When has a woman last cuddled up to you?
* Recently, have you kissed a woman that was considered beautiful?
* Have you walked up to a woman at a bar, and gotten her number within 3 minutes?
* When was the last time a beautiful woman called you?

Seriously, you’re searching the internet for tips to help you out with women. How low is that?

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Seduction Stories

March 31st, 2007 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under • 4 comments

Here are a few encouraging stories from comments past:

Coercion on January 31, 2007 4:22 pm

Two and a half years ago, I was at a club in Grand Rapids, Michigan where there were tons of beautiful blonde women…as I’m walking around the dance floor, I make eye contact and smile at possibly the hottest women there (HB 9.5/10). When she smiles back, I immediately walk up, introduce myself (which I usually wouldn’t do right away, but because it was a dance floor and she already smiled back, I felt okay doing so), tell her I like her moves and begin dancing. At first, we’re moving slow but little by little, it becomes more of a tight grind.

After almost blowing my load on the dance floor (I wish I had a picture to verify how hot she was), I back off for a second and tell her that I’m going to step outside and cool down (it was pretty hot in there) and asked if she wanted to join me. She agrees, so we go on the patio (this is where it gets interesting…)

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Road Map To Seduction Success

March 31st, 2007 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under • 0 comments

Just got this email from a reader:

I have been in a long term relationship and became kinda liberated from this but its only since i discovered Double Your Dating a coupla weeks back that I realised why I hadn’t had any success yet. I immediately got it. Although its status is currently like a bible to me, there is one concept in it which, if i had only seen that alone would have told me what I had been missing. That with women it is about showing that you are in control of the energy which you present to her. All the stuff about neediness and insecurity. I realised why the ‘nice’ friendly version of me wasn’t getting anywhere. And now that I realise that women shouldn’t control me and I don’t have to dance to their tune its been really enlightening.

So if Double Your Dating is my bible, your blog is my map dude. Because i am using it to learn from and springboard off in different directions. I have a lot of catching up to do. I can’t change my personality overnight, but I can already see by the way women i know are flirting with me, holding my hand etc. that its beginning to rub off!

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