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		<title>What&#8217;s Next For Seduction Chronicles?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 02:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, I&#8217;ve been not devoting my entire effort towards Seduction Chronicles the last few months.  I&#8217;ve been traveling back home to Australia for the first time in 5 years, and devoting time to other endeavours. 
BUT
 I&#8217;m ready to focus more energy and time to giving you more here.  So I have a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I&#8217;ve been not devoting my entire effort towards Seduction Chronicles the last few months.  I&#8217;ve been traveling back home to Australia for the first time in 5 years, and devoting time to other endeavours. </p>
<p>BUT</p>
<p> I&#8217;m ready to focus more energy and time to giving you more here.  So I have a quick question that you, as an avid reader&#8230;</p>
<p>What would you like to see more of on this blog?  It could be more of something I currently do, or it could be something completely new. Either way, post your thoughts in the form of a COMMENT below and let&#8217;s see what you guys like!</p>
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		<title>How To Get An Ex-Girlfriend Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[by David DeAngelo.
So, let&#8217;s start with the definition of the word WUSSY&#8230;
This word is a combination of the words &#8220;Wimp&#8221; and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.
In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>by <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo">David DeAngelo</a>.</em></p>
<p>So, let&#8217;s start with the definition of the word WUSSY&#8230;</p>
<p>This word is a combination of the words &#8220;Wimp&#8221; and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.</p>
<p>In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.</p>
<p>The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator.</p>
<p><span id="more-1273"></span></p>
<p>The problem with being a Wussy is that women are NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKNESS&#8230; and thus, they are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.</p>
<p>Never.</p>
<p>Ever.</p>
<p>Ever.</p>
<p>A woman might MARRY a Wussy because he&#8217;s either the best she can get, has a lot of money, has courted her for so many years that she finally gives in, or whatever&#8230;</p>
<p>But, she&#8217;ll never feel ATTRACTION for him.</p>
<p>Women don&#8217;t CHOOSE who they feel ATTRACTION for, and they don&#8217;t choose the emotions that they feel either.</p>
<p>It just HAPPENS. Bam!</p>
<p>One problem that a lot of guys have to face is TURNING INTO a Wussy over time&#8230;</p>
<p>When you start off on the right foot, then gradually turn into a Wuss over time with a woman, that emotion called ATTRACTION starts to go away inside of her.</p>
<p>A woman will tell her friends &#8220;I don&#8217;t know what it is&#8230;but for some reason lately he&#8217;s just annoying to be around.&#8221; etc.</p>
<p>It BOTHERS and ANGERS women when a man that&#8217;s interested in them acts like a WUSSY. In many women it actually triggers these emotions just like dominant behavior triggers ATTRACTION.</p>
<p>Of course, the worse things get, and the more annoyed a woman becomes, the more like a total WUSSBAG most guys act.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s one of those &#8220;vicious cycles&#8221; that usually ends with the woman leaving and the guy sitting there wondering what he did wrong&#8230; and him thinking that maybe, if he had just been able to tell her just how much he loved her, that she would not have left him for that other abusive jerk.</p>
<p>By the way, if you want to learn how to DE- WUSSIFY yourself for good, and become a man that is universally attractive to women, then you must go and read this before you read any further:<br />
<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/onbeingaman"><br />
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan</a></p>
<p>OK, so let&#8217;s talk about your specific questions:</p>
<p><strong>1. &#8220;How do you interpret her behavior? Is she still interested somehow or what?&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>I interpret her behavior as NATURAL and VERY, VERY PREDICTABLE.</p>
<p>If you do it again in the future, the same thing will probably happen.</p>
<p>Is she still interested?</p>
<p>Yes, she is.</p>
<p>But not in anything more than being your FRIEND.</p>
<p>You have, with your actions and communication, KILLED the ATTRACTION that she felt for you.</p>
<p>This is something you&#8217;re going to have to deal with and take responsibility for.</p>
<p>You turned into a Wuss, and now you&#8217;re paying the price.</p>
<p>You have to come to terms with your Inner Wuss before improvement can begin.</p>
<p><strong>2. &#8220;Is there &#8211; according your experience &#8211; any realistic chance to get her back, i.e. to trigger again her interest and attraction?&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Well, this is a sticky question.</p>
<p>There is a CHANCE, yes.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the problem. Probably 90% of the time when I tell a guy exactly what to do in order to get a girl back, he screws it up&#8230; doesn&#8217;t do it exactly the way I say, etc.</p>
<p>And, of course, he makes things worse in the process.</p>
<h3>THE PROBLEM</h3>
<p>Focusing on getting her back will not only lessen the chances, but it will keep you from moving on in your life.</p>
<p>The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your life.</p>
<p>Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY&#8230; instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.</p>
<p>In other words, you&#8217;re never going to make her feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being her friend, and being &#8220;nice&#8221;&#8230; and by trying to &#8220;win her over&#8221; again.</p>
<p>It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Now, why do guys chase women, and keep doing the WRONG things&#8230; even after a woman has left?</p>
<p>In our dealings with women, we guys tend to think things like &#8220;That&#8217;s not fair&#8221; and &#8220;I did all the right things&#8221; and to feel self-righteous because we&#8217;re the good guy&#8230; but miss the point and not get the RESULTS we want.</p>
<p>Remember though&#8230;</p>
<p>Attraction isn&#8217;t FAIR, it isn&#8217;t &#8220;right&#8221;, it doesn&#8217;t care how &#8220;nice&#8221; you are. Attraction can be cruel and painful sometimes.</p>
<p>You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening.</p>
<p>Women HATE it when guys turn into Wussies.</p>
<p>I know, I know&#8230; she did things that made you turn into more and more of a Wuss. It&#8217;s her fault too&#8230; right?</p>
<p>Wrong.</p>
<p>Women do this stuff to TEST you.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re not actually TRYING to turn you into a Wuss. But if you DO turn into a Wuss, she realizes that she can&#8217;t trust you to be a man and she has to go.</p>
<p>Now, she&#8217;s not doing this to hurt you, she&#8217;s only doing it because she wasn&#8217;t getting the feelings that she wanted with you&#8230; and now she&#8217;s getting them with Jerk-Boy.</p>
<h3>THE SOLUTION</h3>
<p>As I mentioned, your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it.</p>
<p>Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.</p>
<p>Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.</p>
<p>And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to her quickly. Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up &#8220;just being friends&#8221; with her&#8230; so STOP DOING IT.</p>
<p>Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you&#8217;re leaving to meet a woman. Of course, make sure IT&#8217;S TRUE, like I said.</p>
<p>Stop being so AVAILABLE.</p>
<p>Get busy enjoying your life.</p>
<p>Get busy dating other women.</p>
<p>If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, BITCH-SLAP yourself. If you&#8217;re feeling weak, have a friend do it.</p>
<p>And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:</p>
<p>&#8220;Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do&#8230; I have to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>You feel me, dog?</p>
<p>And remember&#8230;</p>
<p>In this world, &#8220;I was a nice guy and did nice things for her&#8221; doesn&#8217;t cut it. Attraction has a totally different set of rules&#8230; and exceptions. And if you want to get and keep an attractive woman, then you&#8217;d better learn them.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a skill, and you&#8217;re not going to get it by being &#8220;nice&#8221; and doing everything your mom taught you&#8230;</p>
<p>If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, she&#8217;ll do almost anything to stay with him. If she DOESN&#8217;T feel it, then the chances are slim that she&#8217;ll stay around.</p>
<p>These rules are even MORE TRUE when you&#8217;re dealing with an ATTRACTIVE woman who gets a lot of attention from guys.</p>
<p>The irony of this situation is that I think it&#8217;s a lot easier to make a woman feel ATTRACTION than it is to be a Wuss who chases after her, buys her things, and annoys the hell out of her.</p>
<p>I spent a lot of years of my life being a Wuss.</p>
<p>I made all the classic mistakes.</p>
<p>I should probably be awarded an honorary degree in the subject&#8230; really.</p>
<p>But, over the last several years I&#8217;ve not only learned how to cure myself and evict my Inner Wuss&#8230; I&#8217;ve also learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION with my body language and communication alone.</p>
<p>I only wish someone would have shown me this stuff fifteen years ago&#8230;</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re reading this right now and it&#8217;s time that you evicted your inner Wussy, and learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you without chasing them, buying them things, and giving all of your power away, then listen up&#8230;</p>
<p>THE TIME IS NOW.</p>
<p>This stuff isn&#8217;t going to fix itself.</p>
<p>And you know by now that more of the same is only going to get you more of the same.</p>
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		<title>Your Three Advantages On Halloween</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 19:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Approaching Women]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new article from Savoy of Love Systems.
ONE: WOMEN DRESS SEXIER (MORE PROVOCATIVELY)
People act to fulfill their roles. Dress like a loser and it&#8217;s easy to act like one. Dress like a man who makes things happen, and you fall into that role.
