Do you remember when we were in high school? Do you remember making out with a girl and going back to your friends afterwards and them telling him what base you got to? Remember, first base was kissing, second base was breasts, third base was fingering her, and fourth base was going all the way. [...]
Do you ever sit down and write down goals? I know a lot of you right now are working on your basics: overcoming the fear of approaching, actually approaching, and getting a date. Mastering these would be an accomplishment right now for some of you. Some of you are a little more seasoned. You’ve been [...]
Do you want to know what acting on real attraction is all about? Let me give you an example: Years ago, I was vacationing in Boulder, Colorado. One day, after a two-hour massage, I went to Whole Foods for some dinner. As I was walking out, I passed by a gorgeous woman and we had [...]
longevity Are you living in a place that feels like your home? I want you to look around your house, and I want you to ask yourself: if my dream girl came over today, would this house represent who I am? Is this furniture a statement of who I am? Is the artwork that’s on [...]
New Years Eve is right around the corner, there are a lot of Holiday parties going on right now, and a lot of you younger guys are home for the holidays going out to the bars and seeing old friends… So you’re out at night doing exactly what I always tell you to do. You’re [...]
Most businesses during this time of year do a lot of year-end inventory. They check and see whether or not they made the sales they needed to. They check and see what they need to order in the new year. The bookkeepers are frantically crunching numbers so they can get taxes done. It’s inventory time. [...]
I was in Whole Foods today, which is no shock to anybody. I don’t think there is a day that goes by that I am not in Whole Foods. I talked to someone about setting up my own account there, but they just don’t seem to want to do it. Anyway, through the power of [...]
Here’s how I feel about cock blocking. I never get cock blocked. It just doesn’t happen to me anymore. So what that means is that cock blocking has nothing to do with another guy being an asshole, swooping in and taking “your” woman. It’s got everything to do with YOU. You can learn all the [...]
For those of you who watched Tim Tebow lead the Denver Broncos past the New York Jets the other night, it made me think about how much Tebow-mania is just like pickup mania. Now you may be thinking to yourself, How can Tim Tebow be anything like meeting women? Let’s go back to the game [...]
Perhaps your best friend in the entire world was dating an amazing girl, and the whole time they were dating all you kept thinking was, “Why can’t I meet somebody like her?” Every time you hung out with them in a group, you had such great chemistry with her. She was so cool. You always [...]