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		<title>By: soup</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/04/29/why-you-cant-be-trained-to-be-a-natural-with-pickup/#comment-3984</link>
		<dc:creator>soup</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 20:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh Dear, strip away social conditioning etc and were all naturals Donovan. Do you think you were born not able to pick up girls? Being a natural with girls is the most natural thing in the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh Dear, strip away social conditioning etc and were all naturals Donovan. Do you think you were born not able to pick up girls? Being a natural with girls is the most natural thing in the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Entropy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Entropy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What I&#039;ve noticed, without fail, is that the guys who improve the fastest and most consistently have a &quot;mentor&quot; or do something like weekly phone consults. Basically they check up with a coach every week, review everything that happened the week prior and made plans for the coming week (which nights to go out, upcoming dates, goals as far as sets, numbers, etc.)

The thing is, marketing a &quot;be mentored weekly for 4 months by phone!&quot; doesn&#039;t sell well. And it&#039;s a shame.

Bootcamps are nice, and I&#039;ve seen some guys get good pretty quickly from them. But they&#039;re usually the exception, not the rule. For most people, what they learn on a bootcamp is basically what they could have learned in a few weeks out with regular guys better than them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What I&#8217;ve noticed, without fail, is that the guys who improve the fastest and most consistently have a &#8220;mentor&#8221; or do something like weekly phone consults. Basically they check up with a coach every week, review everything that happened the week prior and made plans for the coming week (which nights to go out, upcoming dates, goals as far as sets, numbers, etc.)</p>
<p>The thing is, marketing a &#8220;be mentored weekly for 4 months by phone!&#8221; doesn&#8217;t sell well. And it&#8217;s a shame.</p>
<p>Bootcamps are nice, and I&#8217;ve seen some guys get good pretty quickly from them. But they&#8217;re usually the exception, not the rule. For most people, what they learn on a bootcamp is basically what they could have learned in a few weeks out with regular guys better than them.</p>
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		<title>By: TightGame</title>
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		<dc:creator>TightGame</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 17:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article, Donovan.

I think your argument has merit especially given the history of the community as portrayed in The Game.  Mystery was the first guy to offer 3 day bootcamps, teaching a very structured, routine-based game.  Then RSD, Pickup 101, and other entrants came into the field and copied his business model.  All of the bootcamp companies in the industry&#039;s formative years taught routine-based game.

Then some of the ideas behind natural game stared gaining traction in the community, so RSD evolves their bootcamp to ecompass ideas around natural game and &quot;deep identity-level&quot; change.  But the initial bootcamp was designed as a routine-based training product.  So it&#039;s a fact that they are taking an instructional method (bootcamp) that was invented to teach one thing (routines) and are applying it to something different (identity, personality development).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article, Donovan.</p>
<p>I think your argument has merit especially given the history of the community as portrayed in The Game.  Mystery was the first guy to offer 3 day bootcamps, teaching a very structured, routine-based game.  Then RSD, Pickup 101, and other entrants came into the field and copied his business model.  All of the bootcamp companies in the industry&#8217;s formative years taught routine-based game.</p>
<p>Then some of the ideas behind natural game stared gaining traction in the community, so RSD evolves their bootcamp to ecompass ideas around natural game and &#8220;deep identity-level&#8221; change.  But the initial bootcamp was designed as a routine-based training product.  So it&#8217;s a fact that they are taking an instructional method (bootcamp) that was invented to teach one thing (routines) and are applying it to something different (identity, personality development).</p>
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		<title>By: Donovan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 03:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@theVoice

&quot;I look at bootcamps as accelerators toward becoming confident.&quot;

They are only accelrators when the practice is targeted to that area. Eg. Approaching at a bar. Therefore, natural game bootcamps don&#039;t focus on specific PRACTICAL areas to gain help in, only concepts and generalities. Otherwise, those bootcamps are routine based. I have no problem with routine based bootcamps at all. I think they are very much required if no other guys in your life are available.</description>
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<p>&#8220;I look at bootcamps as accelerators toward becoming confident.&#8221;</p>
<p>They are only accelrators when the practice is targeted to that area. Eg. Approaching at a bar. Therefore, natural game bootcamps don&#8217;t focus on specific PRACTICAL areas to gain help in, only concepts and generalities. Otherwise, those bootcamps are routine based. I have no problem with routine based bootcamps at all. I think they are very much required if no other guys in your life are available.</p>
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		<title>By: theVoice</title>
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		<dc:creator>theVoice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 03:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;You learn social skills, correct body language and build natural confidence that comes from personal successes in social scenarios through a specific plan. True confidence is only built through positive experiences in the area you wish to have confidence in. Eg. Approaching a woman in a bar.&quot;

To me, this would be my arguement of WHY you would want to take a &quot;natural&quot; game focused bootcamp.

Yes, you can learn that on your own.  No, you dont need to take a bootcamp.  But, a bootcamp is a step in the process.  The sheer number of approaches will help some of the underlying problems that MUST BE FIXED before real confidence can be developed.  Ability to deal with rejection is a great example.  So called &quot;AA.&quot;  Significant strides can be made in those areas in a weekend.