(Have you ever put on a suit and instantly felt a bit more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://msp212.photobucket.com/albums/cc141/andee_sur_13/halloween.jpg" align="left" />A new article from Savoy of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/">Love Systems</a>.</p>
<p><strong>ONE: WOMEN DRESS SEXIER (MORE PROVOCATIVELY)</strong></p>
<p>People act to fulfill their roles. Dress like a loser and it&#8217;s easy to act like one. Dress like a man who makes things happen, and you fall into that role.</p>
<p>(Have you ever put on a suit and instantly felt a bit more powerful? That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m talking about.)</p>
<p><span id="more-1262"></span></p>
<p>Look at the military. They&#8217;re not dummies. They insist on every aspect of your appearance and dress being exact and to specifications. They want behavior that is exact, and to specifications. They&#8217;re not a huge fan of individual flair.</p>
<p>In my female psychology interview, I explained how women are bound both by &#8220;macro&#8221; (general) rules and &#8220;micro&#8221; rules &#8211; the ones that apply to specific friends in specific situations.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s nothing in the air in Ibiza or Las Vegas that makes women want to have sex. But, sex happens more &#8211; partly because the &#8220;micro&#8221; rules of female social groups let this happen without a hit to their reputation.</p>
<p>Halloween is the same way. She&#8217;ll be dressed for sex. Her friends will be dressed for sex. There is a lot of flirting and competing for attention. It&#8217;s the kind of night when a woman who doesn&#8217;t normally go home with a new guy will make an exception.</p>
<p><strong>TWO: ROLE PLAYS</strong></p>
<p>You already know that role plays are a MAJOR building block for attraction.</p>
<p>This goes double in high-energy, nightclub-type environments.</p>
<p>It goes triple with younger women. And quadruple on Halloween.</p>
<p>Not only are they super-effective &#8211; almost NECESSARY &#8211; but they&#8217;re really easy. After all, you are both wearing costumes. You&#8217;re already role-playing!</p>
<p>This makes your choice of costume important. It&#8217;s the role you&#8217;ll be playing. Her costume will be skanky, so run with that. You could be a pimp. Or a cop. Or a Rockstar and she&#8217;s your groupie, etc.</p>
<p>Choose anything compatible with &#8220;skanky costume&#8221; and run with it. It should also be higher-value than hers. Drop the opinion openers and either approach direct or approach &#8220;in character.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>THREE: THESE ARE YOUR USUAL GIRLS&#8230; </strong></p>
<p>Halloween is like New Year&#8217;s Eve for another reason&#8230;</p>
<p>A lot of women will be out partying who don&#8217;t usually go out. That means more variety. The girl who has better things to do most Saturdays than another night at the club will still be out on Halloween.</p>
<p>That means you should be also.</p>
<p>It also means that you&#8217;re not going to get all of the usual &#8220;tests&#8221; from club-going women.</p>
<p>Women who go out every night get hit on a lot. They have ways of putting you on the spot and other tests they do to see which men are worth their time.</p>
<p>(It&#8217;s incredibly counter-productive, because most of these women say they don&#8217;t want &#8220;players.&#8221; But, they set up tests that only guys who have been around the block a few times &#8211; players &#8211; can pass. Anyway, this is advice for men, not for women, so moving on&#8230;)</p>
<p>Now you should know how to handle tests. Any hot woman whom you don&#8217;t know will test you at least a little.</p>
<p>So, these women that don&#8217;t usually go out&#8230; who are dressed sexier than usual&#8230; surrounded by other beautiful, scantily-clad women&#8230;</p>
<p>They will want validation.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to give them enough validation to get them interested, but not enough to complete the circle. Always leave them wanting more.</p>
<p>Giving and making a woman work for validation is what &#8220;Qualification&#8221; is all about. Qualification happens right after Attraction &#8211; so once she&#8217;s attracted to you, qualify her.</p>
<p>Alright, now here are some specific, practical things you can do to get the girl this weekend:</p>
<li>If you have a nice body, use Halloween to show it off. Women do. You&#8217;ll be laughed at with an open chest most nights, but not on Halloween.
<li>Plan your opener along with your costume. If you&#8217;re a rock star, approach her saying &#8220;I knew Groupie #51 was around here somewhere.&#8221; Smile. She&#8217;ll play along.
<li>Make sure of your logistics. There are lots of house parties on Halloween, and these make great excuses to leave the club or another party with her. You have friends that you HAVE to introduce her to. If you get to the party and they aren&#8217;t there, no one will care.
<li>Better still, use the gap to swing by your house &#8220;to pick up a bottle&#8221; or &#8220;to get my wallet.&#8221; Only mention that once you start driving. She may not want to go to the next party either.
<li>You can probably see by now how planning is key. The pit stop between your houses has to be natural and at least somewhat on the way.</li>
<p>&#8220;Pulls&#8221; are a bit easier because no one can find their friends anyway. So are &#8220;bathroom pulls&#8221; or other more exotic encounters &#8211; the costumes give a feeling of anonymity. That can be a powerful fantasy for a lot of women.</p>
<p>Alright folks, brush up on your skills and have fun this weekend.</p>
<p><strong>Learn more from Savoy with his tactics and techniques at <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/">Love Systems</a> (formerly The Mystery Method).</strong></p>
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		<title>3 Key Dating Mistakes</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:12:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dates]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my strengths has always been: give me an evening alone with a girl who likes me &#8211; even if she only likes me a little bit &#8211; and I&#8217;ll convert that into something physical. The woman who I&#8217;m seeing at the moment broke a string of 23 first-dates that ended in sex.
Every Love [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my strengths has always been: give me an evening alone with a girl who likes me &#8211; even if she only likes me a little bit &#8211; and I&#8217;ll convert that into something physical. The woman who I&#8217;m seeing at the moment broke a string of 23 first-dates that ended in sex.</p>
<p>Every <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/" target="_blank">Love Systems</a> instructor has a unique specialty. Mine is dates. A date is a chance for you and a girl to get to know each other, and if you like each other, a great chance to get the awkwardness out of future interactions by taking her to bed.</p>
<p>Being great at dates is about as much work as being great at pickup. And, like pickup, there are a few basic horrible mistakes you can make that are hard to come back from. Avoiding these won&#8217;t make you great, but will save you from the worst problems.</p>
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<p><strong>1) Not Meeting Her Close to Where You Want To End Up</strong></p>
<p>Women hate awkwardness. And they also hate doing anything that makes them feel too easy, or obligated to have sex. That&#8217;s why when a woman is coming home with you, she&#8217;ll often say &#8220;We&#8217;re not having sex tonight!&#8221; Just smile, say okay, and know your odds are actually pretty good.</p>
<p>But, if you&#8217;ve met her on a date at an art gallery 20 miles away from your house, how are you going to get her back to your place afterwards? Anything that looks like effort is going to put up her &#8220;don&#8217;t be too easy&#8221; defenses &#8211; any plan that she makes that she can&#8217;t easily change again is going to make her back down &#8211; such as you driving her to your place in the middle of the night.</p>
<p>If you want to make this easy for yourself, get women to meet you close to your house. If you&#8217;ve made the effort to move somewhere exciting, this will be easy &#8211; it should be full of fun bars and cafes. If not, you may have to make do with the local dive bar.</p>
<p>If you want to get the first night&#8217;s sex out of the way quickly, meet her at a place where the transition back to your place for &#8220;one last glass of wine&#8221; won&#8217;t seem contrived, or like one of you is expending a lot of effort to make it happen.</p>
<p><strong>2) Choosing Really Bad Dates Where You Can&#8217;t Interact</strong></p>
<p>If a woman is coming on a date with you, she already likes you. What needs to happen next is the two of your need to talk, connect, build some tension, and make it happen.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t take her to watch a movie. Invite her over to watch a DVD on your couch with a blanket and a bottle of wine, where you can discuss and interrupt the movie. Sitting next to her in a crowded movie theatre for 2 hours? How&#8217;s that going to help?</p>
<p>Many guys seem to approach their dates from a &#8220;make sure nothing goes wrong!&#8221; point of view. They&#8217;re just waiting out their time from meeting the girl to a sensible time for her to invite herself in, and hoping it happens. It rarely does.</p>
<p><strong>3) Pressuring For Sex / Escalating Badly</strong></p>
<p>Women love sex, but they hate feeling bad about having had sex. Preventing that is up to you. Women don&#8217;t want to seem too easy or feel obligated. Yet somehow, you still need to guide them into your house, onto the sofa next to you, and make it happen.</p>
<p>For this reason, she needs to be able to maintain plausible deniability the whole time, from meeting you right up to getting her clothes off. It needs to &#8220;just happen.&#8221; This is largely a function of framing &#8211; which if you&#8217;re at the Super Conference this weekend, you&#8217;ll hear me talk all about.</p>
<p><strong>But for now, here are three things you can do:</strong></p>
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<li> Have a good reason you&#8217;re going back to your place &#8211; for me, the old standby was &#8220;I&#8217;ve got this great bottle of wine and I&#8217;m resenting paying $10 a glass here!&#8221; When I was living with my parents, I&#8217;d say to girls &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to get a taxi home &#8211; do you have a sofa I can crash on?&#8221; We&#8217;re looking for vaguely plausible reasons here, rather than water-tight&#8230;
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  Throw in a little disqualifier as you escalate. For example: &#8220;Okay, you can see my bedroom, but no sex tonight! I&#8217;m on my period,&#8221; used to work well for me. Also excellent are &#8220;I&#8217;m putting you in a taxi at 11pm on the dot, so don&#8217;t be disappointed!&#8221; and &#8220;It&#8217;s okay, you can crash. I have the world&#8217;s biggest bed; it has a barrier you can put up in the middle.&#8221;</li>
<li>
 Set a frame about her staying over, but nothing will happen. Some women are just shy. Giving them a shirt of yours to sleep in, snuggling under the duvet, and turning the lights off are a magical combination. Turns out it&#8217;s very easy for something to &#8220;Just Happen&#8221; in situations like that. <img src='http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<p>Guys, dates should be a lot of fun, and you&#8217;re able to control a lot of factors in them. Remember to pull the trigger, and have a think about if you&#8217;re making any of the mistakes above!</p>
<p><strong>Read more from Sheriff at <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/" target="_blank">Love Systems</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Third Date Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 21:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you know what the worst thing is about vacation? I mean, apart from the fact that they’re always too short, and involve sitting in uncomfortable airplane seats and having the person in the hotel room next door to you play their television way too loudly. Besides all of that, do you know what the worst thing is about vacation? It’s coming home.</p>
<p>What is it about coming home? Why is it such a downer? I have a nice home. I like my home. I love coming back and seeing my dog. I just never want vacations to end. They’re never long enough.</p>
<p>It was sad seeing New Orleans. It’s the second time I’ve been there post-Katrina, and the city still hasn’t totally recovered. I’m not about to go on a political tangent about how the government screwed that thing up, I’m just going to go on to talk about today’s blog topic.</p>
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<p>Whether or not you’re getting sex seems to be a fun conversation, so let’s enjoy it. Also, speaking of sex, take a look at the end of this blog because there’s a sneak peek of a very private offer. (I know some of you only read the beginning and the end of the blog, so I didn’t want any of you to miss out on the prize).</p>
<p>Talking about prizes, how much fun was it as a kid to try to get the prize that came in the bottom of cereal boxes before your brothers and sisters could find them? You always knew when my brother had gotten to a cereal box, because the whole side of the box would look swollen. There’s no way to get those toy surprises in a box of cereal without causing some damage.</p>
<p>Sex is kind of like a prize too. So let’s talk about sex and particularly the “third date sex rule.”</p>
<p>It’s the third date, so it’s time to have sex, right? There seems to be a widespread rumor out there that if you get to a third date with someone, then it’s time to have sex.</p>
<p>What is it with this “it’s the third date so it’s time to have sex” thing? Who made up this rule? Who started it? Was it on an episide of “Sex And The City?” I mean, from where did this “rule” come?</p>
<p>I’m going to tell you exactly what the third date means. If you’re really in touch with yourself and the other person, then the third date signifies the point at which you usually know whether or not this is a person with whom you want to hang, get to know better and with whom you want to see if you can establish some kind of relationship.</p>
<p>Three dates with someone will usually tell you if this is a person you want to get to know better, because you’ve probably spent nine, ten or more hours with them by this time. You’ve had a bunch of phone calls with them in between the dates. You’re getting to know them and learn who they are.</p>
<p>For me, the third date always meant that I liked that persosn, I can hang with them and I want to get to know them better. It doesn’t mean that I sit there all uptight counting down the minutes to the end of date one, counting down the minutes in the second date, and then counting down the minutes to the third date when I can try to get her to come back to my house because it’s the third date and we have to have sex. C’mon…that’s ridiculous.</p>
<p>So from now on when you make it to three dates, instead of just thinking about sex why not ask yourself some better questions:</p>
<p>Do I like this person? Do I want to get to know this person better? Is this person someone whom I respect? Do I like their viewpoint? Can I imagine myself doing things with them (e.g., traveling, going out to dinner)? Do we share some of the same interests? Do I enjoy their company? Do I enjoy listening to them? Do I respect what they do for a living?</p>
<p>Instead of just thinking about whether you’ll vibe together in bed, think about whether you’ll vibe together as people. Because if you vibe together as people, the sex will be great. So stop thinking with Mr. Penis, and start thinking with your heart and with your head. Remember that whenever you let the penis do all of the thinking, the penis is usually wrong.</p>
<p>You know what’s funny too? Some people want to have sex right away. They want to live out a sexual fantasy, but they may have NO clue how to make that happen.</p>
<p>Today, I released a product about sexual fantasies (and how to make them a reality) BUT it’s only available to people on my private subscriber list. If you’re on that list, check your email inbox and the link to (and a video I created about) that product is contained in an email I sent you.</p>
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		<title>Q &amp; A With Savoy About Love Systems Super Conference (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 22:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method).
