Archive for Approaching Women
Your Three Advantages On Halloween
A new article from Savoy of Love Systems.
ONE: WOMEN DRESS SEXIER (MORE PROVOCATIVELY)
People act to fulfill their roles. Dress like a loser and it’s easy to act like one. Dress like a man who makes things happen, and you fall into that role.
(Have you ever put on a suit and instantly felt a bit more powerful? That’s what I’m talking about.)
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Impact Makes Connection Part 1 (Kezia)
Why is creating connection with a woman so important? And how can you achieve it?
I will be giving you a female perspective on this, and will show you the steps you need to understand in order for you to obtain a deep and significant connection with a woman.
I will also explain why you can benefit immensely if you manage to make a deep connection with her and how you can use this particular skill for years to come.
External/surface/superficial connection
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You’re Not Bothering Them
I was with a friend of mine the other day who was in town visiting, and he said to me “I actually do see women I’m attracted to, but when I do I don’t want to go over and bother them. She’s probably hit on all the time, so she would probably be annoyed that I’m walking over to talk to her.”
So I looked at him (while keeping an eye on the road at the same time), and said “That’s your excuse! That’s your fear making you feel okay about not trying to go over there and talk to her. That is the way that you protect yourself from being rejected. You figure by not going over and talking to her, and by making up an excuse for her, you can rationalize in your head that it was not the time to go over and talk to her. This excuse makes you feel better.”
So he looked at me (because he didn’t have to keep his eyes on the road), and said “So you’re telling me that women would be up for speaking with me?”
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A Quick Bar Opener
Do you want a quick easy fun bar opener that no one ever thinks of or uses.
Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar – so that everyone in the bar was standing around us – and just talked animatedly.
And women started coming over to us, asking, “What are you guys talking about?” We’d say, “Look, I’ll meet with you in five minutes; we just have to finish this conversation.” I would push them away a little bit, which would intrigue them a little bit more. In a bar, you can be very playful like that.
So after a few minutes, I looked at one woman and kind of waved her over. She came over and asked, “What?” and I said, “You were curious about what we were talking about, and I want to tell you.” Then I explained what it was we were talking about. “We were just discussion life and the nature of spirituality…” and she just stood there with her mouth wide open.
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Stop Selling Yourself by David Wygant
As those of you who have been reading the blog know, I’ve been shopping for a new house lately. Whenever I walk into a new house, or if I’m looking to buy a new car, or audio equipment, video equipment, whatever – I always walk in and look at the salesperson as they are about to start their spiel and say, “you can’t close me. I am not somebody you can ever close. So you don’t need to give me the spiel; let me figure this out for myself. You can hang out with me for a little bit, and if I like you, I’ll probably give you some business.”
I’ve found that many people, when approaching someone of the opposite sex, are just trying to close the deal. They are just trying to sell themselves.
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Walk Away by David Wygant
In order to grab the woman that you want, you need to learn the art of walking away. Most men will not walk away.
What happens to most men is that they’ll go to a party, find a woman they want to talk to, smother her, and they won’t leave . . . this results in the woman’s attraction level dropping each minute this continues. The opposite result occurs, i.e., the attraction increases, when you walk away from a woman to whom you’re most attracted.
Take this example. You walk up to talk to a woman you’re really attracted to, you connect and have a good conversation with her for a couple of minutes, and then . . . you walk away. When you walk away, it gives her a moment to reflect and to think “That guy just walked away. No one just walks away. Most men smother me. How come this guy just walked away?”
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Playing The Percentages Free Audio by David Wygant
It is called play the percentages and how you can really increase your odds in attracting and meeting hot women. Download it below. Let me know what you think.
If you enjoyed it, take a minute to check out my other videos and podcasts.
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Approaching Mailbag by Stephen Nash
Since Donovan has asked me to post to his blog, I’ve received a number of interesting questions from fellow-readers (feel free to keep them coming too, your question may be in the minds of many!).
Got a GREAT one the other day, and wanted to post it with my reply. This guy’s note to me was great because it was an ACTUAL report. A lot of notes that I get are very vague, and it’s hard for me to respond. Not this guy though – he really outlines what happened, and what actions he took…which leads to more feedback.
Let’s hear from him first:
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Approach Anxiety II by Paul Janka
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Part 3
Most men get anxious at the prospect of approaching an attractive woman because they don’t know what to expect. That is due to a lack of experience. As you get more comfortable approaching people, you will start to appreciate how similar women are, and you’ll develop standard ways to overcome their objections or make them laugh by teasing them or engaging them in an unusual manner. And, more generally, you’ll develop an ease and comfort with other people – even strangers – that will translate nicely into a confidence that women find irresistible.
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Approach Anxiety I by Paul Janka
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Well… Let’s see. I guess we should start at the beginning, at that first step that hangs up a lot of guys: approach anxiety. It’s certainly a valid starting point and every guy can relate to seeing that hot girl walk by and feeling the tug, but doing nothing. Chances are if you don’t initiate contact she’ll slip forever out of your reach. So, it becomes the single most important part of the process because without it, you’re not even in the game with her.
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How To Pick Up Girls Who Have Boyfriends by Roosh
I’m going to skip the whole moral argument that you shouldn’t hit on a girl who has a boyfriend. If you don’t believe in hitting on girls who have boyfriend then that’s cool, otherwise read on.
First, don’t even bother with newly engaged or married girls. I think you’ll have better chances with a nun than a girl who just made a huge commitment with another man. It takes at least a few months for that to wear out.
That leaves two other types of girls with boyfriends: ones that are unhappy and ones that are neither unhappy nor quite ecstatic either. The best way to find out what type of girl you are dealing with is the length of time it takes until she drops the boyfriend.
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Signals (Stephen Nash Column)
Let’s talk a little bit about “signals” this week.
Women send them to you ALL THE TIME, and if you’re like the majority of men, you’re completely illiterate about reading them.
I’m going to actually list them at the end of this article, so you can never “wonder” about this again.
In fact, print this list up and put it on an index card to have on hand with you at all times.
Ever find yourself in this little scenario?
There you are, walking down the street, and you lock eyes with an attractive woman. You both hold this stare for as long as you possibly can.
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