Before I go into today’s blog, though, a little update for you. Within the last week I went to get a second opinion about my back, and based upon that I am not going to have surgery.

According to this doctor, who is one of the top doctors in Los Angeles, my body can heal itself. Apparently what I have is really not that serious. The doctor says that the herniated disc and the fragments that are attached to it can heal themselves.

Our bodies can work miraculous recoveries. The doctor actually told me that I am crazy to undergo surgery when I can heal without it. So, now I am in the process of healing myself.

It’s interesting how we really have the power to do anything. I truly believe that. You have the power to heal yourself. You have the power to cure yourself of anything.

A lot of you suffer from approach anxiety. A lot of you suffer from fear of intimacy. The reason you suffer from these things are the stories that you’ve created behind them.

A lot of us create stories. Now, I’m not talking about telling a great story. I’m talking about the stories you create about things that happen (or don’t happen), and the fears and emotions you attach to events.

Let me give you an example. Say you’re fooling around with someone, and they say “Not tonight” when you invite them to stay the night. Immediately you think to yourself, “You know, every single time this happens. Women just aren’t attracted to me. I don’t know what it is. I must not be a good lover.”

That dialog in your head is the story you’re creating. You’re creating that story instead of listening in the moment. Stories are created when you don’t listen to what’s actually going on in the moment.

Here is another good example. Say you ask a woman out and she says, “I’ve got a boyfriend.” So many guys will immediately create an entire story about that when this happens. They think, “Why does this always happen to me? What am I doing wrong?”

These are the stories we create, and those stories are the way that we validate how we are. In reality, though, those stories are nothing more than your fears and excuses.

You go out to bars and every night you come home and think, “You know, the same thing happens every time. I always go up to a woman at the end of the night and she doesn’t seem interested. Women just aren’t attracted to me.”

The truth is that all of that is just the story you’ve created. The real reason women aren’t attracted to you in the bar is because you stare at them all night long, and then by the time you walk over to them they don’t respond well to you because you’ve given you the creepy “stalker guy” vibe.

So really, what are your stories? Behind what do you hide? You need to become conscious of what your stories are, so that you’ll realize that those stories are just fears and excuses. If you would just really listen to people, you wouldn’t need to create all these stories.

Have you ever listened to someone, actually head what they were saying and didn’t create a story based upon it? A woman at the end of a first date says “God, I had such a great time! Can’t wait to see you again.”

So instead of listening to what that woman says, you create a story and you think, “I wonder if she actually means it. I’ve heard women say that before and things didn’t work out.” Based on that you then wait five days or a week to call her.

That’s what we do. We create stories. You do it, and I do it.

Someone doesn’t call you back, and immediately you create a whole story based upon it. You think, “Barry is ignoring my calls. Why is he ignoring my calls. Why is he ignoring my texts?” The reality may be that the person is not doing that at all. The reality may be that they just put their phone down, or left it somewhere, or that they were having dinner with a friend.

We all do this, but this is not what life is all about. Life is about getting out of your head and stopping yourself from creating stories that aren’t true. When you create stories that aren’t true, they based on paranoid fears from past programming.

You need to start recognizing this behavior. When you start creating a story in your head, you need to realize from where that story is coming and then be able to separate what is truth from what is just a story.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/19/what-story-do-you-hide-behind/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/15/stop-speaking-from-your-dick/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/15/stop-speaking-from-your-dick/#comments Mon, 15 Jun 2009 20:30:47 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1151 Today’s podcast is all about speaking from your heart and communicating from your heart. This is something that really sunk in with me the other day during a conversation with my girlfriend. I really became conscious of the important difference between speaking from your head and speaking from your heart.

I was really irritated about something — I don’t know if it was something having to do with her or something else, but I was frustrated. As I was talking to her, she says to me “You’re so in your head. Speak from your heart.” So I took a deep breath and thought about it, and I realized that I was speaking from frustration (and from my head).

Speaking from the head (as opposed to from the heart) is something that men in particular tend to do when talking to women. We want to go and meet women, and yet we’re not speaking their language.