I did a Q&#038;A with the founder of Love Systems and author of Magic Bullets to find out what to expect at the upcoming Super Conference in Las Vegas, Oct 9-11th, 2009 is about:
Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method).</p>
<p>I did a Q&#038;A with the founder of Love Systems and author of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a> to find out what to expect at the upcoming Super Conference in Las Vegas, Oct 9-11th, 2009 is about:</p>
<p><strong>Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?</strong></p>
<p>The Love Systems Super Conference is the big annual event for people learning, teaching, or studying how to attract, date, and seduce beautiful women. It&#8217;s where the best of the best dating coaches come to share ideas, network, and of course to present their newest and best breakthroughs. It is three days filled with seminars, live exercises, and infield (going out to meet women with dating coaches instructing you).</p>
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<p>It started as the Mystery Method Super Conference back in 2005 but renamed to Love Systems Super Conference in 2007. Past speakers have included:</p>
<p>-	Mystery PUA (aka Erik Von Markovik, of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/vh1-the-pickup-artist/">VH1 The Pickup Artist</a>, creator of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mystery-method/">The Mystery Method</a>)<br />
-	Style (aka <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/neil-strauss/">Neil Strauss</a>, author of The Game)<br />
-	Savoy (author of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a>)<br />
 -	<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/18/cajun-seduction-masters-interview/">Cajun PUA</a> (winner on Keys to the VIP)<br />
-	<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/02/01/interview-with-braddock-of-love-systems/">Braddock</a> (appeared on Tyra Banks)<br />
-	The Don (appeared on <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/04/09/the-mystery-method-and-ross-jefferies-on-dr-phil-this-friday/">Dr Phil</a>)<br />
-	<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/28/sinn-seduction-masters-interview/">Sinn</a> (Sinns of Attraction)<br />
-	Brad P (Brad P Presents)<br />
-	<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/01/14/carlos-xuma-seduction-masters-interview/">Carlos Xuma</a> (Alpha Lifestyle)<br />
-	Daniel Johnson (Pickup 101)<br />
-      <a href="http://www.doctorpaul.net">Dr. Paul</a> (doctorpaul.net, Deep Inner Game with <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David Deangelo</a>)<br />
-	And more&#8230;.</p>
<p>All Love Systems instructors will be flying in to be at the Super Conference. There will also be other guest speakers and so far Brad P, Dr Paul, and David Wygant have confirmed to come. We have a couple more in the works with a surprise guest lined up.</p>
<p>There are two packages: Silver and Gold. </p>
<p>The Silver level attendees will be able to attend all the live exercises and seminars during the Super Conference. The Gold level attendees will also be able to do live exercises and seminars, but will also go out two nights with infield coaching by our instructors. The price for Silver is $947 and Gold is $3,797.</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a video of the Love Systems Super Conference of last year:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Q: When and where is the Super Conference taking place?</strong></p>
<p>It will take place in Las Vegas, NV, USA at the Hard Rock Hotel. The exact date is October 9-11 (three days). We chose Vegas because it&#8217;s affordable for people come to Vegas and there are plenty of beautiful women from all across the globe partying it up.</p>
<p><strong>Q: What sessions can we expect at the Super Conference?</strong></p>
<p>What&#8217;s great about the Super Conference is that we will have two rooms booked. There will be two sessions running at the same time in the seminar and breakout room.</p>
<p>The breakout room will all be interactive. That&#8217;s where people will be able to talk to instructors and work with them on a particular part of their game. These live exercises include:</p>
<p>* Approaching and Transitioning &#8211; Get your approaching skills down!</p>
<p>* Teasing and Bantering &#8211; How to think on your feet and build attraction FAST!</p>
<p>* Physical Escalation &#8211; Touching gets results and prevents you getting in the friend zone!</p>
<p>* Body Language &#8211; Project confidence with your walk, posture, and gestures!</p>
<p>* Frame Control &#8211; Steer interactions the way you want it to go!</p>
<p>The seminar room is where the instructors and guest speakers will reveal their latest breakthroughs, give lectures, and talk about specific topics on dating.</p>
<p>Subjects have included:</p>
<p>*	Social Circle Mastery</p>
<p>*	Advanced Attraction</p>
<p>*	Deep Comfort</p>
<p>*	Inner Game</p>
<p>*	Relationship Management and Multiple Relationships</p>
<p>*	Callback Humor</p>
<p>*	Day Game</p>
<p>*	Strippers and Hired Guns</p>
<p>*	And lots more&#8230;</p>
<p>You decide what you want to do because there are always two sessions running at the same time. If you want to work with an instructor, you can go to the breakout room. If you want to listen to a lecture on a specific topic, the seminar room is where you want to be. You can tailor the whole weekend to your own level of game. If you&#8217;re new to the game I would suggest you mix it up with breakout and seminar sessions.</p>
<p><strong>Q: Do you need to have taken one of your bootcamps or seminars before you go can go the Super Conference?</strong></p>
<p>It is true that the Super Conference will be covering a lot of advanced techniques and never before revealed secrets. However, you do not have to have taken a bootcamp or seminar of ours to go to the Super Conference. Even if you are completely new, if you take the Gold level (which includes infield) you will get the same experience as a normal bootcamp. The added bonus is that you will work with more instructors than a normal bootcamp, so you will get to see a lot of different styles of game and get feedback from a lot of different instructors.</p>
<p>One day before the start of the Super Conference we have set up an optional introductory program for new students. The Head Start seminar is about getting the foundations of solid game right. It will allow you to walk into the Super-Conference confident that you fully know and understand the underpinnings behind the game and to enable you to get the most out of the advanced theories that will be put forth throughout the weekend.</p>
<p><strong>Q: Will there be a DVD of the Super Conference?</strong></p>
<p>Short answer: No.</p>
<p>When we release our latest breakthroughs, we want to keep it to the people who will be at the Super Conference. Normally we release sensitive information only on the Lounge, a private forum for people who have done training with Love Systems, but we will be discussing all new theories, routines, and techniques in person at the Super Conference. That&#8217;s why we have people sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to prevent our secrets and breakthroughs from leaking to the public.</p>
<p><strong>Q: It&#8217;s too expensive for me. Anything I can do to still make it to the Super Conference?</strong></p>
<p>We understand that in this tough economy money can be tight. We normally don&#8217;t offer payment plans but we want to help men out as much as we can so we are making an exception for this Super Conference.</p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t afford the Gold level ticket, you might want to consider the Silver level ticket. You can attend and participate in all seminars and live exercises, and it&#8217;s only the night training that you&#8217;ll be missing out on. Although there will be loads of other guys who will be eager to head out on the town with you!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.tinyurl.com/kowk3c">Click here</a> if you want to find out more on the Love Systems Super Conference.</p>
<p><strong>Here are some reviews of students on the past Love Systems Super Conferences.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Sinn </strong>- One of my favorite things about Super Conferences is being around all of the instructors. Every one of them is a really cool guy. Can&#8217;t wait till next year!</p>
<p><strong>Psilite</strong> &#8211; I had a lot of fun and thought this whole Super Conference was genius! Especially the way the rooms were set up. There was A LOT of information that was gold in the entire Super Conference! Much of it helped me a lot when I went out that same day. I wish I had a gold or higher ticker to go out with the instructors.</p>
<p><strong>J The Ripper</strong> &#8211; My brain is still on overload as I&#8217;m trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors. They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psychology, etc&#8230;) The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc). I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.</p>
<p><strong>Capo </strong>- What can I say? I mean&#8230; the Super Conference offered way more than I thought, I mean, it was way better than I had anticipated, even having read all of what was posted on the site. I thought it was going to be a really fun and educational weekend&#8230; it turned out to be one of the funnest and coolest (educational as well) weekends I&#8217;ve ever had, it was really awesome. Every single instructor that took the stage or got to be in charge of the workout room was very knowledgeable and they all took as much time as needed to answer all the questions they were being asked. The Super Conference was awesome, I met a lot of really cool guys and got to hang out with some of the best instructors in the world, what more can I ask for?</p>
<p><strong>SirSlick</strong> &#8211; Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know. I never had the idea that the instructors &#8220;were better&#8221; than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like &#8220;us&#8221;. I&#8217;d highly suggest for everyone to get a SC BC, it&#8217;s worth the money. I&#8217;m college student and tight on money, but the investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women.</p>
<p><strong>Goodrake </strong>- While it&#8217;s great to hear someone talk about it, seeing the instructors do it, answer questions, and then watch and evaluate as the students did it was a great learning process. Almost without exception each of the presenters showed both a real depth of knowledge and experience about the subject matter, and a genuine passion for sharing this with the attendees and seeing it benefit them. If you come to one of these or a bootcamp, be sure to be prepared to take a lot of notes, in a quick and organized fashion. When the instructors are in their groove, the information is flowing. If knowledge is water, think of it as trying to drink from a fire hose. Even though I&#8217;ve been studying and applying this stuff for about a year, there&#8217;s still plenty of new insights to be gained from attending, as well as retouching on foundational stuff, and the occasional &#8220;light bulb over head&#8221; moment, when the clouds part and you see something you didn&#8217;t see before. How much is a &#8220;breakthrough&#8221; worth to you?</p>
<p><strong>Monk</strong> &#8211; As I began talking to other attendees, I realized the lengths community members were willing to go to to attend this event. I met guys from all over CA, from the east coast, and instructors from London, Sweden, Paris, Thailand and other exotic locales. Everyone. Thank you. My life is different. Fears and doubts I&#8217;ve had since adolescence are gone, perhaps forever.</p>
<p><strong>Guythano</strong> &#8211; I really had quite a bit of fun, but more importantly conquered some sticking points. It all just suddenly clicked. A week after I returned, it just started raining women. I would just like to thank everyone again for all their efforts to make the superconference possible and if you have the chance to go, I highly recommend that you do!</p>
