1) The video itself. If Alex’s goal was to prove ultimate self-amusement, indifference to outcome and approval? Well…he did. Only thing is…his ‘push & pull’ strategy got the girl looking scared (VERY uncomfortable/confused/affraid). I will not judge his entire game by a less then a minute video though, because I can also have one shaky set or evening for that matter…but this one particular approach was VERY shaky. Hence the reactions. If his goal was to top Cajun? Then he didn’t: ZERO closes vs. THREE closes.
But about Alex’s attitude towards other guru’s? You’re a professional, seriously, leave the ‘dick measuring’and/or jealousy at home because trying to convey YOUR unique selling points is one thing, but badmouthing others in the industry to do it? Another. Being anonymous with the badmouthing by speaking in general terms, hmm…well allright, but calling people out by their product/business and real names and how they suck and why their stuff doesn’t work because of this and that? I see a trend going on where it’s being done more often amongst guru’s nowadays. The victims? PUAs, BEGINNING ones who need the most practise and help especially, and that’s a damn shame, it makes me angry.
2) Forum moderation. I don’t know about the conditioning/brainwashing part, but seriously: banning loyal customers/forum users who didn’t use foul language or displayed bad behavior…just because if their criticism on a certain video? Talk about bad publicity, let alone the ’stalinistic’ traits it has…maybe they should invent a new seduction term for it: We teach you the CSP (the CenSorship Program). NOT cool. If I were them? I would ask the money I spent on RSD back.
3) The company in general. Bad move made by Alex, even WORSE move made by the forum moderators, but that Tim fella has some skills…and as such I won’t talk their entire business down. If however, I hear of other events going on with them such as this one? I will recommend NOT visiting/using RSD to everyone out there that I help and my peers in the game.

Cajun got the numbers of 3 hot girls, Alex made a girl look confused and afraid. Sure he asserted his reality but what good is that if the girl gets intimidated? Im not a huge fan of routines and lines, etc but at least Cajun had some finess and got the job done.

I’ve taken a bootcamp with the guy and he is fucking insane at PU. Results and demos prove it. This video simply demonstrates the not giving a fuck attitude that he has in field. That’s IT. It’s not supposed to be some step by step guide of how-to-get-girls.

I’m not suprised there are haters but I am suprised at how quickly it spread over the net… WTF?

I guess people can check it out for themselves. Cajun’s Keys to the VIP appearance is on this other post.

@TightGame “Not giving a shit about the outcome or her approval (or any type of social approval) is a a key component to natural game. Some will say that this is borderline sociopathic. Personally, it’s a character trait I admire.”

I can see your view on that, but there is one MAJOR flaw in your argument. It’s social calibration. Approval is when you are seeking validation. Just because you act in a socially responsible way and fit in doesn’t mean you are “seeking validation” from society.

Why don’t we punch random people on the street? It’s social calibration. You don’t do things like that. Are you seeking approval because you don’t succumb to every whim of your carnal brain? We’re learning how to be good with women, not turn into a jackass in the process.

Think about it. IF you look at any video you could say, his being in the moment and being self amusing. This allows people to drop their standards on instructors and gives RSD less work for more money. They are designing it this way. It is masterful conditioning. It’s the same with the termonolgy, think about the word chode, sure its means a guy whos lame but you automatically associate RSD using that word. everything associates RSD to supperior and “You just dont get the picture.”

They tell you that they know something that you dont know, kinda like the secret. So it makes people stay faithful and loyal so they can find out what RSD know. But what they don’t tell you that their methods are flawed for a reason. They are flawed to make you come back for more.

Notice anyone who defends RSD and you will see someone who is brainwashed.

They get away with pumping your state and doing as little as possible for 2+ grand.

RSD’s philosophy is that you immunize yourself to social pressure and rejection by going out and putting yourself in these types of situations- they are in a gay bar after all. Either you are indifferent enough to social pressure to have fun in this type of situation or you aren’t. And if you aren’t, you still have work to do de-douching your core personality…

In the last year, Tyler has been influenced a lot by Tim, and the company’s philosophy now is that getting to this level of social indifference is something that needs to click before worrying about about social skills and calibration.

To a certain extent RSD is on a collision course with much of the community because they are going after this “identity-level shift” concept, after which the skill-set takes care of itself through time in the field. The mainstream community is still very much skill-set oriented.

Since when did acting like an arrogant, loud-mouthed, crass fool become the equivalent of being an ‘alpha male’? Seriously.

I’d like to see this bizarro behavioural version of ‘alpha maleness’ acted out in environments where there are individuals who would physically destroy these guys for acting the way they do e.g. biker bars, military bars etc.

Or better yet, try acting like this in classy environments e.g. premier events, the ballet, art galleries. They’d be booted out in a second for being uncouth neanderthals.

Makes me think the Alex and his ilk only run game for lower middle class males and drunken frat boys.

On a side note:

There’s no problem with wasting time on this kind of stuff.

I have over 400+ posts FILLED with great material that you can access by searching or browsing through the site’s navigation (top right under Paul Janka’s book).

You have to CHOOSE to participate in these types of discussion and I’m glad to mix it up occasionally with this crap.

However, I wouldnt really use this as a reflection of RSD as a company.

Most of the RSD Instructors I deeply admire and respect.
All I know is Tim, Ozzy, Jeffy, Hoobie and Tyler are great teachers and proof of this is RSD Transformations…

Alex, however, I dont know much about, and from the videos so far, dont care to…

Stop the hate,

Weve wasted so much time focusing on Alex’s (poor) approaches when we could be focusing on material thats actually going to help us all improve…