Archive for David Deangelo
How To Recover From A Bad Breakup
by David Deangelo.
DATING QUESTION FROM A READER
I am at the end of long long divorce settlement – (18 months) I started dating about six months after our split — meeting most on the internet- Found I was naturally using some cocky and funny but accelerated when I started getting your newsletter.
Meeting them and lining them up has been no problem-but once we are intimate –they want exclusivity–I can’t know what I want yet (except sex)–but don’t want some of the good ones to get away–I keep hearing “you want your cake and eat it too!!”
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4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men
Most men HATE the idea of “rejection”. I’m not talking about “don’t like the idea” or “wish it didn’t happen”… I’m talking HATE here.
The idea of walking up to a woman and having her REJECT you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally feel a horrible combination of nervousness and confusion.
A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.
Most men find this state so scary that they end up deciding to forget about approaching the women… just to end the discomfort. The temptation is great to just “walk away” because just as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it goes away when you decide to “forget about it and walk away”.
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How To Be The Man Every Woman Wants
I wanted to share a secret to attracting women that I believe is one of the ULTIMATE advantages you can have.
When I was first learning about how to get past my internal fears… how to approach women and start conversations… how to create attraction and chemistry… and how to take things to the next level… I wound up trying a TON of different “tricks and techniques”.
Whenever I found a new “trick” that worked for me, I felt like I had just put another piece of the puzzle together… that I had gotten just that much closer to REALLY understanding how things worked.
But there was another feeling that happened even MORE often:
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Comment About Cocky And Funny
This was taken from a recent comment. I think it really speaks to what we need to focus on to improve our game especially with negs and cocky and funny:
90% of these comments just let me know that no matter how far we are trying to get away from cheezy pickup lines and acting like a douchebag, most guys just don’t seem to get it. I feel like I’m on a high-school forum for either “who can come up with the sappiest line”, or “who can make the girl see how much of a tool I really am?”
Guys, your “negs” are completely out of sync with what we have learned from Mystery, Style, DeAngelo, etc. For some strange reason, a forum devoted to PUA material has been reduced to an SNL skit about “how to be an arrogant jackass that thinks he’s a stand-up-comedian”. Have you learned NOTHING by studying The Game!?
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How To Get An Ex-Girlfriend Back
by David DeAngelo.
So, let’s start with the definition of the word WUSSY…
This word is a combination of the words “Wimp” and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.
In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.
The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator.
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Overcoming Fear Of Women
NOTE: One of the most powerful ways to build a strong “Inner Game” confidence is to actually go inside and turn yourself into a MATURE man. I know it sounds a little crazy, but if you’re ever going to have the kind of success that you really want with women (and in life), then you are going to have to do it. If this makes sense to you, then read THIS.
>>>COMMENT FROM A READER:
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How To Fix Your “Inner Game” Dating Problems
A good one from David Deangelo:
I have a couple of PERSONAL questions I’d like to ask you…
You may have never shared these things with anyone before… but I want you to think about them, and be as honest as possible…
Has the lack of women in your life ever made you worry that something might be WRONG with you… but you don’t exactly know what?
Have you ever felt (or do you feel now) that if you could just get that one special girl, those feelings would disappear… and everything would be ok?
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Why Women Test You, And How To Respond
Women test men.
That’s the reality of the situation. Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and they keep on testing FOREVER. If you don’t know how to deal with the tests that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE chance of improving your success in the dating world.
HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN?
For most guys, the concept of a woman “testing” them seems a little strange.
Why would a woman WANT to test a man?
What could she possibly gain from it?
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Is “Romance” Attractive To Women?
You’ve probably noticed that I don’t talk about the idea of “romance” very often.
There’s a good reason for this.
I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are interested in. I’m going to take some time here to talk about my personal perspective on romance, how it is misused, and how to use it to really make a woman feel attracted to you. Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be “romantic”:
1) They try to use romance to CREATE attraction.
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Ultimate Natural Game
My friend over in London, Richard La Ruina has been working away for close to a year on a fantastic DVD set. I’ve had a sneak peak and it looks awesome. Watch this to see some of what I’m talking about.
It features top PUAs Gambler, Adam Lyons, and Kezia.
Although I didn’t get a chance to review it yet, I love everything these guys do and if structured Natural Game is your thing, you should check out more here.
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Work That Inner Game
I thought it was funny that some of you guys hadn’t heard of Deep Inner Game by David Deangelo and Doctor Paul. (Not to be confused with Derek Vitalio’s Deep Inner Game knock off)
Here’s a clip from Deep Inner Game…
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David Deangelo For President?
This is an interesting news story about Double Your Dating founder David Deangelo:
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