David Wygant

How good are you on the phone? So you’ve got her phone number. Now closing and sealing the deal, getting them to go out with you—that’s only part of the picture. How good are you at building up sexual tension after the first date? Do you even understand what sexual tension is all about? I [...]

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I was out at a bar last night with a friend in the West Village, sitting at the bar having a late dinner. We were there for about an hour. While we were there, I saw a guy walking around talking to basically every woman or group of women who were standing or sitting around [...]

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Why on earth would you take someone out for dinner on a first date… unless of course the woman is homeless and she needs a good meal. To sit across from somebody and watch them chew down food while you tell each other the same stories you’ve told a hundred times is boring! It is [...]

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Remember the movie A Few Good Men, when Jack Nicholson looked at Tom Cruise and said, “You can’t handle a good blow job!” Well, ok, he didn’t really say that. But in my version he did. So you meet a new woman, and she’s so full of sexual energy. She’s usually anywhere from 28 to [...]

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If I could only go back in time, I’d do that differently. If I could only go back to that night and speak to that woman that I was attracted to. If I only got her phone number. If I only gave him my phone number. If I only took that job and not this [...]

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“R u busy?” “Having a blast” “Lets hangout rlly soon” What the hell is David Wygant talking about today? Here’s what: When you just take a “ready, set, send” approach to texting, sending those words into cyberspace and onto somebody else’s phone, so many times it just comes out as gibberish. I’ll tell you something, [...]

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The other day I got a great email from a client that got me thinking about how many of you guys really let your past and where you come from in life to prevent you from reaching great success in dating, in connecting to the opposite sex on a deeper level, and in making yourself [...]

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She’s sexy. She’s hot. She turns you on more than any woman you’ve ever been with. Are you excited yet? Is there any problem that you can see in the foreseeable future? In the beginning of the relationship, she does everything for you. She’s cool. You go out with your friends, she doesn’t question it [...]

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My regular readers know that I travel to Europe a lot. I’m asked this question via email all the time: “What’s the difference between European women and American women?” Really the difference is not much. I like European women, and I like American women. Sure, there are neurotic American women, there are uptight European women, [...]

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