Archive for Approaching Women
Stop Selling Yourself by David Wygant
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As those of you who have been reading the blog know, I’ve been shopping for a new house lately. Whenever I walk into a new house, or if I’m looking to buy a new car, or audio equipment, video equipment, whatever – I always walk in and look at the salesperson as they are about to start their spiel and say, “you can’t close me. I am not somebody you can ever close. So you don’t need to give me the spiel; let me figure this out for myself. You can hang out with me for a little bit, and if I like you, I’ll probably give you some business.”
I’ve found that many people, when approaching someone of the opposite sex, are just trying to close the deal. They are just trying to sell themselves.
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Walk Away by David Wygant
In order to grab the woman that you want, you need to learn the art of walking away. Most men will not walk away.
What happens to most men is that they’ll go to a party, find a woman they want to talk to, smother her, and they won’t leave . . . this results in the woman’s attraction level dropping each minute this continues. The opposite result occurs, i.e., the attraction increases, when you walk away from a woman to whom you’re most attracted.
Take this example. You walk up to talk to a woman you’re really attracted to, you connect and have a good conversation with her for a couple of minutes, and then . . . you walk away. When you walk away, it gives her a moment to reflect and to think “That guy just walked away. No one just walks away. Most men smother me. How come this guy just walked away?”
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Playing The Percentages Free Audio by David Wygant
It is called play the percentages and how you can really increase your odds in attracting and meeting hot women. Download it below. Let me know what you think.
If you enjoyed it, take a minute to check out my other videos and podcasts.
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Approaching Mailbag by Stephen Nash
Since Donovan has asked me to post to his blog, I’ve received a number of interesting questions from fellow-readers (feel free to keep them coming too, your question may be in the minds of many!).
Got a GREAT one the other day, and wanted to post it with my reply. This guy’s note to me was great because it was an ACTUAL report. A lot of notes that I get are very vague, and it’s hard for me to respond. Not this guy though – he really outlines what happened, and what actions he took…which leads to more feedback.
Let’s hear from him first:
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Approach Anxiety II by Paul Janka
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Most men get anxious at the prospect of approaching an attractive woman because they don’t know what to expect. That is due to a lack of experience. As you get more comfortable approaching people, you will start to appreciate how similar women are, and you’ll develop standard ways to overcome their objections or make them laugh by teasing them or engaging them in an unusual manner. And, more generally, you’ll develop an ease and comfort with other people – even strangers – that will translate nicely into a confidence that women find irresistible.
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Approach Anxiety I by Paul Janka
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Well… Let’s see. I guess we should start at the beginning, at that first step that hangs up a lot of guys: approach anxiety. It’s certainly a valid starting point and every guy can relate to seeing that hot girl walk by and feeling the tug, but doing nothing. Chances are if you don’t initiate contact she’ll slip forever out of your reach. So, it becomes the single most important part of the process because without it, you’re not even in the game with her.
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How To Pick Up Girls Who Have Boyfriends by Roosh

I’m going to skip the whole moral argument that you shouldn’t hit on a girl who has a boyfriend. If you don’t believe in hitting on girls who have boyfriend then that’s cool, otherwise read on.
First, don’t even bother with newly engaged or married girls. I think you’ll have better chances with a nun than a girl who just made a huge commitment with another man. It takes at least a few months for that to wear out.
That leaves two other types of girls with boyfriends: ones that are unhappy and ones that are neither unhappy nor quite ecstatic either. The best way to find out what type of girl you are dealing with is the length of time it takes until she drops the boyfriend.
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Signals (Stephen Nash Column)
Let’s talk a little bit about “signals” this week.
Women send them to you ALL THE TIME, and if you’re like the majority of men, you’re completely illiterate about reading them.
I’m going to actually list them at the end of this article, so you can never “wonder” about this again.
In fact, print this list up and put it on an index card to have on hand with you at all times.
Ever find yourself in this little scenario?
There you are, walking down the street, and you lock eyes with an attractive woman. You both hold this stare for as long as you possibly can.
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The Importance Of The Opening (Kezia Column)
I want to look at the actual importance of an opening; the question being: is it the most important part of pick up or maybe the least?
I usually go with the latter statement but I also accept that in some situations the “opener” can be more of a major factor than in other circumstances.
However, I stick by my opinion that it is never beneficial when one is putting too much energy and emphasis into a fixed a routine, or getting hung up too much on that killer opener.
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Engage With The Reversal (Stephen Nash Column)
This weekly column has been getting loads of great feedback! Thanks for all your emails and comments. Keep them coming. I’m here every Monday.
I had an interesting conversation the other night that I wanted to share.
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10 Ways To Get Started With Game (Sinn Column)
Hey guys for my first article on the Seduction chronicles, I wanted to write to the brand new guys who may need a guiding hand in getting in the game. So without further ado here’s 10 things to do to get started in “The Game”.
1. Get a new haircut. This doesn’t have to be expensive, but the psychological ramifications of shedding your old look can’t be overstated. The first thing you should do is find a gay hairstylist. For the most part female hairstylists will cute your hair to make you look safe, whereas a gay guy will cut it to make you look sexy. Don’t try to control what he does, just let him go to town. You’ll now also have a new way of looking at yourself when you see your new haircut in the mirror.
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Beware The Alpha Females (Kezia Column)
I’m Kezia, and in my first Wednesday column I want to touch on an important point for the starter PUAs rather than the advanced guys.
After a few hours of theory I regularly send my students out on day game. I accompany them to a bookstore, café, gallery, museum, department store, etc.
Before sending him on an approach, I remind him of the three vital elements of pick up which I would have already taught him in the theory session (a blog post for another time.) After helping him locate his target, I find my position to make sure I can not only see him but hear him too, and off he goes, beaming with high energy, high status value and a general positive frame of mind.
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