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It’s not a bad bit of advice, especially the part about being fussy with what you want. I do see this, if done correctly, have a great deal of potential. That and she’d pretty hot.
I watched this video twice, mostly because I was staring at Kezia’s rack, and I swear she’s advising us to buy chicks drinks within 10′. WTF??
I have never met a girl in bar that thought I was rude or cheap if I didn’t buy a drink within 10′. Dude, I’m not buying strangers drinks unless they do something for me, and that something better be very friggin cool. Worse, Kezia is advising people to mask your low value by being fussy, which actually makes you seem kinda gay. A coke with a lime? Seriously, this is terrible advice. Try again, PUATraining.
I think her point was great,she was using example drinks, she never actually said get those particular drinks, I have been on PUA bootcamps, and she like the other trainers were great, this is a very quick video and she was being to the point, at the bootcamps she as the other trainers put more detail in to their tips
more videos from her please!
thanks
I disagree with the time frame she sets. But then again, It’s not about never buying girls drinks, it’s about not doing it on your own terms. That is were the idea that guys shouldn’t buy girls drinks come from. At the point when your buying her a drink, you shouldn’t be a “strager.” Idealy you’re in the comfort stage. If that occurs within 10 minutes so be it, if it’s 20 minutes because your in a particulalry loud venue, so be that. The idea is that you are buying her a drink because YOU want to, you feel that she lives up to your expectations, not because you feel you need to buy her a drink to win her over. And as far as being fussy, there being fussy and over doing it. Like I like Myers and water with a squeeze of lime. To make it fussy, I’d say I want it up. Or if you like shots, order it strait up. All it means is it’s shaken with ice, and poured into a stem glass. Specifing that is fussy. Going, Ok I want a Zombie, with myers as the dark, 10 cane as the light, a splash of lairds, no more than 11 but no less than 8 ice cubes, guava rather than orange with grenidine floated right beneath the 151, a pinaple wedge on on side and a flag on the other, is not being fussy it’s being an asshole. Fussy can be high value if your doing it from a place of high value, that is I expect this drink done right, rather than being a pain in the ass.
trust me, in uk, drinks work wonder.. and girls don’t ask themselves ‘do i own this guy or not because he bought me a drink’. it’s just a different culture, much less power play. she knows what she’s talking about.
this tip is for the beer drinker, when i go out i drink large expensive cocktails and i always whether i want to or not attract some bint who is on the cheap night out…..however when i am in the mood, i always tell a girl my mate has my wallet or i forgot my wallet by accident and i’m skint and i look really embarassed in a doggy dinner bowl kinda look straight back at them, this always works and it gets me huge sympathy kudos points from the girls, also it gives me a qualifier to the kind of girl i’ve approached!! so i happily end up supping free ale all night or i suggest a large expensive cocktail that we can both share with two short straws great for kino and accelerating sexual comfort and gives me the chance to take her to a dark and dingy corner where i can put my hand up her skirt before i end back at her camp. So guys’ dont believe all this PUA nonsense its hype to rob you of your hard earned cash, just be a complete swine with no morals and no sense of consequences it always works cos women are a sucker for a bad boy!!!
Yeah, right, in UK girls are different. If you talkes about africa or india, I could agree about cultural differences (but not attraction generators), but nit fir UK, you gotta be kidding me.
and i assume you extensively traveled us, uk, africa and india and speak from personal experience.
There is no big cultural differences between US and UK, pretending otherwize would be lying. And I know from personal experience that girls in UK, Belgium & France love the validation that guys give them by buying them drinks, but it completely kills the attraction.
I’ve never traveled to India or Africa… but I know a lot of people coming from these places. There are obvious cultural differences. But it’s not the point.
i fully respect your personal experience, however in my own personal experience, not even once a girl felt she won over me by me buying her a drink, and i had plenty of times where me buying a girl a drink sexualized the interaction rapidly. it was like ‘buy me a drink so i will pretend that i’m half drunk so i won’t feel slutty being naughty with you’.
this goes true for europe and downunder. in the US, drinks seemed to have no effect one way or the other in my experience.
saw the movie roger dodger? “alcohol has been a sexual lubricant for years. don’t try to reinvent the wheel”.
imho very hard to have getting the girl tipsy go against you, unless you have some creepy “if i buy me a drink will you please please suck my cock out of gratitude?” vibe.
to each his own. since this is my repeated personal experience, i’m standing by kezia on this one.
in the real world guys buy girls drinks and then they fuck them.
only in pua land is this not allowed.
weird.
guys – if a girl likes you – buy a damn drink.
it shows you have some cash in the pocket.
which is what girls are looking for after all..
PEACE
I think you guys are completely missing the point. Note that she is talking about giving the girl a “task”. Get her to do something for you. It could be anything and not necessarily in a bar. If you’re out at dinner have her order while you’re washing up or something. Or you could be late on purpose, call to say your going to be late and ask her to order you a drink or something on the menu. By giving the girl a task to do, you increase your value and lower hers, thus making it easy for her to give you something else.
Ok I think this whole debate is kinda silly but i do have to put in my 2 cents… I’m from the U.S (Las Vegas to be specific) and the truth is you don’t have to buy a girl a drink to get laid, I’m broke, I have never ever bought a girl a drink in my life, and i get laid very frequently. Girls actually by me drinks quite often without me havin to make excuses, And I never tell a girl i’m broke, hell i don’t even mention any financial situation. But if i did buy a girl a drink I would definately use the technique kezia described. I usually incorporate basically this same thing in my game but i call em favors. Girls (or people in general) grow more attracted to you when they do favors for you and less attracted when you do everything for them. I know its counter intuitive but it works like a charm
I get the whole “tasks” thing. whether you are buying a drink or niot, it’s good to give a girl little tasks, even if it’s “hold this please”, or “pass me that please”. I’ve heard this from other coaches. the point is, this way I can buy the drink and avoid being the cheapskate or jerk, yet at the same time show that I have some balls because I can get her to do a little errands for me.