Women understand and are usually all about speaking from their heart and soul. Men, on the other hand, will talk to women and stay in their head the entire time.
All they are doing the entire time is thinking about what to say next and what to do.

When men do this, women know it. It shows. They will say “hello” in a nervous tone of voice, or say some line in a completely dispassionate way (all because they read somewhere that it was something they should say). They speak with absolutely no passion.

Have you ever had an argument with a woman where they start telling you all sorts of things that start with the words “I feeeeeel. . .?” All you hear is that extended sound of all the “e’s” as she says those dreaded “I feeeeel this” and “I feeeel that” phrases. It drives you crazy because you don’t want to hear the word “feel.”

Feeling, however, is what women are all about. Women feel and speak from their heart. They want to connect with you.

The reason so many guys fail when they approach women is because they’re talking either from their penis or from their head. They are like a walking penis, approaching women in a way that says to them “Hello. I’m holding my penis in my hands. Do you want to touch it?”

When men think with their dick (and sometimes only with their dick), women feel it. They know it.

One of the greatest exercises I tell men to do, is to just walk up to people all day long, and say to them from their heart “Hi. How are you today?” A lot of guys will refuse to do this exercise because they don’t think it’s fun, but it is a great way to learn how to communicate sincerely with people (including with women).

People really understand when you’re sincere. They know it. They can smell it if you’re not.

The insincerity tied to the use of pickup lines and routines exposes you right from the get-go. Women will know immediately that you are not sincere and aren’t speaking from your heart.

The other day, someone asked me when this whole concept came to fruition for me. I have actually been great with women most of my adult life, but once I started speaking from my heart my connections with women got deeper and more intense.

So, let’s say you see a woman who intrigues you and you want to approach her. She just ordered a great-looking sandwich.

You need to walk over to that woman with the curiosity of a little kid and say something like, “God that looks good! What is that?” She will feel your passion and your sincerity. She can smell it.

If, however, you walk over to her with your penis leading you and comment on the sandwich only because it’s a way to “open” her, then she is going to perceive you completely differently.

You may say something very similar like “Hello. Is that a good sandwich?” If you’re nervous because you are worried about how to deliver the line, though, the woman will smell it. She will know that you actually couldn’t care less whether or not she is enjoying that sandwich.

You’ve got to speak from your heart. Life is not about speaking from your head, and so many of us spend most of our time doing that. Life is about speaking from your heart.

I go into more depth about how to speak from your heart to make better connections with women. Find out how women can begin to perceive you in a whole different light … starting RIGHT NOW.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/15/stop-speaking-from-your-dick/feed/ 9 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/07/do-you-suffer-from-perfect-picture-disease/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/07/do-you-suffer-from-perfect-picture-disease/#comments Sun, 07 Jun 2009 22:34:04 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1141 What is the perfect picture mentality? On a Friday night, we go out with these amazing expectations of what is going to occur.

We think, this is the night; this is the party or whatever thing we’re meant to go to. We have this perfect idea of how the night should turn out.

You’re going to talk to the woman who had that college sweatshirt on two weeks ago, because you finally have figured out something to say to her. But then she walks in wearing a different sweatshirt, and you don’t have anything to say.

We have this perfect picture of the way things are going to be. And then once we arrive, the night progresses and reality begins to set in. When reality sets in, all of a sudden that perfect picture just disappears.

Our monkey chatter starts coming back, and all of the things we imagined the night to be contrast what the night really is.

Most people, when they go out, are not present at all. They are thinking about what COULD happen.

Listen to a conversation of people in a bar – the men are always telling each other, “Hey man, check her out!” You’re not even listening to the conversation that you’re having at that moment with your friend!

So if you dial it back a little bit and remain 100% present, the outcome will be entirely different. If you’re fully present and into the conversation you’re having with your friend, you’re actually creating attraction. You’re creating the type of night that you want to have.

You have to get this picture out of your head. We all do it – even on dates. Maybe you’re on the third date and you’re thinking, this is going to be the night that you sleep with her. You make her dinner at your house, and you think that everything is going to be perfect – but you didn’t realize that she had a stomachache and her period.

