I’m going to assume that if you’re reading this, you’ve used a computer before.

And I’ll bet you’re a lot like me – you probably think typing is a huge pain in the butt.

Do you know how the keys got laid out in the configuration you’ve got on your computer’s keyboard?

Back in the early 1900s, women everywhere were learning this new skill of being a typist on the old fashioned typewriters. But one thing that kept happening that they didn’t foresee was that the women became extremely FAST typists.

Hey, when that’s all you’ve got to do all day long, you can’t help but get good.

The problem was that these women were SO fast that they were jamming up the typewriters. The mechanical parts simply could not work as fast as they did.

So what did they do? Did they improve the design of typewriters?

No.

The typewriter manufacturers hired someone to come up with a layout for the keyboard that would SLOW the women down so they wouldn’t jam them up anymore. (True story.)

Pretty ridiculous, isn’t it?

Remember that story, because I’m going to come back to it.

Here’s another story that should hit home for you…

Did you ever hear that saying that a man should spend 2 months salary on his wife’s diamond ring?

Did you know that before the 1940s, women didn’t get diamonds on their wedding rings? They would just get a wedding band of some kind.

It wasn’t until the diamond company De Beers started paying film studios to feature scenes with women wearing diamond wedding rings that this new belief took hold.

They manufactured this new rule out of THIN AIR.

De Beers actually manipulated culture for the last 70 years so that men now feel like they have to adorn their women with a trophy diamond that shows her how much he “loves” her.

Sorry, I’m a romantic at heart, but a cynic when it comes to the whole “buy a woman’s love” stuff…

In my opinion, if you’re spending more time and energy just satisfying your wife-to-be’s desire to “keep up” with other women, then you might want to put a reality check on your relationship.

After all, the most expensive diamond can still be worn as she’s driving away with half your stuff. It’s no guarantee.

Anyway, I tell you these stories for a purpose…

I’m going to teach you 2 PRICELESS Alpha Rules.

You’ve probably already figured them both out by now, but here’s what we can learn:

The first is the Rule of the Tied Elephant…

When an elephant is very young, it’s tied up using a fairly thin piece of rope. The baby elephant can’t break it, so it becomes used to staying where it is tied.

When that same elephant is full-grown, it’s able to break that rope with little or no effort. But it never does, because it grew up thinking that the thin rope was too strong for it.

(Just like typists today are limited by the awkward layout of the keyboard).

Unfortunately, this is also how most guys learn their attraction and seduction skills. We’re limited to using the same “thin rope” techniques that really are inadequate.

But it’s what we were all taught…

Buy her flowers & cards.

Flatter her…

In today’s world, it’s not “politically correct” to show men the same strategies women use on us all the time. If we use them, we’re not being “genuine.”

I’m here to show you how to break that thin rope and let your real power out…

I want to show you how to “reconfigure your keyboard” so that you can whiz past every guy out there.

The second rule is the Rule of the Unchallenged Belief.

Until I told you about that “2 month” rule for buying an engagement ring, I bet you thought that was something guys have done all through history. That there was this ancient tradition of giving women precious stones.

Hey, *I* didn’t even know about it until a couple years ago.

And yet we never even questioned it. We might have thought it was a B.S. excuse to impress a woman, but we didn’t question it… because that’s what EVERYONE ELSE is doing.

How many other beliefs are we holding that limit us?

How many other beliefs do we have that go unchallenged?

When it comes to women, there are many that we need to question.

There are many we need to break apart.

And there are many we need to throw away.

Here’s a very short exercise that will reap you unbelievable dividends in your Alpha Man Attitude.

Take 2 minutes to write down all the things you “believe” about women.

Here are a few examples:

- Women want men with power and money.

- Women are completely emotional and irrational.

- Women don’t like it when men show their interest in them quickly.

I bet you’ve got a ton of them. I know I do.

Just write them all down, and take a minute to look at them in the cold, hard light of reality. Ask yourself if each of those beliefs is helping you or hurting you.

And then decide how you want to deal with it.

The reality is that most of the things we believe about women – and the things we believe that women believe – are simplyNOT true.

OR they don’t matter when you’re behaving like the Alpha of the pack.

The fact is that reality distorts around any sufficiently strong belief system. The only thing you have to do is make yours stronger than hers.

This requires iron-clad inner game.

The fact is that increasing your confidence with women will help you attract women faster and more consistently than any “pickup line” or seduction technique you can learn.

So why don’t more guys work on their “inner” game of confidence?

Honestly, because they think it takes a lot of work.

But it doesn’t.

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