Thank you for writing your understanding about women. Your understanding has prevented a lot of suffering. I have struggled in vain for nearly a year and a half trying to figure out how to get anywhere with any woman at all, but to no avail. I wasn’t about to give up until I learned the truth. I know the pickup routines and ideas in depth but they weren’t helping and I hated going out because of the “rejections”. I found your articles on SearchWarp.com while doing something else and I began to read what you were saying and it started to click. I had a HUGE cascading breakthrough mentally. I went from being nervous around women to not at all almost instantly. I went from being nervous to being the guy that all the other men stare at in disbelief. All the things I’d learned were now unleashed in a powerful way. I won’t get into the details of that but when the women began competing for my attention I couldn’t help but be awestruck at how wrong I’d been about women for so long. How can that happen to begin with? Thanks again.

You know, just the other day I was talking to someone about how business skills and seduction skills have a lot in common. It’s actually something we’ve written about in the past.

I think you’re absolutely correct. Getting financially wealthy isn’t quite as easy as getting the lay–although if some Internet Marketers were to be believed, you’d think either one could happen in ten minutes.

Thinking about it, I’d say wealth is a relative term when considering success with either finances OR woman.

Getting the lay is kind of like hitting the numbers in the lottery one night, whereas being truly financially independent is more comparable to having a long-term relationship with the greatest woman you’ve ever met.

True “wealth” is represented by the latter in either case.

Having watched both my dream job in IT (and associated financial rewards) AND my first marriage evaporate within a month of each other back in ’02–and having since replaced both to a level beyond my wildest dreams–I’d have to say dreaming big dreams in EITHER area is well worth the effort.

Cheers,

Scot

You’re definitely on the right track though. Women follow a man’s lead for sure. We harp on that a lot around here.

That stability and leadership are two of the ideas I’ll underscore next time, along with a couple of others…

Be Good,

Scot

Finding what women crave as much as men crave the lay – definitely a worthy goal. I believe it to be “stability” – the ability to be rock-solid and unwavering in response to her, combined with a strong ability to lead and decide.

Ultimate message – be a man worthy of commitment.