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“Live the life you love. Love the life you live.”

These are the exact words on the charm on my dog’s collar. It’s interesting that a five year-old black Labrador can be walking around with a statement that most people don’t follow.

Think for a second. You are trying to attract (note that the key word here is “attract”) a member of the opposite sex for you to date. Most people don’t understand the art of attraction, and they spend their nights chasing the opposite sex in places that they’re not having fun.

Let’s go deeper into this. What makes you think that if you go out on a Friday or Saturday night, that you are going to meet somebody . . . especially if you have never really met somebody interesting before on a Friday or Saturday night?

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Have you ever seen a woman when you’re standing in a bar, or standing in Whole Foods, maybe you’re at a coffee shop – it doesn’t really matter where you are – but then your mind takes over – the fantasy part of your mind takes over and you start manufacturing an entire story about her? You start putting her up on this pedestal.

And women do the same exact thing: they will see a guy and they won’t smile at him because they think, maybe he’s the one! Oh man, I like him.

How do you like somebody that you’ve never spoken to before? That’s the most ridiculous concept in the entire world, and it’s something that everybody needs to get over. You like somebody? You like the way they look – let’s break it down into what it really is.

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Here’s a video in which I go into depth about making your conversations dynamic with women.

This blog is part of a recent bootcamp from London. Hopefully this will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am leading bootcamps!

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BONUS Today: Here’s a free podcast from David. It’s in MP3 format and you can download it here.

Here’s today’s column:

The best place to meet women is on line. No, not online on match.com or on Yahoo! Personals . . . but rather while you’re waiting on a line.

We spend so much of our lives waiting on a line. We’re waiting for coffee. We’re waiting at the bank. We’re waiting at the grocery store. We’re always waiting on a line . . . sometimes for one minute and sometimes for two hours.

Do you talk to people while you’re waiting on a line? If the answer is no, then read on because what I’m about to tell you is one of the best time management tools you will ever learn.

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Nobody likes someone who is boring. Nobody likes someone who can’t contribute to a conversation.

Have you ever just stood there in front of a woman and you just didn’t know what to say? You’re standing there, and all of a sudden, you draw a blank.

Maybe you’re there with another person – a friend of yours that is a pretty good conversationalist. For instance, let’s say you’re in a clothing store, and you don’t really know much about fashion at all. He’s there talking about all sorts of jeans, and fashion trends, and everything else. And you’re just standing there like the dunce that you’re not! You feel like this goober doofus guy that doesn’t have a brain and doesn’t know what to say.

So instead of saying something stupid – you’ve learned that saying something stupid and changing the subject just kills the conversation – you sit there in utter silence.

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You know, I’ve been asked many times how to create online seduction. When I’m talking about online seduction, I’m not talking about you getting the initial contact with a woman and taking her on a date. I’m talking about seducing her late at night and getting her to come over.

It takes a couple of things to do this. First off, one of the things you need to realize is that if you’re online on a dating site late at night after say 10:00 p.m. and you connect with a woman at that time, you need to quickly – immediately – get her to instant message with you.

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