So you come on to her a little bit, she pushes you away, and you’re thinking to yourself, I don’t understand! She tells you that tonight is not a good night for her, and you take it personally as either an insult or rejection. But really, it just wasn’t a good night for her!

This perfect picture tends to ruin just about every night that we have. Our expectations are so strong and powerful that we ruin it.

Staying present and getting rid of expectations really give you the opportunity to expand and enjoy yourself. I’ve found that the best nights that I’ve had are the ones where nothing turned into something. My worst nights are the ones where I have expectations so let go of everything stay present and have fun.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/06/07/do-you-suffer-from-perfect-picture-disease/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/21/stop-stalking-women/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/21/stop-stalking-women/#comments Fri, 22 May 2009 05:35:00 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/21/stop-stalking-women/ On my blog this week I have spent a lot of time talking about ass.

Let’s continue Ass Week, because really let’s be honest. Most men will always want to check out a woman’s ass. It reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Kramer mistakenly gets a Proctologist’s vanity plates which say “Assman” on them.

I thought I’d go a little deeper, though, for today’s Ass Week blog. So for most of the men out there who want to be able to get some ass, you especially will want to pay attention to this story I’m going to tell.

Today I’d like to talk about The Slow Stalker. This guy is my favorite. My girlfriend and I actually just ran into him.

We were at a farmer’s market the other day walking arm in arm, and as we passed this guy he stopped and stared bug-eyed at my girlfriend like he’d never before seen a woman breathing. He must have looked at her at least five or six times, and each time he looked at her he just got creepier and creepier. I swear I saw drool coming out of his mouth.

Then he did what all creepy men do. He got on his phone and became Poser Man. You know this guy. He’s in front of you – not ten feet away – and he gets on his phone and does ‘the pose.”

He does his best George Clooney impression, he looks down, puts his leg out and then rolls up his sleeve while flexing his bicep. Once he’s done all this, he then becomes the third person in this group: Model Man.

After Model Man shows you a few different poses featuring different angles of his face and bicep, he’ll then do “the catwalk” and pace five steps back and forth (and back and forth). You can almost hear a gay choreographer or Richard Simmons chanting “Uh 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5…”

This leads us to the fourth guy: Hair Flip Man. When he’s finished being persons one through three, Model Man turns into Hair Flip Man. He gets off his phone, takes three steps and then flips his hair back as he saunters off into the distance.

This leads to what this guy really is all together: Feminine Man. Because really, all of these techniques are so ridiculously feminine.

Did he learn them from watching America’s Next Top Model? Is he a friend of the choreographer from American Idol?

The funny this about this particular “ass man” is that he perfected all five Feminine Man techniques. It’s really a shame that I didn’t have my video camera with me so you could see this specimen on display!

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/21/stop-stalking-women/feed/ 2 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/15/become-a-711/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/15/become-a-711/#comments Sat, 16 May 2009 02:05:40 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/15/become-a-711/ I don’t know if any of you wake up cheery, but I have a rule with everyone who works with me that there are no phone calls before noon. I like to slowly wake up in the morning . . . whatever time that may be.

I mean, my girlfriend and I hardly talk to each other in the morning. In the morning, I go for a walk and make breakfast while she goes and gets herself ready. We rarely even speak before 11:00 a.m.

Right now, though, I have houseguests. Yes, my girlfriend’s mother and her aunt are staying with us and they like to start talking to me first thing thing in the morning. So I have developed a routine. I’m friendly and I smile, but then I go down to the beach and answer emails on my BlackBerry for an hour.

My Grandmother always liked to talk to me in the morning. I can’t tell you how many countless mornings I would lay in my bed with a full bladder just to avoid having her talk to me when I’d get up to go and pee.

I’ve never been a morning talker. Now try shutting me up at night, and that’s a whole other story.

Today’s topic is about learning to face your own kind of fears. What are you holding back on in your life? What is your biggest fear?

This past week has been the first of two weeks I’ll have my girlfriend’s family in town. The longest I’ve ever had family in town before now has been one week.

Hell, I was the guy who bailed on family dinners after 90 minutes. When I grew up, family functions stressed me out so much that I always had an escape route.