<p><strong>Xander </strong>- Let me just say that Love Systems truly is dating science. It&#8217;s an accurate term. It&#8217;s the most cutting edge, advanced stuff around and it&#8217;s constantly being refined by great tactical seducers. Overall a life-changing weekend and a total bargain.</p>
<p><strong>Jiggawha </strong>- I was so surprised at everyone&#8217;s high levels of positive energy, and when I heard the instructors speak, I was instantly blown away. Every word that they spoke struck me with an &#8220;AHA!&#8221; moment, and shot my motivation up the roof. They were so down to earth that I felt I had a chance of becoming like them. I had already gotten my money&#8217;s worth. I usually never talk to my parents deeper than an informational level, but I called my mom Monday night, and we had a deep conversation for half an hour about my life and about her&#8217;s. It literally almost brought me to tears when I got off the phone with her; also making me realize how much I&#8217;ve changed over this past weekend. She told me how much she enjoyed the conversation, and I agreed. A conversation beyond an informational level hasn&#8217;t happened in over 5-10 years. Before that, I had dinner with a good friend of mine and we also had a really deep conversation about everything. He commented on how very different I am now, after coming out of this conference. All the attendees and instructors have changed my life and my eyes have been opened to new perspectives once more. Coming into the conference, I couldn&#8217;t even open a set properly, but after that first failed set, the learning has never stopped. Every single one of you has had an impact on me. Life has meaning again. Thank you so much.</p>
<p><strong>Cleanface </strong>- The conference this year was nothing short of amazing! What an awesome event!</p>
<p><strong>Zyder</strong> &#8211; The Love Systems Super Conference in Vegas was a really exceptional experience. Considering that I only first started reading Magic Bullets on my flight over from Paris then to say I was a newbie to all this material would be a bit of an understatement! The seminars covered pretty much every aspect of gaming women. Three days of seminars with the instructors often around and between sessions to answer your questions was such a great deal. I was genuinely shocked by how articulate and knowledgeable the instructors were.</p>
<p><strong>Tenorio </strong>- I walked away from EVERY presentation having learned something &#8212; and that&#8217;s saying a lot, since I&#8217;ve read everything. Going out both nights in Gold Level groups&#8230;well, I don&#8217;t know what to say. There&#8217;s no better way to put theoretical lessons into action than through practice, and Gold Level was a perfect way to do this. I left the weekend with some sticking points nailed and a concrete gameplan for my evolution going forward. There&#8217;s not much more I could ask for.</p>
<p><strong>SSnake</strong> &#8211; There was lots material that I had never heard or read and getting it straight from the horses mouth made all the difference. Of course, there is already more good material on-line, in books, and on CD then you could ingest in a life-time. I went to actually hang out with these instructors and network with other students. You can&#8217;t get that from media.</p>
<p>If you want to attend the biggest dating conference, you better get your seat. There are only a finite number of seats available and seats will be selling out soon.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.tinyurl.com/kowk3c">Click here</a> to find out more information on the Love Systems Super Conference.</strong></p>
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		<title>Overcoming Loud Club Music</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[StyleLife Academy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This post was from Evolve, at the Stylelife Academy.

Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you&#8217;re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate!
This exercise is an easy way for any guy and his wing to overcome the deafening [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This post was from Evolve, at the Stylelife Academy.<br />
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Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you&#8217;re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate!</p>
<p>This exercise is an easy way for any guy and his wing to overcome the deafening noise of the nightclub.</p>
<h2>Level 1: Get Comfortable in the Noise</h2>
<p>First you&#8217;ll need a stereo that can really blast some music (the stereo in your car will work for the Level 1 exercise.) Put on something loud, anything from bumping club music to grinding death metal will do. Blast the music. Stand about 10 ft away from a friend and simply talk about anything for 5 to 10 minutes.</p>
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<p>Get comfortable with thinking and speaking over loud music. It doesn&#8217;t matter at this point if the other person understands what you are saying. What matters is that you can keep on track and tell a story all the way through, over the music.</p>
<p>Repeat this exercise 4 times over the course of a week and you will find yourself to be much more comfortable around loud music.</p>
<h2>Level 2: Storytelling and Listening</h2>
<p>Write up, find, or memorize a story that your partner has never heard before. Stand across from each other and crank the music up. One of you will be the storyteller and the other will be the listener. The storyteller will try to communicate his story over the blasting music. The listener will try to figure out what the story is all about.</p>
<p>Once the storyteller is finished telling his tale, turn the music down. Now, the listener will explain what he believes the story was all about. If his version of the story is way off, then the storyteller needs to change how he expresses his story.</p>
<p>The storyteller and listener should discuss ways that you could use your body language and tonality to more accurately tell the story. Use your hands, make gestures, or change your facial expressions to match feelings or events in the story.  Emphasize specific words that are important to the meaning of the story. Find parts of the story where you can throw in some kino. Tell the story again. Then change roles.</p>
<p>There are two lessons for this exercise. The first lesson is how to communicate an entire story to a group of people in a loud night club so that the listeners get the point.</p>
<p>The second lesson is how to listen to and interpret a story in a loud environment. This is especially important when a girl is telling you a story. The more you can hear, the better your response could be.</p>
<p>One of the worst things you can do in a noisy club is to &#8220;peck&#8221; when you can&#8217;t hear what someone is saying. When you can&#8217;t hear someone, most guys will lean in closer to the speaker.</p>
<p>Some men even think this is a positive form of kino because they can use the noise as an excuse to get close to the lady. However, by repeatedly leaning in, you resemble a ravenous chicken, pecking at feed in the chicken coop. It looks bad and it conveys lower value.</p>
<p>Resist the urge to peck. If you can&#8217;t hear what someone says, stand tall and simply ask them to repeat it. Do not lean forward. Stylelife Executive Coach Bravo is an expert on this maneuver.</p>
<p>&#8220;I lost the hearing in one of my ears as a result of firearms training,&#8221; he says. &#8220;I just point to my ear, explain that I have difficulty hearing, and ask the woman to speak up. But my posture never changes. I remain in a confident, upright, and powerful posture.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Day Game Kiss Close (Under 10 Mins) Video</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/02/day-game-kiss-close-under-10-mins-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Day Game]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a new video from PUATraining that has an amazing day game kiss close in London in under 10 minutes. 
One of the biggest things we work on in our bootcamps is dispelling the myth that it takes “7 hours” to move things forward with a girl.
Yad (the guy in the video!) pulls off instant [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a new video from <a href="http://www.puatraining.com/ac/">PUATraining</a> that has an amazing day game kiss close in London in under 10 minutes. </p>
<blockquote><p>One of the biggest things we work on in our bootcamps is dispelling the myth that it takes “7 hours” to move things forward with a girl.</p>
<p>Yad (the guy in the video!) pulls off instant kisses in just minutes and often just takes the girls home right then and there.</p>
<p>I’m more of a night-game guy myself, but I usually take things open to close in under an hour!</p>
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<p>The biggest thing for you to take out of this video is that almost anything is possible with women..very, very quickly.</p>
<p>The key to believing is actually seeing it with your own to eyes. And then getting the results for yourself.</p>
<p>Hopefully this video really helps you out and expands your reality.</p></blockquote>
<p>Check it out:</p>
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<p>If you want to, check out the details of a <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/bootcamps/">PUATraining bootcamp</a>.</p>
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		<title>Dr. Paul MindOS (Deep Inner Game) Chicago Seminar Announced</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/01/dr-paul-mindos-deep-inner-game-chicago-seminar-announced/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 07:53:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Paul, creator of David DeAngelo&#8217;s Deep Inner Game program, has announced that he&#8217;s holding his MindOS seminar Oct 24-25th in Chicago.  
It&#8217;s been over 5 years since Deep Inner Game was created, heralded as one of the most comprehensive solutions to inner game problems by many guys in the community. Dr. Paul stated [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Paul, creator of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David DeAngelo</a>&#8217;s <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1wyUYjpfq0">Deep Inner Game</a> program, has announced that he&#8217;s holding his MindOS seminar Oct 24-25th in Chicago.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s been over 5 years since Deep Inner Game was created, heralded as one of the most comprehensive solutions to inner game problems by many guys in the community. Dr. Paul stated in his email newsletter that for those who have seen Deep Inner Game and previous versions of the program can expect new applications, material and tools to use to breakthrough inner game issues.</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a video from Dr. Paul:</strong></p>
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<p>I&#8217;ll be attending the seminar, it&#8217;s under $500 which is less than the Deep Inner Game program on DVD/CD. It&#8217;s for men and women, so it should be a really transformative and fun event. Hope to see some of you there. You can get more information and specifics from <a href="http://www.doctorpaul.net/mindoschicago/">Dr. Paul&#8217;s page here</a>.</p>
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		<title>An Attraction Secret I learned From A Frog</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 22:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Swinggcat]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, that&#8217;s right&#8230; I learned an attraction secret from a frog&#8230; and there&#8217;s a good chance this secret will instantly double your success with women.
