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I just got off the phone with a really cool guy who is going to be taking a Bootcamp. During our conversation, we got into the topic of expectations.

So many people have expectations about their life. They think, “If I take this job, my life is going to be so much easier” or “If I learn how to talk to women, my life is going to be so much better.”

What having expectations really means is that you’re not living in the present, because life is never what you think it’s going to be. Life is never exactly what your expectations envision.

Ask yourself these questions: Is your life exactly what you thought it was going to be? Did your career go exactly according to plan? Did your marriage go exactly according to plan? Are you making the exact amount of money you thought you’d make? Are you living in the exact type of home you thought you’d buy?

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My buddy Christian Hudson’s (used to work with Juggler) has released a new program, “Unbreakable Game and Confidence”.

I received quite a few emails about this program – you guys could tell that it was different and that a lot of thought has gone into it. And I’m not the only one who was spreading the word. If you’re on other mailing lists or read blogs about this stuff, I wouldn’t be surprised if you’re hearing about it from them too.

Christian’s program is unique. It is about developing an instinctive level of confidence, social intuition, and social skills, or “game”. When you’re talking to a woman, your words should be charming, genuine and bold, and having had a chance to look at this program now, it delivers on that promise in a big way. There are four major sections of the program.

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A good one from David Deangelo:

I have a couple of PERSONAL questions I’d like to ask you…

You may have never shared these things with anyone before… but I want you to think about them, and be as honest as possible…

Has the lack of women in your life ever made you worry that something might be WRONG with you… but you don’t exactly know what?

Have you ever felt (or do you feel now) that if you could just get that one special girl, those feelings would disappear… and everything would be ok?

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Love Systems are running Project Rockstar for a second year. Project Rockstar is a free intensive 8 week program for 6 carefully selected guys from around the world to train every day for 2 months in London with the best of the best – dating coaches, pick up artists, fitness instructors, entrepreneurs and business gurus in the UK and internationally.

Last year Project Rockstar altered the lives of all people involved. One Rockstar made a contact through using social circles who gave him a whole business plan and a start-up loan that enabled him to build a corporate business which is currently booming in the States. One quit his job at a prestigious hedge fund to become an extreme sports instructor.

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Rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat. Have you ever heard that sound in your head – rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat tat tat? Do you have any idea what it’s like to be a Vienna sausage stuck in a jar with not enough liquid?

Well, yesterday I experienced all of that. I got the MRI.

I can’t begin to tell you how cheap they were. It’s not like I was hoping to experience a “happy ending” or anything, but for what I’m going to have to pay that my insurance doesn’t cover (and believe me, Michael Moore, I’m sure the insurance company is going to stick it to me on this one!), you’d think they’d at least invest in some Bose® noise-reducing headphones.

The MRI machine looks like one of those Japanese hotels. You know, those beds you rest on in Japan that look like you’re sleeping in a drawer.

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Ever think you could have women approach you because of your Tshirt?

So, I’ve never been a fan of peacocking, but these t-shirts work like a charm.

I got something you have to check out: spanishflytshirts.com. If you are hosting a birthday or bachelor party, or just looking to go out and be the hit of the bar, these shirts are the cheapest and easiest way to have an amazing time. I have a friend, no game, NO experience with talking to women… making out with the hottest girls of the bar by the end of the night! With these games on your shirt you become the party at the bar, and no girl can resist. True.

They are the ultimate ice breaker because you approach with a game that any girl will say yes to. Want to see her D cups? Just smile and hand her the marker…

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