Comments on: Progress & End Results http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/ Thu, 12 Jan 2012 11:12:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Donovan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4047 Donovan Wed, 15 Jul 2009 00:54:35 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4047 @Adonis Very true, small end results. Nice. @Nathan Exactly, the process is the fun! @Adonis Very true, small end results. Nice.

@Nathan Exactly, the process is the fun!

]]> By: Nathan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4046 Nathan Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:23:06 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4046 so how does it feel to be 'back in the game'? :p Yeah I agree with you on the fact that so many guys focus on success, results and the glory. But also like you said most of the time they never succeed or get all that cool stuff they really want simply becuase they didn't take the time to sit back and enjoy THE PROCESS. When you start finding success (pleasure) in simply approaching girls, or in getting girls attracted to you, one step at a time - it really gives you a happy 'in the moment' buzz - learning how to enjoy the process of life (still with goals in mind) really helps you sit back, relax and BE that awesome guy all the women want :) take care, Nathan so how does it feel to be ‘back in the game’? :p

Yeah I agree with you on the fact that so many guys focus on success, results and the glory. But also like you said most of the time they never succeed or get all that cool stuff they really want simply becuase they didn’t take the time to sit back and enjoy THE PROCESS.

When you start finding success (pleasure) in simply approaching girls, or in getting girls attracted to you, one step at a time – it really gives you a happy ‘in the moment’ buzz – learning how to enjoy the process of life (still with goals in mind) really helps you sit back, relax and BE that awesome guy all the women want :)

take care,
Nathan

]]> By: Adonis http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4045 Adonis Thu, 09 Jul 2009 18:48:46 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/08/1178/#comment-4045 Another way to look at this is to still go for the END RESULT but have lots of little END RESULTS. It's pretty much the same as the micro-results but sometimes just these little semantic changes can make a huge difference in your focus: i.e. "If I can just approach the girls I am attracted to tonight, I have reached one of my end goals", "if I can get her into a fun, flirty conversation I have reached an end goal", "if I can get out of an interaction that's going to lead nowhere quickly, END RESULT!" etc... All these little END RESULT victories add up quickly. And you will feel like you really accomplished a lot....but then again, perhaps this is all just semantics! Another way to look at this is to still go for the END RESULT but have lots of little END RESULTS.

It’s pretty much the same as the micro-results but sometimes just these little semantic changes can make a huge difference in your focus:

i.e. “If I can just approach the girls I am attracted to tonight, I have reached one of my end goals”, “if I can get her into a fun, flirty conversation I have reached an end goal”, “if I can get out of an interaction that’s going to lead nowhere quickly, END RESULT!” etc…

All these little END RESULT victories add up quickly. And you will feel like you really accomplished a lot….but then again, perhaps this is all just semantics!

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