Years ago a friend of mine told me a story about a bunch of little frogs who decided to have a race up a huge tower.
Whoever hops to the top of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://into-the-wild.org/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/frog.jpg" align="left" />Yes, that&#8217;s right&#8230; I learned an attraction secret from a frog&#8230; and there&#8217;s a good chance this secret will instantly double your success with women.</p>
<p>Years ago a friend of mine told me a story about a bunch of little frogs who decided to have a race up a huge tower.</p>
<p>Whoever hops to the top of the tower first would be the winner, they determined.</p>
<p>A huge crowd gathered around the little frogs. No one believed the tiny frogs even had a chance at making it to the top of the tower.</p>
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<p>People from the crowd heckled the little guys with: &#8220;You&#8217;re way too small to climb that tower, you&#8217;ll never make it!&#8221;</p>
<p>And guess what?</p>
<p>Heaps of frogs slid off the tower.</p>
<p>The crowd heckled louder, and the rest of the frogs tumbled down &#8211; except for one. The crowd continued to berate and snicker at him. But he slogged his way to the top.</p>
<p>Do you know why?</p>
<p>He was deaf.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s an important lesson here about attracting and succeeding with women you may already realize.</p>
<p>If not, don&#8217;t worry. I&#8217;m going to discuss it in a minute.</p>
<p>But first…</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that most ladies men see reality different from the average man?</p>
<p>An ordinary man, for example, might perceive a woman as showing little to no interest in him.</p>
<p>But transplant a ladies man&#8217;s brain into his skull and he&#8217;ll see the same woman as a little pervert who can&#8217;t keep her dirty paws off him.</p>
<p>Though, my friend, this is only half the story&#8230;</p>
<p>Similar to the deaf frog, most ladies men are blind and deaf to certain facets of reality. And this is a big part of what makes them disgustingly good at attracting women.</p>
<p>When a woman with the soul of a filthy virus hisses a crippling putdown, most men feel like she&#8217;s pulling their heart out and stepping on it.</p>
<p>But the ladies man boots these words out of his reality.</p>
<p>Or interprets them as meaning: she&#8217;s trying to play hard to get because she knows I&#8217;m a good catch.</p>
<p>If a ladies man approaches a woman and she spouts, “Scat loser!” he doesn&#8217;t have an “I&#8217;m gonna cry” mentality. Instead, he fails to notice the bitter words flowing from her lips.</p>
<p>Most mortal men have a voice of doubt that snakes into their ears every time they want to push forward with a woman.</p>
<p>If they want to approach a girl, the voice might sneer, “She&#8217;s out of your league. She&#8217;d never go for you.”</p>
<p>If they want to kiss her, the voice of doubt might scream, “She&#8217;s not attracted to you! Spare yourself the embarrassment!”</p>
<p>Sound familiar?</p>
<p>The ladies man, similar to ordinary men, has a voice of doubt too. But because he&#8217;s deaf to negative forces, he can&#8217;t hear the voice. The only time his hearing improves is when the voice starts saying things that empower him to take action with women.</p>
<p>“Can an ordinary man see reality like a ladies man?” you might be wondering.</p>
<p>Yes, any man can learn to see the world like a ladies man does. The key is to develop the right beliefs for succeeding with and attracting women.</p>
<p>Beliefs create a direction or focus of attention for the mind.</p>
<p>One of my friends, for example, believes women aren&#8217;t attracted to him. Because his focus of attention is on women not feeling attraction toward him, he&#8217;s always noticing how women aren&#8217;t attracted to him.</p>
<p>Likewise, I&#8217;ve seen women who looked like they wanted him so bad that they&#8217;d have sold their children into slavery to get a piece of him. But he couldn&#8217;t see it because that&#8217;s not where his focus of attention is.</p>
<p>On the other hand, I know a guy barely hovering above 5&#8242;3” whose belly juts out further than his hyperthyroid eyes. He drinks like a fish and stinks like a skunk. And to make matters worse, he&#8217;s missing a hand.</p>
<p>It used to make me cringe to see him approach women. He&#8217;d almost always start off on the wrong foot. I&#8217;d think: “They aren&#8217;t just a little turned off by him; they&#8217;d rather be torn to shreds by a pack of rabies infested hyenas.”</p>
<p>But he doesn&#8217;t see this. He believes all women want him. Like a high powered laser beam he&#8217;s always focusing on and looking for every aspect in which women are mushrooming with love for him.</p>
<p>Because of this… he&#8217;s blind as a bat to women wanting him to disappear quicker than a turd plunging down the toilet.</p>
<p>But something weird happens in his interactions with women. The first time I witnessed it, it gave me the creeps. (Note: What you&#8217;re about to read is an important piece to why ladies men are devastatingly effective with women).</p>
<p>He takes women from wanting to shoot pepper spray in his eyes to feeling compelled to kiss him. He can mutate a churning stomach into a belly fully of attraction.</p>
<p>“But how?” you might be thinking.</p>
<p>There are some deep psychological reasons…</p>
<p>Most people are lumbered with weak and pliable beliefs. More often than not, when two people are interacting, the person with the weaker belief system takes on the beliefs of the person with the stronger.</p>
<p>What this means for you is that…</p>
<p>If a woman starts off believing you&#8217;re less attractive than a fetus with a cigar in his mouth, yet you possess the unwavering belief that she&#8217;s attracted to you, there&#8217;s a high probability she&#8217;ll start believing this too.</p>
<p>But I should warn you&#8230;</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t have the unwavering belief that a woman is attracted to, chances are, she&#8217;ll plunge you into a reality where success with her is slim to none.</p>
<p>The good news is… I&#8217;ve spent a lot of time putting together a book that contains the exact tools, skills, and exercises to developing an ironclad belief system.</p>
<p>As a result, many men just like you have been developing unwavering beliefs systems, giving them the power and confidence to generate attraction inside the women they desire.</p>
<p>But this only covers the tip of the iceberg of what you&#8217;ll learn inside my book. It&#8217;s a world class education on dating and attracting and succeeding with the women you desire.</p>
<p>Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my book right now. You deserve it.</p>
<p>You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.</p>
<p>I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.</p>
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<p>Your loyal datin coach,</p>
<p>Swinggcat </p>
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		<title>Small Towns&#8230; (My First Visit To The UK)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 19:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you live in a small town? 
Do you live in a country town?
I just spent three days in a beautiful sea-side village in Northern England called St. Annes-on-Sea. It was rich with culture and history, and it&#8217;s probably typical of many villages along the coast in the UK.
But it made me think&#8230;
There are probably [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.the-grand.co.uk/images/location/visitormap.jpg" alt="St Annes" align="left" width="350px" />Do you live in a small town? </p>
<p>Do you live in a country town?</p>
<p>I just spent three days in a beautiful sea-side village in Northern England called St. Annes-on-Sea. It was rich with culture and history, and it&#8217;s probably typical of many villages along the coast in the UK.</p>
<p>But it made me think&#8230;</p>
<p>There are probably 20 or so beautiful, eligible women that live in town&#8217;s like this. That&#8217;s it. Tops.</p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re learning to meet and attract women then do yourself a BIG BIG FAVOR and MOVE&#8230; to a bigger city.</p>
<p>Atleast over 1 million.</p>
<p>It may not be your style.</p>
<p>It may not be your taste.</p>
<p>You may not even have work there yet.</p>
<p>Well&#8230;</p>
<p>Get a job there, and MOVE!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard in larger cities to meet eligible women, let alone a small town with only 20.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all I have to say&#8230; I loved my time there, but I would go CRAZY if I had to live there without a beautiful companion in my bed&#8230;</p>
<p>Before St. Annes, I was in London for a few days, and stayed with Richard La Ruina of PUATraining. (Thanks Richard!)</p>
<p>He&#8217;s got some crazy good game!</p>
<p>Last weekend, we went to a few of these high-end London clubs and lounges around Mayfair and Chelsea with his friends. Places where you need to know people to get into. I got some numbers and dates out of it which was fun. I don&#8217;t generally like clubs, but this visit was a special occasion to practice more.</p>
<p>Anyways, Richard told me about some great new things he&#8217;s got going on. He&#8217;s got a new DVD set with AFC Adam Lyons which I saw a few clips of in production, really brilliant stuff. Adam also has a few more inexpensive bootcamps in the USA this year, check them out here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/bootcamps/">http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/bootcamps/</a></p>
<p>Richard&#8217;s products are top notch and I know many of you guys probably haven&#8217;t looked at his stuff yet because your sick of the same old PUA crap.</p>
<p>Well, I think you&#8217;ll find his stuff works and in a natural way:</p>
<p><a href="http://tinyurl.com/ldqcbw">http://tinyurl.com/ldqcbw</a></p>
<p>Anyways, that&#8217;s my update for now!</p>
<p>Donovan</p>
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		<title>Push-Pull: A Powerful Way To Trigger Attraction Inside Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 10:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just about every heterosexual male would love to attract more women. Alas, most men believe looks, money, and social status are the only ways to attract the women they desire. But there&#8217;s another way. One that doesn&#8217;t require any of these things. It&#8217;s called &#8220;sexual tension.&#8221; If you know how to spark sexual tension, you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just about every heterosexual male would love to attract more women. Alas, most men believe looks, money, and social status are the only ways to attract the women they desire. But there&#8217;s another way. One that doesn&#8217;t require any of these things. It&#8217;s called &#8220;sexual tension.&#8221; If you know how to spark sexual tension, you can author your own sexual destiny.</p>
<p>The problem is&#8230;</p>
<p>Only a fraction of fraction of the male population knows how to create sexual tension. That&#8217;s because they don&#8217;t recognize the underlying structure of how sexual tension is sparked and magnified.</p>
<p>All sexual tension has what I call a &#8220;Tension Loop&#8221; structure.</p>
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<p>A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again.</p>
<p>Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months &#8211; sometimes years!</p>
<p>The structure is always the same. The soap starts with some kind of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension.</p>
<p>Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week&#8217;s show.</p>
