Some of you email me and tell me how it’s so painful to go and talk to women (or to men). Do you want to know about real pain?
I basically relived the movie “Marathon Man” the other day. For those of you who don’t know this movie, go to YouTube and watch a clip so you can see what I experienced the other day at the dentist.
For all of you regular readers, you know I nicknamed my dentist “The Driller,” and nicknamed her assistant “The Cutter.” The other day I was fortunate enough to have an infection in some recent dental work that The Driller had done.
We didn’t know it until the Novocaine started to wear off and I felt every bit of the drilling. We thought that some more Novocaine would help, but all that did was to make my heart go thump thump a little faster. It didn’t make the nerve in my tooth calm down at all.
So approaching the opposite sex is not painful. You’re not going to jump out of your skin. You’re not going to hear a drill in your head. You’re not going to get bad taste in your mouth from Novocaine.
Recently I launched a great product about how to get rid of approach anxiety. What I should have done was to take my video guy to The Driller with me and had him film the 25 minutes of drilling I endured without being numb.
If I can survive that, then you can certainly walk up to the hottest person you see today, smile and say hello. What’s the worst thing that could happen? You’re not going to jump out of your skin. Really you’re not going to feel any pain at all except the fears you’ve associated with doing it.
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For those of you who really want to overcome your fear of approaching, go to your dentist when you have a really deep cavity you need to have filled — one that requires them to drill for a good 15 minutes — and videotape it as you have them drill without giving you any Novocaine. Then the next time you are tempted to complain about the pain you experience approaching the opposite sex, we can show you the video so you can see what real fear and pain is.
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I’d like to add my two cents here David: the vast majority of women out there think that there is something that will make their fear of approaching women GO AWAY. That it will magically DISAPPEAR. But it never does. And that’s a good thing.
You see, all you have to do is EMBRACE it: I’ve approached a heck of a lot of women, some at the dentist, and one wanted to be a dentist (lol!), but I still feat that tingly feeling, that throbbing of the heart as soon as I see a woman I want to talk to.
The problem lies in the obstacles you create for yourself: coming up with something to say to a woman. It’s BS. It isn’t necessary. I use the 3 second rule: see a woman? Boom! Walk up to her and talk, say anything.
Because creating attraction isn’t about what to say to her, but about how to respond to her in a way that activates her sexual nature. Think about it: playful teasing, push/pull, negging, being picky, etc. are all based on… she says something, so you say.
Don’t you get it? The more you get HER to talk, the more information you have… information you can use to tease the crap out of her. So gettign HER to talk instead of you thinking of something to say = a big win for the both of you.
Approaching women is easy when you get women to talk to you instead of the other way around.
To more dating success,
Dennis Miedema
Win With Women
ouch sorry to hear about your teeth man, hope your ok ?