With guests having been here now for about a week, I have really learned so much about who I am and what is important. This has been a huge bonding experience for my girlfriend and I, and I am fully enjoying every minute of it.

What we fear has a way to cripple us and make us really terrified of the unknown. Once you dive into that unknown, however, you actually learn so much more about who you are as a person.

Do you remember the first time you were forced to dive into the water, and the fear you had about going into the water head first? Life is all about diving in head first, and just trusting that each experience will really open you up to a whole new you.

Today’s podcast is about how you need to be open to all new experiences, and why the things you fear the most will actually be your most life-changing experiences.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/15/become-a-711/feed/ 0 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/04/a-quick-bar-opener/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/04/a-quick-bar-opener/#comments Mon, 04 May 2009 20:39:06 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1109 Do you want a quick easy fun bar opener that no one ever thinks of or uses.

Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar – so that everyone in the bar was standing around us – and just talked animatedly.

And women started coming over to us, asking, “What are you guys talking about?” We’d say, “Look, I’ll meet with you in five minutes; we just have to finish this conversation.” I would push them away a little bit, which would intrigue them a little bit more. In a bar, you can be very playful like that.

So after a few minutes, I looked at one woman and kind of waved her over. She came over and asked, “What?” and I said, “You were curious about what we were talking about, and I want to tell you.” Then I explained what it was we were talking about. “We were just discussion life and the nature of spirituality…” and she just stood there with her mouth wide open.

So then I looked at her and asked, “So tell me, how do you feel about this?” and for five minutes she went off on a tangent, full of passion and emotion, just like I did. She was mimicking my body language the entire time.

Most guys at bars are thinking about what the woman’s body language says. Who cares! It’s your body language that will attract other people.

So once I got her all full of passion, I asked her, “Are those your friends?” She said they were. “Alright, bring them over. We need more people’s opinions.” We had ten people – two of us, and eight girls – all sitting there and talking about spirituality and what it means to be alive. We had the most amazing conversation.

When we left, they all looked at us and said, “This was the greatest experience we’ve ever had in a bar!” It was the first time they’d ever had a real conversation at a bar.

It all comes from you putting yourself in the middle of that bar and saying to yourself: I will be the center of attention in this room tonight. I will talk to my friend and pull over whomever I want in this room!

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/05/04/a-quick-bar-opener/feed/ 2 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/24/kill-the-bogeyman/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/24/kill-the-bogeyman/#comments Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:50:39 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1088 Jason Voorhees is coming at you right now at summer camp holding a gigantic knife. Freddy Krueger is pulling you into the bed. Bruce, the mechanical shark from Jaws, is swimming right toward you at top speed.

The Bogeyman is actually in your closet. Remember when you were a little kid, and you were absolutely terrified to look under your bed because you thought the Bogeyman (or that evil clown from the movie Poltergeist) was hiding under it?

Remember all these terrifying moments as a child? You just couldn’t look inside that closet no matter what because you were truly afraid that the Bogeyman was hiding inside of it.

Do you know who the Bogeyman really is? Go to the mirror right now. Look in the mirror. Go ahead and take a good look in the mirror. YOU are the Bogeyman!

That’s right. You are the Bogeyman, because every fear that you have ever had in your entire life has been manifested in your own mind. Every fear. Every single one of them.

What is the Bogeyman in your head? Even more important, what is the biggest, scariest Bogeyman in your head?

You may have a fear of approaching the opposite sex. If you do, that is your Bogeyman.

You may have a fear of intimacy when you get close to somebody. If you do, then that is your Bogeyman.

You may have a fear of asking somebody out or calling them back. If you do, then that is your Bogeyman.

All of us need to learn how to eliminate the Bogeyman, because the Bogeyman is actually the scared little boy or girl that you really are.

Today’s podcast is not only going to blow you away, (and will make you think and laugh more than you have in a LONG time!) . . . but I have a very secret message that is at the very end of it. So be SURE you don’t miss it!!

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/24/kill-the-bogeyman/feed/ 0 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/13/don%e2%80%99t-settle-for-less/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/13/don%e2%80%99t-settle-for-less/#comments Tue, 14 Apr 2009 01:24:26 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/13/don%e2%80%99t-settle-for-less/ Are you dating somebody you really like? Or are you dating someone because you’re afraid that you will never meet anybody else better? Are you just compromising?

