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I was in a bar and found myself standing near a cute girl who was dancing with some guy. I wanted to observe for a few seconds to see if they were experiencing a love connection or not before I made a move. I must have taken too long because when I was about to open my mouth, the girl’s fat friend gets in front of me and says, “You want her, don’t you? You so want her. She’s hot isn’t she?”

She said it with such disdain. It put me on the spot and I didn’t have a good comeback. I said, “No hablo ingles,” a terribly weak response. I simply wasn’t prepared.

Even after the fact, there wasn’t an obvious correct move. If I say yes then I show my cards right away, but if I say no then I set myself up for something like, “So why are you looking at her? Why are you talking to her? It’s obvious you like her.”

This cockblock was so effective that I had a dream about it. After some thinking I adapted it for use on other guys. If a guy is moving in on a girl you are interested in, ask him, “Do you like her?” Your tone will be neutral, like you are just curious.

If he says yes then you can put him in a weak position by saying, “Well you should buy her a drink then!” If he buys her a drink then he’s just another beta in the bar and if he doesn’t buy her a drink then it looks awkward because he just verbally admitted his affection for her.

If he says he doesn’t like her or weasels out of answering, then say, “Well there are a lot of girls here. I’m sure you will find someone who you like if you keep trying. Don’t give up!” He’s done. It’s like you are giving him relationship advice.

He is going to scramble and say something like, “Oh, um, I’m not here to pick up girls.” Now he just put his dick in a box. Without even raising your voice or having to get tough, you can suck the game out of any guy with very simple word plays. This technique worked on me even though I spend the bulk of my time thinking about these things.

It’s okay to get bitched in the field. But it’s not okay to get bitched in the same way twice. A great thing about experience is that you put yourself in a lot of situations that you will see more than once. Your down time is spent thinking about how to react for the next time it happens, because chances are it will.

That’s all it means to have “tight” game—to be ready for whatever is thrown at you. It’s about refining and improving what you do even if a line or technique “works.”

So I thought about what to say the next time a fat girl asks me if I like her friend. I’ll say, “Why do you ask, do you want me to like her? Because I like everyone!” Then I’ll put my arms around both girls and say how I’m having a great time. All this is done with a huge smile on my face. I want to squash her negativity with a fun party vibe that makes her look really bad if she continues cockblocking. I think this is much better than saying “I don’t speak English” in Spanish. And if this doesn’t work, I’ll just think of something else.

It’s through this experimentation mindset that I went from being a chump who didn’t get laid to the guy that pissed off other guys in the clubs. I’m sure they thought.. “How is THAT guy talking to her?” (If you’ve seen my picture you’ll see I look more like a mountain man than stereotypical hot stud). Before then I couldn’t get laid to save my life, but I was dedicated and put myself out in the field, experimenting on everything from approaching girls and talking to them to when to call and what types of places to take out on dates.

I recorded my final results, the techniques THAT WORK, in my book Bang. It took a long time to write but I’m happy to have created a reference guide that other guys can count on.

If you find yourself in a place where the girls you want are passing on you, then I think the skills I teach will help you out. For more information about my “More Lays In 60 Days” resource, click here.

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