<p>Mastering the Tension Loop gives you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you. But if you&#8217;re thinking that this is what I wanted to share with you, you&#8217;re wrong.</p>
<p>So keep reading&#8230;</p>
<p>In a minute, you&#8217;re going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call &#8220;Push-Pull.&#8221;</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m about to reveal is Jedi mind shit. We&#8217;re talking Yoda power! And you don&#8217;t have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push-Pull.</p>
<p>Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you&#8230; and then&#8230; emotionally pull her back in.</p>
<p>Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.</p>
<p>To get a sense of where I&#8217;m going with all this, think, for example, of your favorite junk food.</p>
<p>Imagine going on a strict diet for several weeks that forbade you from eating your favorite food.</p>
<p>What would it feel like to finally give in to your urge and indulge after weeks of dieting?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m willing to bet it would taste a thousand times yummier after dieting than before.</p>
<p>Are you starting to see the potential power behind Push-Pull?</p>
<p>If YES, then you already know more about attraction than most guys. (Give yourself a pat on the back.) If you don&#8217;t get it, don&#8217;t worry &#8211; you will in a few short minutes. Many women are natural Push-Pull artists!</p>
<p>Over the years I&#8217;ve heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push-Pull to turn them into emotional yoyos. A nightmarish experience more than a few men have had to endure is this&#8230;</p>
<p>They sleep with a girl and after sex she puts their ego on steroid by telling them, &#8220;You&#8217;re the best lover I&#8217;ve ever had.&#8221;</p>
<p>But, alas, things take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: &#8220;Actually, you&#8217;re the fourth best lover I&#8217;ve ever had.&#8221;</p>
<p>These poor guys feel crushed and struggle to move up to the number three slot.</p>
<p>You can attract heaps of women using these psychological mechanisms without being a jerk! The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention never should be to hurt a woman.</p>
<p>Instead, your goal is to tease her a bit.</p>
<p>If you do this, women will see you as having the same charm and sex appeal that makes them want to hop in the sac with James Bond.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an example of this I&#8217;ve used countless times&#8230;</p>
<p>At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, &#8220;You have the most amazing smile I&#8217;ve seen tonight&#8230; It makes me feel so happy inside!&#8221; She&#8217;ll usually respond with, &#8220;Thank you!&#8221;</p>
<p>Then I&#8217;ll count the fingers on my other hand and say, &#8220;You know what: actually there were four other girls with amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I&#8217;m going to call you number four.&#8221;</p>
<p>And then I&#8217;ll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, &#8220;Nooo! I want to be number one!&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll usually retort with, &#8220;Alright, I&#8217;ll promote you to number three for being feisty.&#8221;</p>
<p>Do women find this derisive and mean?</p>
<p>Not at all. (Note: occasionally, you will encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn&#8217;t think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run Forrest run.)</p>
<p>Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it sparks sexual tension.</p>
<p>Fact: despite ladies&#8217; men making up only a tiny sliver of the male population, they get 90% of all the women.</p>
<p>All ladies&#8217; men use some form of Push-Pull.</p>
<p>However, most of these ladies&#8217; men have no conscious understanding of Push-Pull. The few who do are the most powerful of the Jedi.</p>
<p>In plain English, if you want to get really good at attracting women &#8211; even the ones who find you physically repulsive &#8211; you need to learn as much as you can about Push-Pull.  Because this is a short letter, I&#8217;ve only scratched the surface behind using Push-Pull.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to learn the in-and-outs of Push-Pull, check my eBook Real World Seduction.</p>
<p>Push-Pull is only part of what you&#8217;ll learn inside Real World Seduction. You&#8217;ll get your hands on secrets for succeeding at every step of the attraction process: from the approach to engaging a woman in conversation to sparking attraction to sexual intimacy and beyond.</p>
<p>I might not know you personally. But I do know&#8230;</p>
<p>What I teach gets results. It consistently drives women to see you as a Prize and triggers uncontrollable attraction inside them.</p>
<p>Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my course right now. You deserve it.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so confident that my eBook is going to drastically increase your success with women I&#8217;m going to let you <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/swinggcat">test-drive it for a single dollar for 7 days</a>.</p>
<p>You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.</p>
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		<title>Set Your Intent</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 23:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s talk a little bit about setting an intent.  I&#8217;m going to share a story with you, one that is very personal to me.
The other night I was kind of just sitting around, and I started reminiscing a little bit.  Then I started thinking to myself, &#8220;God, it&#8217;s amazing.&#8221;  I read all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s talk a little bit about setting an intent.  I&#8217;m going to share a story with you, one that is very personal to me.</p>
<p>The other night I was kind of just sitting around, and I started reminiscing a little bit.  Then I started thinking to myself, &#8220;God, it&#8217;s amazing.&#8221;  I read all your posts on the blog and on YouTube.  I see all of you struggling so much either trying to meet someone, to work on aspects of your relationship or to work on aspects of yourself.   What I realized was that I think a lot of you are missing the point.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the story I want to share with you.  When I was nineteen years old, I was really skinny.  I know I&#8217;m not exactly the bulkiest guy in the world right now.  At nineteen, though, I was really thin.  I was a &#8216;tall drink of water&#8217; &#8212; tall, lean and thin.</p>
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<p>Then I saw the movie Flashdance.  As most of you know, Flashdance was a hot, sexy dance movie.  After seeing it I thought to myself, &#8220;I really want to be in that type of shape where I can just rock it at all times.&#8221;</p>
<p>The minute the movie ended, I went into the basement of the house I was renting in college and I started working out.  I haven&#8217;t stopped since that day.</p>
<p>I have been working out since I was nineteen, and I&#8217;m now 47 years old.  I&#8217;ve been working out consistently for 28 years.</p>
<p>When I was in my 20s, I was a big guy.  I was bulky, big around the neck, and had big arms and shoulders.  Now, at 47 years old, I&#8217;m more lean again.</p>
<p>The one thing that will never change about me is being in shape.  I will always be in shape.</p>
<p>Why?  Because I work at it every day.  Every single day I do something.</p>
<p>last night a took a long walk on the beach after we had dinner.  The day before that I did weights.  Tomorrow I&#8217;m probably going to go for a bike ride.  The day after that I&#8217;m probably going to go do some more weights, maybe do a little bit of stretching and Pilates.</p>
<p>No matter what it is, every day I&#8217;m doing something.  It might be for half an hour, 45 minutes or an hour.  It doesn&#8217;t matter.  The reason why I do it every day is because I believe there is no reason for me not to look good, and not to feel good about who I am and what I&#8217;m all about.</p>
<p>Why should I look flabby?  Why should my woman look at me and think to herself, &#8220;God he looked so much better six months ago.  Why doesn&#8217;t he look that good now?&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the message I want to get through to all of you.  The message is that if you want to achieve goals, you&#8217;ve got to painfully do something every day.</p>
<p>Do I enjoy working out?  Some days I hate it.  Do I enjoy taking a long walk?  Sometimes I love it, but other times I just don&#8217;t want to do it.</p>
<p>I do it not only to look good, but also because it makes me feel good.  I like to feel tight.  I like to feel ripped.  I like to feel my body.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t like to feel flabby in any way.  I wouldn&#8217;t want to see myself with a big belly.</p>
<p>Is this all ego?  There&#8217;s probably a little bit of ego involved, but a big part of it is the way it makes me feel.  I feel great.</p>
<p>All of you need to realize that in order for you to get good at something, you&#8217;ve got to do the work.  You&#8217;ve got to drag your ass out there every single day.  You&#8217;ve got to drag yourself out there even on days you don&#8217;t want to drag yourself out there.</p>
<p>You have no choice but to drag yourself out there and get things done.  If you want to become good at something, then you&#8217;ve got to do it every single day (including on days you don&#8217;t want to do it).</p>
<p>So even when it&#8217;s cold or raining, you&#8217;ve got to get to the gym or get out there and meet people or do whatever it is that you have set as a goal for yourself.  If you want to become a good conversationalist, for example, you&#8217;ve got to talk to everybody . . . and you&#8217;ve got to do it every day.</p>
<p>So many of you will get so frustrated &#8212; so painfully frustrated &#8212; while you&#8217;re working on a goal.  It will drive you up the wall.  It will drive you crazy.  You&#8217;ll get so frustrated, it&#8217;s ridiculous.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve got to work through those frustrations.  I was so proud when I had that realization the other day that for the last 27 years I&#8217;ve worked through my  frustrations and therefore can look in the mirror today knowing I&#8217;m in as good shape now as i was in at age nineteen.</p>
<p>Do you know how that makes me feel?  I&#8217;ve got a herniated disc.  You would never know it by looking at me . . . ever.  I move well.  I&#8217;m strong.  That makes me feel great!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got a blown shoulder.  I can move through that pain, and I&#8217;m strong as can be.</p>
<p>How about getting blown off by a woman once in a while.  That is a frustration that I know many of you face.  All of you can blow right through all that stuff.  I know you can.  I know every one of you can.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve just got to persevere.  You&#8217;ve just got to drag yourself out there every day and work on the things you need to work on.  You can do it.  I know you can do it.</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s video will help you understand women&#8217;s intent.</p>
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<p><strong>Learn more from David Wygant at his <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">website</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Logical Thinking Will Not Work While Meeting Women</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/08/03/logical-thinking-will-not-work-while-meeting-women/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2009 06:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a logical thinker?
Are you a man or a woman who thinks out the whole conversation before you approach someone of the opposite sex?
