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Do you know why 99% of men get INSTANTLY REJECTED when they approach a high-quality woman? I know you think you know the answer, but I can almost guarantee that YOU DON’T. Fact is, after watching so many men rely on their looks… their bank accounts… lame “pick up” lines and memorized “scripts”… All of [...]
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Here is something that I want every guy in the world to remember, and it’s something really important. Once you get this, it is something that will help you to grow immensely. And here is what I want you to remember: Every woman is wired the exact same way. I don’t care if she is [...]
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I’m going to tell you something that you might not believe, but it is 100% true so pay attention: There is no such thing as rejection! Rejection is just an insecurity in your own mind. Think about it, rejection doesn’t really exist. It is a made-up thought and a made-up word. How many of you [...]
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The other day I was with a client in Baja Fresh and he saw a woman he just could not take his eyes off of. So what did I have him do and how is a napkin such a powerful meeting tool? I was sitting across from my client and we needed a few napkins. [...]
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A Series on Approach Anxiety by Paul Janka Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 Most men get anxious at the prospect of approaching an attractive woman because they don’t know what to expect. That is due to a lack of experience. As you get more comfortable learning how to pick up women, you will start [...]
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It’s Friday night and I am sure a bunch of you guys are going to be out on the prowl. I am sure some of you have your routines all ready to go, all you need is a willing and able drunk girl who will buy into your planned course of action. Heres the deal [...]
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A client of mine just asked me a great question, and I wanted to share it with all of you. He asked me, “What if I walk over to a woman and I say something that I think is absolutely hilarious, and she looks at me with a snotty look on her face and says [...]
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Happy Friday!! Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night? This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do [...]
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Your approach should follow a “movie trailer” format. Keep it short, condensed, intriguing and light. You want to leave right when she’s most interested. And you need to leave with the phone number, or the whole act is worthless. Intercede during a moment of transition or confusion. For example, if she’s on the street and [...]
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by Paul Janka Capturing a woman’s attention is a skill men have been perfecting for millennia. There are many ways of doing so, and it can be done by creating any number of emotional states: intrigue, awe, affection, fear, hatred, lust, etc. And, men have invented what we call “society” to serve them in their [...]
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