Comments on: Approach Anxiety No More! http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/12/29/approach-anxiety-no-more/ Fri, 06 Jan 2012 13:37:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: wayne http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/12/29/approach-anxiety-no-more/#comment-4155 wayne Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:53:15 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1299#comment-4155 ouch sorry to hear about your teeth man, hope your ok ? ouch sorry to hear about your teeth man, hope your ok ?

]]> By: Dennis Miedema http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/12/29/approach-anxiety-no-more/#comment-4154 Dennis Miedema Sun, 03 Jan 2010 17:45:35 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1299#comment-4154 I'd like to add my two cents here David: the vast majority of women out there think that there is something that will make their fear of approaching women GO AWAY. That it will magically DISAPPEAR. But it never does. And that's a good thing. You see, all you have to do is EMBRACE it: I've approached a heck of a lot of women, some at the dentist, and one wanted to be a dentist (lol!), but I still feat that tingly feeling, that throbbing of the heart as soon as I see a woman I want to talk to. The problem lies in the obstacles you create for yourself: coming up with something to say to a woman. It's BS. It isn't necessary. I use the 3 second rule: see a woman? Boom! Walk up to her and talk, say anything. Because creating attraction isn't about what to say to her, but about how to respond to her in a way that activates her sexual nature. Think about it: playful teasing, push/pull, negging, being picky, etc. are all based on... she says something, so you say. Don't you get it? The more you get HER to talk, the more information you have... information you can use to tease the crap out of her. So gettign HER to talk instead of you thinking of something to say = a big win for the both of you. Approaching women is easy when you get women to talk to you instead of the other way around. To more dating success, Dennis Miedema Win With Women I’d like to add my two cents here David: the vast majority of women out there think that there is something that will make their fear of approaching women GO AWAY. That it will magically DISAPPEAR. But it never does. And that’s a good thing.

You see, all you have to do is EMBRACE it: I’ve approached a heck of a lot of women, some at the dentist, and one wanted to be a dentist (lol!), but I still feat that tingly feeling, that throbbing of the heart as soon as I see a woman I want to talk to.

The problem lies in the obstacles you create for yourself: coming up with something to say to a woman. It’s BS. It isn’t necessary. I use the 3 second rule: see a woman? Boom! Walk up to her and talk, say anything.

Because creating attraction isn’t about what to say to her, but about how to respond to her in a way that activates her sexual nature. Think about it: playful teasing, push/pull, negging, being picky, etc. are all based on… she says something, so you say.

Don’t you get it? The more you get HER to talk, the more information you have… information you can use to tease the crap out of her. So gettign HER to talk instead of you thinking of something to say = a big win for the both of you.

Approaching women is easy when you get women to talk to you instead of the other way around.

To more dating success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

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