When you’re talking to women during the day (day game), whether it be a coffee shop, supermarket, zoo, park or college, we’re typically told to work towards an instant date. An instant date is when you take her from where you currently are to another venue. Basically, instead of meeting up with her again, you simply go to another place and continue hanging out right away. An instant date is where you go for a coffee or some kind of mini-date with a woman immediately after having met her.
Many still believe that an instant date is the way to go. But, you have other options. When you meet her for the first time during the day, you still should opt for a “date” later that night.
Why?
There are a few reasons. One of them is that its very unlikely that the instant date will turn “sexual”. She might have other things on her mind, like getting lunch, appointments, meetings, and needing to get back to work. You might be in a rush to get other things done for yourself. Either way, it’s not helpful to have this many distractions when you both should be focusing on the sexual attraction between you too.
Most men and women typically consider sex a “night” event, especially when you’ve just started dating them. But when you’re in a relationship – it’s on at all times of the day! 
One of the prime attraction triggers with women is mystery. The feeling women get when they don’t know the exact schedule. If you’re going out with her right after first meeting her then there’s a good chance that alot of that mystery will be gone. Nighttime holds a certain mystic that should be used to your advantage.
You also could risk falling in the friend zone by spending too much time first off during the day. She might say “oh that nice guy I met at lunch, then chatted that afternoon”. Big deal for you huh? We want them feeling attracted, not a friend.
There are always plenty of circumstances that are exceptional. You could always make it happen where you spend 4 hours one afternoon on an instant date and she will be very attracted to you. There may also be many times when you’ll have sex with a woman right after meeting her during the day. Sometimes things work out for the best, sometimes they don’t. It’s better to take your chances with something with higher odds of success than playing it at a masters level right off the bat. In time, you’ll get the hang of generating attraction and then you’ll have a much lower “fail rate”.
So, for beginners, secure a solid date at night time if you meet her during the day. If she can’t make it, then say in typical David DeAngelo fashion, “I’m busy [day] and [day] but free at night on [day]. Are you free then too? Let’s make this happen!” Then say good bye and meet up at the scheduled time for a date.
Obviously, if the situtation warrants an instant date, then you should 100% go for it. But just take the advice here as a “word of warning” to play it slightly safer until you get more experience with day game.
Experiment and master what works for you. Some guys are better during the day, some are better at night. Use your natural skills and circumstances to your advantage. If you currently do many instant dates, and aren’t getting the results you want, try the approach that I’ve mentioned and post your results in the form of a comment below.
