Welcome to the fastest growing seduction tips website for men. Browse the menu above for tons of free articles, interviews and multimedia. Post comments and join with 1400+ regular readers and keep up-to-date automatically with the latest advice with our free subscription methods. Why not signup for a free account with our pickup artist forum that's just been launched? You can ask questions and get help from dating gurus that stop by regularly! -Donovan

When I want something, I go after it full force. I don’t b.s. around and wait for it to mysteriously manifest in front of me. I don’t WISH for things to happen. I make them happen.

I do fail, that’s part of the learning process. Did you know that Thomas Edison tried over 10,000 different combinations and ideas before coming up with the light bulb? Failures are only lessons to be learned. After all, we learned how to ride a bike by falling off of it a few times.

Is it the fault of our schools that most people are afraid of failing? Think about it, every test you took years ago, you were penalized when you had the wrong answer.

Popularity: 1% [?]

Sheer terror.

You know the moment I’m talking about.

You’ve just gotten your woman into bed, the lights are out (thank GOD!), and you’ve been pleasuring her to no end.

You slide between her legs.

She gaps…

… and pulls you in closer… with her hands rubbing up and down your body…

… over your arms…

… over your back…

… and all of the sudden… out of no where… you wonder to yourself.

“Oh shit, she just felt my fat roll”

Popularity: 11% [?]

A few guys have asked me why I have a column specifically for fitness and exercise. Here’s my reason: your fitness levels directly effect your confidence, mental health and physical appearance. They all impact pickup immensely! Here’s Brad:

Today, I actually sent Brad Pilon (one of the co-founders of Strength Works… the developers of the Adonis Effect) an email that a subscriber sent me about abs and ab work… how much is too much, etc.

Here’s what he sent back:

One of the most popular topics that I routinely get questions about is ab training: ie “How do I train my abs”, or “how do I get abs”.

Popularity: 8% [?]

I was just reading Sinn’s “Swagger” column when I just got a thought.

You see, I’ve never really told anyone my overall philosophy on attracting women. Likewise, I realize that I’m probably not the best in the world at “the game”… nor do I want to be.

I’m an 80/20 guy. (think 4 hour work week)

Here’s what I mean.

According to Pareto’s Principle, roughly 20% of your actions are going to make up 80% of your results in almost any situation… from work, to sports… and yes… even in your

Interactions with “the ladies”…

Popularity: 8% [?]

Ha… okay, so I’m not talking about whether you’ve slept with over 100 women or not …although that does seem to be the threshold of whether you’re a “guru” or not… but whatever.

No, lets talk about something a little more tangible… something you can’t lie about!

One of the more difficult things for men (and women) when it comes to improving themselves is coming up with certain metrics (or measuring sticks if you will) from which to compare yourself to.

Popularity: 14% [?]