Closing At Her Place
Once I started learning Love Systems, I was actually able to pull beautiful women home to my place. But in the meantime, I also got good at making things work by going back to her place. Here are four tips for closing at her place.
1) Find out where she lives.
This step seems obvious, but you’d be surprised how often it is unintentionally left out. When you know where a woman lives, you can plan ahead to deal with the logistical problems you’re going to hit later.
Does she live near the venue? Does she have a roommate? Is she in a dorm? Do you know of a cool bar/after hours joint near her place? When you want to bounce her back there, are you going to drive, walk, or take a cab? Even if you end up with a phone number + date instead of going home with her, this info will be useful for when you go out again.
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Introduction To Day Game
Introduction
If meeting women in the daytime is something you’re interested in then this primer is for you. It contains the basic information on day game that I present at most bootcamps I instruct at. In my opinion, this is what you need to know to get out there and start meeting people outside of a nightclub environment.
Opening
I find the greatest consistency and satisfaction using direct openers such as:
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How To Recover From A Bad Breakup
by David Deangelo.
DATING QUESTION FROM A READER
I am at the end of long long divorce settlement – (18 months) I started dating about six months after our split — meeting most on the internet- Found I was naturally using some cocky and funny but accelerated when I started getting your newsletter.
Meeting them and lining them up has been no problem-but once we are intimate –they want exclusivity–I can’t know what I want yet (except sex)–but don’t want some of the good ones to get away–I keep hearing “you want your cake and eat it too!!”
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4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men
Most men HATE the idea of “rejection”. I’m not talking about “don’t like the idea” or “wish it didn’t happen”… I’m talking HATE here.
The idea of walking up to a woman and having her REJECT you causes most men to instantly feel sick in the pit of their stomachs and literally feel a horrible combination of nervousness and confusion.
A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.
Most men find this state so scary that they end up deciding to forget about approaching the women… just to end the discomfort. The temptation is great to just “walk away” because just as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it goes away when you decide to “forget about it and walk away”.
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Sticking Points
I’m going to add something here, that you should do EVERY SINGLE MONTH, at least, maybe every week.
I still get value from this exercise, and it takes very little time. However, just knowing this exercise won’t help, you have to actually DO IT.
Take one piece of A4. At the top write “I see a hot girl”. At the bottom write: “we start having sex” (or “she says ‘I do’”, or whatever your actual outcome is).
Then fill in a plausible and detailed explanation of how you got from seeing this chick to being balls deep. Whenever you get to a point where you’re not sure what to write, you’ve found a sticking point.
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The Secret To Picking Up Women On Valentines Day
By Love Systems – Sign up for their free newsletter.
I don’t recommend most bars and clubs for Valentine’s Day. Unless you’re going to a high-end venue where they keep the ratios good, you’re likely to be surrounded by groups of desperate men and few attractive women.
This kills the vibe and puts a woman on the defensive. She’ll automatically associate you with these guys.
So… if you are going out like this, prepare for LOTS of “tests.” There’s no way a hot woman is going to let herself get picked up on Valentine’s Day without testing you first. Make sure you have great responses to questions like this:
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New Sex Tutorial DVDs
A new product that is VERY useful for guys just now starting to have more sex in their lives is 2 Girls Teach Sex.
I’ve posted up a comprehensive review in the Product Reviews section:
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Is The PUA Dead?
Excerpt from a recent editorial from Askmen.com.
The recent trend toward men with androgynous characteristics may be due to women’s subconscious rejection of the previously celebrated alpha males. Some PUAs already wear the Adam Lambert-manliner. Is the next logical step to blend more feminine attributes into their alpha to make it more easily digestible? Or possibly the same techniques may appear fresh again if presented in a bumbling Seth Rogen-esque manner? The bromantic comedy boom could inspire a new wave of PUAs that look like AFCs. You could be a Trojan Horse of seduction. The woman thinks she’s gotten the gift of a new unintimidating male friend when suddenly a secret chamber bursts open and from it pours sublime seduction skills. Before she knows it, she’s Katherine Heigl in Knocked Up (hopefully without the pregnancy part).
Can you predict the next generation of PUAs and their new bag of tricks? Or do you think the era described in The Game is still in full effect?
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Dr. Paul Bootcamp In Mens Health
Our friend Dr. Paul was featured on the new online edition of MensHealth.com. Dr. Paul was featured as one of “Americas Coolest Jobs”.
Check out the photos here.
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Interview with Nick Savoy on Text and Phone Game
Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method). I’m interviewing him today on their upcoming book The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game that is coming out January 21st, 2010.
The name of the book speaks for itself, but can you give us an idea what we can expect?
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