Women have expectations on men too. They have a filtering system to assess if you are the right partner for them. They have expectations your attitude, appearance, vocation, financial situation, and health. Most men feel they must exhibit these characteristics to gain a mate. I say screw that, flip this on its head and build your own expectations of women. Filter them and gain the perfect match for yourself.

Expectations excell your progress. It is important to set high goals, and expect to get them, no matter what. A great saying goes like this “Aim for the moon, and even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars!”

It is silly to go out there and think that everything will work out by itself… it won’t… It is vital to aim for something, persist, and have structure… then eventually it WILL HAPPEN…

I think setting high goals works, because of DISSATISFACTION trigger. I mean when I first started, I aimed to talk to 20 women per day, in my first two days I talked only to 10 first day, and 12 second day… but I was really unhappy with myself… so I eventually got to talking to 20+ . Felt good =)

But having said that, I did caught myself NOT LIVING IN THE PRESENT couple of times… With thoughts such as “ah, I’ll learn the material and it will be better then, now I’ll just sit and watch”

The way I got out of it is, “work with what you have NOW” and DON’T CARE WHETHER you’ll bore the women to tears, or have a 5-some. The only thing that matters is the learning process. Unfortunately humans learn the most through failing. So when you mess up, you learn. A great man once told me: “The reason why you are not progressing, is becasue you haven’t failed enough yet. You need to start failing more and faster”. => No amount of theoretical knowledge will get 100% instant results. All comes with practice, and practice comes with a lot of messing up AND ofcourse success. The better you get the less failure and more success.

In realtion to tommorrow, it is great, but today “is a gift” this is why it is called the present => . All people are fun in their own way. Just clear anxieties and AIM FOR A GOAL IN LIFE go out there and get it, step-by-step.. long ladder all the way to the TOP. “Don’t be like a ship at sea without a rudder”.

basically what I am trying to say is
1. SET THE GOAL – “something that will blow your mind, if you achieve it” – TOP OF THE LADDER
2. ENJOY the journey – every second of it – STEP – BY – STEP

Life is a journey and not a destination. Peace, I am out like sugar from my diet.