Are you someone who actually thinks about dates before you go on them?  Do you think about what is going to happen or what exactly you need to do to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you a logical thinker?</p>
<p>Are you a man or a woman who thinks out the whole conversation before you approach someone of the opposite sex?</p>
<p>Are you someone who actually thinks about dates before you go on them?  Do you think about what is going to happen or what exactly you need to do to make things happen the way you want?</p>
<p>Do you actually believe that there is a manual you can read that will show you step-by-step what to say every time you approach someone?</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s podcast is a special treat for all of you.  It&#8217;s a recording of some live coaching Coach Khiem and I did with a few guys at last weekend&#8217;s Bootcamp.  In the podcast, I will get into the stubborn heads of all of you logical thinkers, and I&#8217;ll show you exactly how to speak with emotions.</p>
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<p>I also debunk the myth of &#8220;structured communication&#8221; systems which, for some reason, a ton of pickup companies actually try to get men to believe will work on women.  All of you ladies know, however, that such systems are a load of . . . you know what.</p>
<p>To listen to the podcast, click here:</p>
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<p><strong>For more from David Wygant check out his eBook, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">Date To Win</a>.</p>
                                              <center><p><strong>As a gift for subscribing to the RSS, download my <strike>$6.95</strike> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/blueprint-inner-game-report/">Blueprint To Inner Game Success</a> for free.</strong></p><p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/">Seduction</a> Chronicles Quick Links:</a> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/vh1-the-pickup-artist/">VH1 Pickup Artist</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David DeAngelo</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/neil-strauss/">Neil Strauss</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/ross-jeffries/">Ross Jeffries</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/04/paul-janka-new-york-citys-casanova/">Paul Janka</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/double-your-dating-review/">Double Your Dating</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mystery-method/">Mystery Method</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/11/the-weirdness-of-real-social-dynamics/">Real Social Dynamics</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/wayne-elise-ebook/">Wayne Elise</a></p><img src="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?ak_action=api_record_view&id=1201&type=feed" alt="" />]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Overcoming Fear Of Women</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/27/overcoming-fear-of-women/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 04:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[David Deangelo]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ NOTE: One of the most powerful ways to build a strong &#8220;Inner Game&#8221; confidence is to actually go inside and turn yourself into a MATURE man. I know it sounds a little crazy, but if you&#8217;re ever going to have the kind of success that you really want with women (and in life), then [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img style="margin-right: 10px;" src="http://maxdunbar.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/fear_poster_med.jpg" align="left" /> <strong>NOTE: </strong>One of the most powerful ways to build a strong &#8220;Inner Game&#8221; confidence is to actually go inside and turn yourself into a MATURE man. I know it sounds a little crazy, but if you&#8217;re ever going to have the kind of success that you really want with women (and in life), then you are going to have to do it. If this makes sense to you, then <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/onbeingaman">read THIS</a>.</p>
<p><strong>>>>COMMENT FROM A READER</strong>:</p>
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<p>Hi Obi&#8217;Wan De&#8217;Angelo,</p>
<p>I was one of, I&#8217;m guessing, the heaps of other guys that have trouble with the ladies that are giant procrastinators.</p>
<p>This was a major problem of mine, I&#8217;d think about what to do and what to say, only to find that I missed my opportunity in doing so.</p>
<p>Then a few weeks after reading &#8220;<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/double-your-dating-review/">Double Your Dating</a>&#8221; I thought bugger this what am I scared of a little girl who is smaller than me not being interested. What a way to live life. Worried so much about what somebody else might think or say. I&#8217;m 19 and had never dated, so I set myself a goal of getting half a dozen dates by the end of the year.   Now this may not seem like a lot, but to me it seemed almost impossible.</p>
<p>I started by phoning a girl that is in my course at uni who&#8217;s number I already had, and I arranged a study date. When I say &#8216;I&#8217; she basically organized it, I think she was just waiting for me to show some initiative because she sounded almost ecstatic that I had phoned&#8217;.</p>
<p>And although I didn&#8217;t jump straight in the deep- end asking a stranger for her number, that was only a step away. Now I have so many girls to choose from it&#8217;s almost confusing. Though I prefer being confused than lonely.</p>
<p>So Dave what I&#8217;m trying to say is you have improved my life tenfold. Not only am I having a great time seeing different girls, I&#8217;m also doing better at my studies because I no longer have in the back of my mind how pathetic I am. I also have made more friends through knowing so many more people. All I needed was that first little step and it soon snowballed, because as you know pretty girls know pretty girls, now it&#8217;s just a matter of finding one that meets my now prestigious standards.</p>
<p>Dave IOU my life, thanks.</p>
<p>T.G.<br />
Australia</p>
<p><strong>>>>MY COMMENTS:</strong></p>
<p>Thanks for the great Success Story! Nice!</p>
<p>Ah, the concept that is near and dear to all of us men who have started on the path to success with women and dating&#8230;</p>
<p>FEAR.</p>
<p>Fear of rejection.</p>
<p>Fear of embarrassment.</p>
<p>Fear of the unknown.</p>
<p>Fear of what a woman might do if we start talking to her.</p>
<p>Fear of what other guys would think if they knew that we needed help with women.</p>
<p>Fear of what WOMEN would think if they knew that we needed help with women.</p>
<p>Fear of admitting that we&#8217;re AFRAID.</p>
<p>&#8230;and about 100 others.</p>
<p>But, what exactly IS fear?</p>
<p>And why is it such a problem?</p>
<p>And what can be done to overcome it?</p>
<p>(By the way, as I mentioned at the beginning, if you want to REALLY get past your internal fears, then you need to do DEEP work.)   I recommend that you STRONGLY consider the information that I share HERE as well:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/onbeingaman">http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan</a></p>
<p>Onward&#8230;</p>
<p>Well, let&#8217;s start with what fear is, then we&#8217;ll move on to some techniques to get past it.</p>
<p>I once heard a great definition of FEAR:</p>
<p><em>False Evidence Appearing Real</em></p>
<p>In other words, the things that you feel fear about are usually not real. It&#8217;s usually just &#8220;false evidence&#8221;.</p>
<p>You also might think back about the last 10 things you felt fear around. Now, ask yourself&#8230; Did any of those things come true?</p>
<p>In most of the cases, you&#8217;ll find that the fear did NOT come true.</p>
<p>I heard once that something like 98% of the things that people fear and worry about never come true.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found this to be true in my own life as well.</p>
<p>Fear is an emotion, or an emotional state. It&#8217;s an amazing and wonderful emotion&#8230; because it can help save your life in certain situations.</p>
<p>A hundred thousand years ago, when we were running around in the desert, we needed powerful, motivating emotions like FEAR to save our lives.</p>
<p>When you feel fear (especially if it&#8217;s a response to real physical danger) you&#8217;ll notice that some AMAZING things happen. Your eyes open up wider so you can see better, adrenaline pumps into your body, your heart beats fast to deliver blood to your muscles, and all kinds of other wondrous processes are triggered.</p>
<p>The PROBLEM is when we experience fear at times when there IS NO real physical danger.</p>
<p>We humans are amazing. We can just IMAGINE things and feel fear in response to the mental images.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m sure you know exactly what the problem is with this&#8230; it can IMMOBILIZE you at critical times.</p>
<p>Have you ever seen a woman that you&#8217;d like to meet, but you just couldn&#8217;t walk over and start talking to her?</p>
<p>No, it&#8217;s never happened to me, either.</p>
<p>What was the problem?</p>
<p>Usually, it&#8217;s fear.</p>
<p>Fear that she&#8217;ll get upset, or fear that she&#8217;ll have a boyfriend&#8230; or fear that she&#8217;ll embarrass you in front of others&#8230; or fear that you won&#8217;t know what to say to her&#8230;</p>
<p>And, of course, when you feel that strong fear emotion, it just FREEZES you and makes you totally ineffective.</p>
<p>So, what&#8217;s the solution?</p>
<p>Well, there are several ways to overcome fears.</p>
<p>One way is to do the thing you fear. If you do the thing that you fear, and see that nothing bad will happen, then you eventually overcome it and become programmed not to feel fear anymore.</p>
<p>For instance, if you&#8217;re afraid to approach women and talk to them, just DO IT. Go talk to 50 women in the next week and see that most of them will respond positively to you (if you don&#8217;t act like a dumb-ass, that is).</p>
<p>Other ways to overcome your fear when it comes to approaching women include:</p>
<p>- Understanding the dynamics of male/female interactions better than most women do.</p>
<p>- Learning how to approach women using the same types of words and body language that the masters use.</p>
<p>- Learning how to use props or other devices to get a woman&#8217;s attention without having to &#8220;approach&#8221; her directly.</p>
<p>- Learning mental techniques to overcome fears or &#8220;reset&#8221; your emotions instantly, anytime you&#8217;d like (this is one of my personal favorites).</p>
<p>- Using mental preparation to be completely ready for anything that might happen.</p>
<p>&#8230;and there are several others.</p>
<p>I have spent a lot of time in my own personal life learning about and figuring out how to get past fears and other psychological obstacles with women.</p>
<p>And if you haven&#8217;t downloaded my online eBook &#8220;Double Your Dating&#8221;, then you need to do that now. You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes. Get it here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/dyd">http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook</a></p>
<p>You can get past your fears, but you need to learn how&#8230;</p>
<p>So make the commitment to yourself, and do it!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll talk to you again soon.</p>
<p>Your Friend,<br />
<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David Deangelo</a></p>
                                              <center><p><strong>As a gift for subscribing to the RSS, download my <strike>$6.95</strike> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/blueprint-inner-game-report/">Blueprint To Inner Game Success</a> for free.</strong></p><p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/">Seduction</a> Chronicles Quick Links:</a> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/vh1-the-pickup-artist/">VH1 Pickup Artist</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David DeAngelo</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/neil-strauss/">Neil Strauss</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/ross-jeffries/">Ross Jeffries</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/04/paul-janka-new-york-citys-casanova/">Paul Janka</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/double-your-dating-review/">Double Your Dating</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mystery-method/">Mystery Method</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/11/the-weirdness-of-real-social-dynamics/">Real Social Dynamics</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/wayne-elise-ebook/">Wayne Elise</a></p><img src="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?ak_action=api_record_view&id=1196&type=feed" alt="" />]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Project Las Vegas (Video)</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/27/project-las-vegas-video/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 22:26:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It looks as though Richard La Ruina (Gambler), Adam Lyons, and a few others will be holding a bootcamp event in Las Vegas September 6-13. 
Here&#8217;s a preview:

Check out more from PUATraining at their official website.