For those of you who missed my podcast a few weeks ago about the “it” factor, let me remind you what it is: it’s all about finding somebody that you’re really excited about. You know, that Tom Cruise jump-on-the-couch moment for Katie Holmes.

Sure, we all made fun of it, but who wouldn’t want to jump up and down on their own couch? We’re probably not famous enough to jump on Oprah’s couch, but wouldn’t you like to be so excited by someone that it made you want to jump up and down like that? Don’t you want to feel so excited about somebody that you’re just about to burst?

Dating shouldn’t be any different. Are you dating someone that you’re excited about? Or are you dating somebody just for the sake of dating? That means that you’re in this relationship because you want a relationship, but you’re still looking around.

How many of you are spending time with somebody that you’re really not all that into? Are you just kind of passing the time away with that person because you’re too afraid to go out and find somebody else?

That’s a big issue for a lot of people. So many guys will come to me and say, “David, I’m seeing somebody, but I’m just not really that excited about her.” I’ll ask these guys how long they’ve been dating this person, and they’ll say, “Two years.” What?!?

Two years is a long time to waste on somebody that you’re not excited about. You want to be excited and crazy about somebody. You want to be able to look at somebody and feel like they are the greatest person in the entire world.

For those of you who are in relationships like this, know that you are just wasting your time. Why are you so afraid?

What are your biggest fears? Where is your mindset? Share with me today. I’m always willing to share with you guys how I feel; I want to hear from you today. I want to know why you have done this in your past.

And check out the new Dating Management product that I created that really teaches you how to go out and find that amazing person. As I said a few weeks ago, I really want all of you to experience that “it” factor.

I want you to be really excited about the person that you are with, and not just compromise so you can be in a relationship. Compromising in life means that you are not fully embracing your life.

And if you’re not fully embracing your life right now, what are you waiting for? Tomorrow you might get hit by a bus. I know we always say that, but it’s true. I know for some of you that that doesn’t really resonate, because you don’t really live by any buses, but just think about it. You could get hit by lightning. Anything could happen.

A friend of mine lost his life when he was 25 years old because he was riding a bike in Italy, and he didn’t realize that the road turned. He was going too fast and he went over the side of a mountain. And I could just not believe it when I heard what had happened to him.

But you just never know when this journey is going to end. So why are you compromising so much in every aspect of your life?

How many of you are happy at your job? How many of you are compromising at your jobs? How many of you are in relationships where you are compromising, and why are you doing it?

Why are you making compromises instead of just going after what you want?

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/13/don%e2%80%99t-settle-for-less/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/04/the-ultimate-abundance-mindset/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/04/the-ultimate-abundance-mindset/#comments Sat, 04 Apr 2009 22:32:58 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/04/the-ultimate-abundance-mindset/ You want to have the ultimate mindset. It’s just like we were talking about– we were just discussing owning your own business, and sales – come January 1st, if you own your own business, you always feel like you are broke. In sales, you feel the same way.

You feel like you have to get that first deal of the year. You have to compare yourself to the previous year, and you want to continually improve your statistics. You’re competitive, you want to make more money, and you want to be more successful than you were the previous year.

We all do it – I do it too. I’ve done some really cheap things, like holding checks for the month of December, and then sticking them in the bank January 1st so I feel like I’ve made more money. You’re still paying the same amount of taxes on it, it doesn’t really make a difference, but this way you wake up on January 2nd, thinking, yeah, I’ve got all this cash in the bank already!

Here is something that someone very financially successful taught me a long time ago: don’t ever count what you’ve made THIS year. Count what you’ve made your entire adult life. In this way, you will feel abundance.

I think that this guy had made $20 million at this point. So he said instead of thinking to himself, man, I’m having an off year – instead, he thought, well, I’ve made $20 million so far!

You feel much more abundant then. You don’t have to count out each little deal, adding it up, putting a pencil to it and you’re not comparing yourself to others.

So take this same principle and apply it to your success with women.

