Scot Mckay Column

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Scot McKay has burst onto the scene in the last year or so and quickly set himself apart with a unique approach he calls "character-based". Through a combination of "deserving what you want" and decoding the opposite sex's thought process, Scot talks about how a masculine, confident man of true character and leadership skill is an authentic representation of the man the most desirable women want, obviating the need for "tricks" and "techniques". His next-generation concepts transcend mere pickup and seduction and describe a state of having 100% control over one's dating life, culminating in the ability to attract the highest quality women on Earth, effectively manage relationships and make wise decisions from a position of strength.

Represent What Women Want… And Start Calling The Shots

September 17th, 2008 • Scot Mckay • Related • Filed Under • 0 comments

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Last time I shared with you all the secrets to becoming the “chooser” instead of the “chaser”?

What is all comes down to is representing what women crave in a man rather than trying to cajole women into giving you what you crave first. Leadership, right? You deliver what high-quality women want, and you get your desires met in return.

Now, as promised, it’s time to get down to the practical ways you can become that man who women crave long-term.

Rest-assured, there are indeed certain traits that a woman is looking for in a man when deciding who to spend the rest of her life with, build a family with, etc.

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The Magical Relationship Management Skill

August 13th, 2008 • Scot Mckay • Related • Filed Under • 5 comments

There’s a lot of focus on getting the lay in the Seduction Community. And let’s hear it for good, hard mind-numbing all-nighters with hot sexy vixens who are obsessed with both giving and receiving multiple orgasms. I’m a red-blooded guy and you’ll get no argument from me.

But here’s the problem. Based on what lands in my inbox day after day, there are a lot of guys who aren’t getting what they want out of their dating lives, despite having what would appear to be a rock-solid skillset when it comes to pickup.

There’s a laughably simple reason for this.

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Why Even Desperate Guys Won’t Marry Their Girlfriends

July 7th, 2008 • Scot Mckay • Related • Filed Under • 8 comments

Welcome to the latest installment on relationship management. I’m appreciating your comments and e-mails. I’m also stoked that so many of you guys are ready to take the long-view past pickup and look into what it takes to be the master of your own destiny with women…no matter what your personal vision of the future looks like.

A subtitle to the admittedly brash title of today’s article could be, “Why Some Women Can’t Go Three Dates Between Marriage Proposals”.

What we’re talking about here are the differences between women we want to have around for as long as possible, and the ones we can’t quite see a future with.

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Relationship Management: Being In Control Vs. Being A Controller

June 27th, 2008 • Scot Mckay • Related • Filed Under • 7 comments

Back when I was in the IT world I flew to Chicago quite a bit. Since United Airlines is hubbed at O’Hare (or “ORD”), that was my usual airline of choice.

Now, whatever your personal opinion of United Airlines is, there are two ultra-cool things about UA that cannot be denied: 1) They serve Starbucks on board, and… 2) …if you tune in to channel 9 on their in-flight audio system, you can listen to air traffic control (aka “ATC”) in real time.

While cruising at 38,000 feet, overhearing the Ft. Worth Area Control Center hand off to Kansas City Center is admittedly not the most exciting thing in the world.

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Five Ways To Become P-Whipped Without Even Knowing What Hit You

June 10th, 2008 • Scot Mckay • Related • Filed Under • 7 comments

This is the first article by Scot McKay of X & Y Communications. He’s going to be our featured columnist on Relationship Management. I know many of you guys would love to know how to keep girlfriends and make your relationships more enjoyable.

There’s always a lot of emphasis placed on not giving one’s power away when relating to women. Yet, the exact meaning of this concept continually eludes a lot of guys out there.

It’s easy to see why this would be the case.

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