                    [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It looks as though Richard La Ruina (Gambler), Adam Lyons, and a few others will be holding a bootcamp event in Las Vegas September 6-13. </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a preview:</p>
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<p>Check out more from PUATraining at their <a href="http://www.puatraining.com/ac">official website</a>.</p>
                                              <center><p><strong>As a gift for subscribing to the RSS, download my <strike>$6.95</strike> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/blueprint-inner-game-report/">Blueprint To Inner Game Success</a> for free.</strong></p><p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/">Seduction</a> Chronicles Quick Links:</a> <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/vh1-the-pickup-artist/">VH1 Pickup Artist</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David DeAngelo</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/neil-strauss/">Neil Strauss</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/ross-jeffries/">Ross Jeffries</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/04/paul-janka-new-york-citys-casanova/">Paul Janka</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/double-your-dating-review/">Double Your Dating</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mystery-method/">Mystery Method</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/11/the-weirdness-of-real-social-dynamics/">Real Social Dynamics</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/wayne-elise-ebook/">Wayne Elise</a></p><img src="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?ak_action=api_record_view&id=1194&type=feed" alt="" />]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Check Your Ego At The Door</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/15/check-your-ego-at-the-door/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let’s talk a little about relationships today…
Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let’s talk a little about relationships today…</p>
<p>Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship, but it’s equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you’re already in it.</p>
<p>Nothing will kill a relationship (even the best of relationships) more quickly than ego. Here are 6 ways your ego can kill your relationship, and how to avoid having your ego ruin your relationship.</p>
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<p><strong>1.Resist The Temptation To Defend Yourself:</strong> Think about the number of times you’ve fought with a significant other, and whenever things get a little heated you start to defend yourself. All you hear is you being attacked, and you immediately go into “defending yourself” mode. Do you know that when you defend yourself in a fight, what’s really happening is your ego is defending itself.</p>
<p>It also means that you’ve stopped listening to the other person.  If someone tells you that they don’t like the way you’ve been acting lately, why not hear them out instead of defending yourself? It will almost always create a MUCH better outcome.</p>
<p><strong>2.To Love Yourself And Someone Else Completely You Must Separate The Ego:</strong> In order to truly love someone, you must separate your ego from yourself. This is also true if you want to be able to totally love yourself. Now, I know that in a perfect world, we would never be ego-driven. This is not a perfect world of course, so let’s get real. We are all ego-driven to some extent or another, so let’s acknowledge it and embrace that we need to separate the ego to cultivate and maintain a truly amazing relationship with someone.</p>
<p><strong>3.Your Ego Can Ruin Any Conversation:</strong> The truth is that no matter how much you prepare, plan and hope for a good conversation with your significant other, your ego is the one thing that will consistently ruin any conversation you’re about to have if you let it.</p>
<p>Let’s say your significant other is frustrated with you in one way or another and really needs to express something about that to you. How do you respond? If you let your ego get involved and you defend yourself, it means that you’re not listening to them.</p>
<p>In order to really listen to somebody, it’s uncomfortable.  Sometimes your significant other has things that are really bothering them about which they want to talk to you, but which you would rather not hear. To maintain a great relationship, however, you can’t let your ego keep you from really listening.</p>
<p><strong>4.You Have To Be Willing To Drop The Ego And Learn To Have A Healthy Relationship:</strong> If you want to really be able to get deep with someone and take your relationship to a deep level, then you need to be able to take your ego out of the equation. You will always attract somebody who is just like yourself, because you really attract who you are as a person.  Also, your significant other is going to do things that you don’t recognize.  It may be voices, patterns, communication styles or other things with which you aren’t familiar.</p>
<p>You need to be open and able to learn these things about your significant other, and your ego will keep you from doing this every time. All of us need to learn things about our significant other every single day.  We need to learn our significant other’s communication style, because many times your communication styles will be very different.</p>
<p><strong>5.Dropping The Ego Doesn’t Mean You Need To Change Who You Are:</strong> It can take a lot for you to drop the ego, really listen to your significant other and realize that they need you say something in a different way or understand how the way you communicate may make them feel a certain way. A lot of people misunderstand these kind of requests as being their significant other’s attempt to change them. It’s not.</p>
<p>They’re not trying to change you, they are trying to improve the way you communicate with each other. They are trying to get the two of you to be able to communicate better than you ever have in the past. Don’t let your ego get in the way. Embrace this!</p>
<p><strong>6. Ego Causes Those “Low Blowers” Which Are The Biggest Relationship Killers</strong>: Do you get frustrated when you’re having an argument with a significant other? Of course, we all do. When that happens, though, sometimes the ego will cause you to hurl what I call “low blowers” at the other person.</p>
<p>You’re feeling hurt, so you lash out and say something you know will make the other person hurt too. It was not only hurtful, but inevitably something stupid. By listening to your significant other, instead of lashing out from your ego, you can get through an argument without these low blows and they will be much more constructive (and not destructive to your relationship).</p>
<p>So the next time you see your ego getting involved in your relationship, get rid of it! If you find yourself defending yourself or not allowing you to really listen, then you need to take a step back. Listen carefully to what’s really being said, and use it to create the most amazing relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Read more from David Wygant at his <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">website</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Love Systems On Tyra Banks Show</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/14/love-systems-on-tyra-banks-show/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 01:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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Like what Love Systems has to offer? Check out &#8220;Magic Bullets&#8220;, it&#8217;s the essential pickup guide.

I asked Nick Savoy about his experience on the Tyra Banks Show:
Q.  What was the audience reaction to you?
A.  At first the audience felt little skeptical.  Tyra is all about empowering women.  I think that’s great, [...]]]></description>
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<p>I asked Nick Savoy about his experience on the Tyra Banks Show:</p>
<p><strong>Q.  What was the audience reaction to you?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A.</strong>  At first the audience felt little skeptical.  Tyra is all about empowering women.  I think that’s great, but some people misinterpret empowering women as being against the Love Systems movement. </p>
<p>Of course, that’s backwards, because Love Systems is all about what works and what beautiful women respond to in the real world.  If women responded to men eating ice cream, Love Systems would be run a Baskin Robbins franchise.  But women respond to the techniques of the Love Systems Triad – our original model of dating and seduction.  So that’s what we teach and what we use ourselves. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  What do you think Tyra Banks was trying to accomplish by having you on the show?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A.</strong>  I think it was a mix of entertainment, curiosity, and giving her audience a bit of insight on how men about dating and relationships.  But I’m not really sure – her people didn’t try to script us.</p>
<p>I think she wanted to show both extremes – first a guy who could be attractive to women but doesn’t get what he wants because he doesn’t know how to get women to respond to him.  And then guys like Braddock or myself who were once in that position, studied Love Systems, and are living life the way we want to. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  Why did you take Braddock this time?  You went on the Dr Phil Show with The Don…</strong></p>
<p><strong>A. </strong> Any of the eight lead Love Systems instructors could have handled it, but it was really time to unleash <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/02/01/interview-with-braddock-of-love-systems/">Braddock</a>.  Everyone is talking about him as the next big thing with all of his breakthroughs in the pickup artist / dating coaching world.   His teaching gets amazing reviews. </p>
<p>I’ve noticed that all of the big names in dating have a signature event.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/18/cajun-seduction-masters-interview/">Cajun has Keys to the VIP</a>.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/04/09/the-mystery-method-and-ross-jefferies-on-dr-phil-this-friday/">The Don has Dr Phil</a>.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/14/soul-pua-infield-day-game-video/">Soul has his pickup video</a> (and a bunch more in the Love Systems Pickup Video Channel.  Fivepointzero has a TV show of him actually training rock stars on Love Systems.  And so on.</p>
<p>So Tyra Banks was a great fit, and a good opportunity to put Braddock to the test.  After Friday, he won’t be much of a secret any more. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  Some people say that by explaining Love Systems to a mostly-female TV audience lessens the power of the secret techniques you teach.  How would you respond?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A. </strong> That’s old-school thinking.  Sure, if you peacock like it’s a dress code and you use the same five routines over and over and then women see that, they won’t be interested.  I don’t think most people can get good results today from dressing and acting like the VH-1 show, even though I was consultant on the first season.  Before it aired, you could.  Game is different now.</p>
<p>Techniques like the Love Systems Triad (LST) are so effective in part because a woman can know exactly what you’re doing and it will still work.  No woman in the world is going to say “you have great body language; this must be a trick” or “you have great social intelligence and know exactly how to convey your good qualities without bragging – I don’t want anything to do with you”.  Sure there’s a lot of secret sauce that goes into Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp) bootcamps, but you’ll notice none of that hits the air.</p>
<p>Just last week actually a woman journalist came to one of The Don’s bootcamps (<a href="http://www.asylum.com/2009/07/08/pickup-tips-from-pickup-boot-camp/">source</a>).  Not only did she agree with a lot of Love Systems, but she also admitted that <em>&#8220;I have to admit that a lot of the routines, as delivered by the experienced instructors, would totally have worked on me in a bar&#8221;  </em></p>
<p><em>Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems">Love Systems</a> (the old Mystery Method Corp).  The Tyra Banks show airs on Friday, July 17th. </em></p>
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		<title>Soul PUA Infield Day Game Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 00:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Soul, of Love Systems, has this footage of him approaching women and some background on himself as a day game coach. I found his day game approach, easy going, casual and low pressure, this tends to suit many guys when there aren&#8217;t many other guys distracting the girl you&#8217;re after. Turn it up a little [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soul, of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/">Love Systems</a>, has this footage of him approaching women and some background on himself as a day game coach. I found his day game approach, easy going, casual and low pressure, this tends to suit many guys when there aren&#8217;t many other guys distracting the girl you&#8217;re after. Turn it up a little for those women that tend to be ADHD. =)</p>
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		<title>Progress &amp; End Results</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 02:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve broken up with my girlfriend and have been getting back into the game. So, kinda starting from scratch because we dated so long. 
BUT&#8230;
I&#8217;ve really noticed something.
I think it might be a GUY thing to do, that most MEN do without knowing it&#8230;
We like the END RESULT.
We go after the END RESULT.
What we don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve broken up with my girlfriend and have been getting back into the game. So, kinda starting from scratch because we dated so long. </p>
<p>BUT&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve really noticed something.</p>
<p>I think it might be a GUY thing to do, that most MEN do without knowing it&#8230;</p>
<p>We like the END RESULT.</p>
<p>We go after the END RESULT.</p>
<p>What we don&#8217;t realize is, that when we don&#8217;t get that END RESULT&#8230; QUICKLY&#8230; we tend to get discouraged. </p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the solution?</p>
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<p>I think the solution is focusing on the micro-results. </p>
<p>E.g. Get a girl laughing<br />
E.g. Get a girl having a fun time with you<br />
E.g. Get a girls phone number</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry about the end result just yet. Let&#8217;s focus on the beginning phases. It will build your confidence FAST. It will also make you more attractive.  So&#8230; don&#8217;t be discouraged, just RE-FOCUS.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be thinking about 3-somes. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be thinking about getting an instant makeout.</p>
<p>Just be focused with approaching and saying &#8220;HI&#8221; or &#8220;Having a good night?&#8221;</p>
<p>And PROGRESS.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s how you become confident and excited. </p>
<p>You build on small micro-goals.</p>
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