So many guys will think, god, I’ve had a bad week. Instead, think, wow, I’ve gone out on 3,000 dates in my lifetime, and slept with 250 women!

Think abundance. Walk around and feel that abundance. Don’t think about what you’ve done just this month. Think about how many dates you’ve been on in your life. Then your energy will change, and the next time you talk to a woman, you’ll be talking to her with abundance and not desperation.

If you have a rough streak – which we all have, where life just doesn’t move as quickly – you might start putting pressure on yourself to break the streak. But if you can start thinking about all of the wonderful people you’ve met in your life, you’ll have the principle of abundance.

It’s just like the baseball player that’s in a slump. When a player is having a 2-10 slump, the best ones pull themselves out of it by thinking, well, I’ve still got a .300 average! You can always tell that a player in a 2-54 slump has just been thinking about how bad things are going for him. He’s started pressing.

When you start pressing in terms of meeting women, or even if you’re pressing in business or just in life in general, write down all of your successes.

Take a day off from chasing – be it money or women – and then go back the next day with a brand new attitude of how successful you’re entire life has been. That’s how you do it. It’s all about the mindset.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/04/the-ultimate-abundance-mindset/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/03/30/doom-and-gloom-by-david-wygant/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/03/30/doom-and-gloom-by-david-wygant/#comments Tue, 31 Mar 2009 00:26:13 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1067 The stock market is down 300 points…

Unemployment reaches 10% in California…

Foreclosures are at an all-time high…

The housing market is down 35%…

Let me ask you something: how do you feel about all of the headlines these days? Are you using this as your newest excuse for not going out to meet people? Or not to purchase things that you really desire that will improve your life?

Do you know what I’ve discovered? This is something that I really believe: the economy is not really as bad as we say it is – the economy is only as bad as we think it is because most of you are buying into the hype.

It’s that poverty mentality. It’s all of you saying to yourselves, “Well, I may still have a job but the economy is bad right now, and I’m not going to do the things I want to do. I’m going to wait for the economy to get better. I’m going to wait for President Obama to tell me that the economy is better.”

In reality, you have to start taking charge of your own economy. You are your own government.

Do you still have a job? Are you safe at your job? Does your job still pay you what it did last year? Are you managing your bills like you always have? Are you paying things on time? Are you buying things you can afford?

The economy keeps getting worse because the people who find themselves in a good financial situation (which is 90% of us!) stop spending money and push the economy into a further funk.

And this becomes your new excuse. It’s unbelievable. As humans, we are always looking for excuses not to progress. We come from a fear-based society.

So let me ask all of you a question today. How is the economic downturn REALLY affecting you? And be honest – are you really just using it as an excuse?

Life is all about mindset. What you believe is what you are going to attract. And if you have a poverty mindset, you’re going to be the next one fired during these poor economic times. If you truly believe that the world is coming to an end, it will.

I don’t believe that the world is coming to an end. My business is fine. I love my clients. Money comes in, people buy products and come to bootcamps, and I give it my all.

But it really amazes me how many people have that poverty consciousness – they’re watching every last dime thinking that it will actually be their last dime.

You attract exactly what you are. You have to understand that life is about abundance. If you live an abundant lifestyle, you’ll have an abundant lifestyle. I’m not talking about going out there and spending more money than you make – I think that’s ridiculous.

But the “doom and gloom” people – which a lot of you are – tend to really think that life is going to come to an end.

Do you remember Y2K? How many of you thought that the world was going to come to an end when the clock struck midnight, bringing in the year 2000? How many of you actually believed that everything would go haywire? That you wouldn’t be able to get your money out of the bank? That things wouldn’t work anymore?

I knew a person during that time that actually quit his job, moved to the mountains of Arizona and traded all of his money for gold because he was afraid of leaving his money in the bank. This is the same thing all over again. People buy into the “doom and gloom” because they live in a world full of fear and excuses.

What would you rather live in: a world of abundance and positive energy or a world based on fear?

For those of you who have never checked out my No Excuses and Self Love audio programs, I think it’s time you do. And by the way, if you don’t like it, you can return it within 90 days. I truly believe that you’re going to love it – because I practice abundance all of the time!

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