Have you ever asked someone how their day is going, and had them respond, “Man, I am just having such a bad day today!” It makes you almost want to run away.
When I hear that I almost want say to myself “God, I wish I didn’t even ask,” because you know what is going to follow that answer. You know that if they are letting you know that they are having a bad, that they are also going to want to share everything that happened on that bad day with you.
They are going to bring all that bad energy with them, and they are going to dump it all over you. Having to listen to someone vent about a bad day is like having the flu for five or ten minutes.
Can I tell you something? There’s no such thing as a bad day. It’s all about your mindset. It really is.
It’s all about your mindset and how you think, because in life there are always ebbs and flows. It’s your outlook on life that really determines how you feel.
I never have a bad day, ever. Do I have bad moments? Of course I do.
For example, I recently went to the dentist and found out I have to spend about $3,000.00 on a root canal. That was most definitely a bad moment.
Did it ruin my day though? Absolutely not. Did it ruin my bike ride home? Absolutely not. Did it affect my sex life? Absolutely not. Did it affect the way that I treated my dog or my friends for the rest of the day? Absolutely not.
When I have one of these bad moments, I process it immediately like a super computer and then I forget all about it. It’s called the ebbs and flows of life.
If you want to hear more about how to never have a bad day again, be sure to listen to this week’s podcast. It’s really going to blow you away. I also have a special guest on the podcast who is going to share something very special with you too. Click here to listen now:
By the way, anybody who is interested in being a guest on one of my podcasts beginning in November, please email me at david@davidwygant.com. I would love to interview a few of you about your dating experiences, and then have a mini coaching session.
Also, if you want to learn how to create the kind of mindset that will have you feeling confident and powerful every day — and which will help you to have great days no matter what comes at you — then be sure to check out my Men’s “What’s Your Excuse?” and my Women’s “No Excuses” programs.