One will never be a &quot;Natural&quot; until one is confident.  I look at bootcamps as accelerators toward becoming confident.  I dont think any pick up company out there says they are necessary.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;You learn social skills, correct body language and build natural confidence that comes from personal successes in social scenarios through a specific plan. True confidence is only built through positive experiences in the area you wish to have confidence in. Eg. Approaching a woman in a bar.&#8221;</p>
<p>To me, this would be my arguement of WHY you would want to take a &#8220;natural&#8221; game focused bootcamp.</p>
<p>Yes, you can learn that on your own.  No, you dont need to take a bootcamp.  But, a bootcamp is a step in the process.  The sheer number of approaches will help some of the underlying problems that MUST BE FIXED before real confidence can be developed.  Ability to deal with rejection is a great example.  So called &#8220;AA.&#8221;  Significant strides can be made in those areas in a weekend.</p>
<p>One will never be a &#8220;Natural&#8221; until one is confident.  I look at bootcamps as accelerators toward becoming confident.  I dont think any pick up company out there says they are necessary.</p>
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		<title>By: Quigmire31</title>
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		<dc:creator>Quigmire31</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 14:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To the guy that said AFC Adam does&#039;nt do demos. I have to disagree with you.

I took the workshop he did in Dublin last year and during it he gamed the waitress at the cafe we went to for breakfast, he opened a set of 2 girls in the middle of the street and got there numbers and convinced a group of girls to leave a restaurant and come with us to a club.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To the guy that said AFC Adam does&#8217;nt do demos. I have to disagree with you.</p>
<p>I took the workshop he did in Dublin last year and during it he gamed the waitress at the cafe we went to for breakfast, he opened a set of 2 girls in the middle of the street and got there numbers and convinced a group of girls to leave a restaurant and come with us to a club.</p>
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		<title>By: gigi</title>
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		<dc:creator>gigi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 08:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>RSD use routines in their game all the time.

They readily admit it too.

It&#039;s just that as of late they tend to mitigate their importance because it doesn&#039;t fit their current marketing campaign.

They also emphasize the point that &#039;routines alone won&#039;t cut it, you need to have a cool personality&#039;.

That&#039;s all there is to it. Hope this helps some guys with their struggle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RSD use routines in their game all the time.</p>
<p>They readily admit it too.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just that as of late they tend to mitigate their importance because it doesn&#8217;t fit their current marketing campaign.</p>
<p>They also emphasize the point that &#8216;routines alone won&#8217;t cut it, you need to have a cool personality&#8217;.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all there is to it. Hope this helps some guys with their struggle.</p>
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		<title>By: Polanova</title>
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		<dc:creator>Polanova</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 22:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think when it comes to game rather &#039;natural&#039; or &#039;routine&#039; based, that it&#039;s truly up to the individual who chooses either path to take. If a guy feels his game will improve with a natural game bootcamp, let him do it and find his own results from the camp. And if it&#039;s a routine based bootcamp let them go to live and learn from the experince. Although I&#039;ve taken neither. I feel confident in saying that I&#039;m a natural, and enjoy learning new material such as routines to better my game. And I would recommend to anyone who reads this article or have taken either style of bootcamp to have an open mind and understand that no bootcamp will help if
you don&#039;t take action yourselves and put the work into having the life you want.

That&#039;s my post and I thank Donovan for this site, and article keep up the good work man.

Polanova</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think when it comes to game rather &#8216;natural&#8217; or &#8216;routine&#8217; based, that it&#8217;s truly up to the individual who chooses either path to take. If a guy feels his game will improve with a natural game bootcamp, let him do it and find his own results from the camp. And if it&#8217;s a routine based bootcamp let them go to live and learn from the experince. Although I&#8217;ve taken neither. I feel confident in saying that I&#8217;m a natural, and enjoy learning new material such as routines to better my game. And I would recommend to anyone who reads this article or have taken either style of bootcamp to have an open mind and understand that no bootcamp will help if<br />
you don&#8217;t take action yourselves and put the work into having the life you want.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s my post and I thank Donovan for this site, and article keep up the good work man.</p>
<p>Polanova</p>
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		<title>By: Banana Man</title>
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		<dc:creator>Banana Man</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 21:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sick of hearing that AFC Adam has great game. Has anyone seen his game? I heard her doesn&#039;t do demos either: http://tinyurl.com/dy5w8c

If you won&#039;t do demos, go home. You don&#039;t deserve to teach. RSD, go home. PUA Training, go home.

What big companies aside from Love Systems or Love Systems spinoffs do demos?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sick of hearing that AFC Adam has great game. Has anyone seen his game? I heard her doesn&#8217;t do demos either: <a href="http://tinyurl.com/dy5w8c" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/dy5w8c</a></p>
<p>If you won&#8217;t do demos, go home. You don&#8217;t deserve to teach. RSD, go home. PUA Training, go home.</p>
<p>What big companies aside from Love Systems or Love Systems spinoffs do demos?</p>
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		<title>By: The Gent</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Gent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 20:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I say tomato, you say tomato.

Some people like apples. And some people don&#039;t.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say tomato, you say tomato.</p>
<p>Some people like apples. And some people don&#8217;t.</p>
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