Good game plan the only thing that is that I would not want her coming over to f$%^ me after she just did some other dude when you know she is going to be doing him if she was horny enough to call you and ask for sex. I don’t want sloppy seconds thank you. If that does not matter to you then what you did was good.

As far as the irritation I feel you on that. The best way to get rid of that is to just release it.

Follow this…

1. Don’t resist is, welcome the irritation as much as you can.
2. roll really feel that feeling.
3. Detach from it and realize it’s just a feeling.
4. Just let go of it and release it.

Do the above until it’s gone.

I had a girl flake on me today. Personally I don’t like to even deal with a girl again that flakes. She said she did not know we had definite plans, then she made a counter offer. Then I said I can’t I’m busy and she said she would see me later after her other plans (much like yours did) she then flaked on that.

My problem is that I am also a Sexpert ( I have written 2 book on sex at Greatlovers.com) meaning I am really good in bed (95% of the time we all have off nights…lol) most women will have some of the best sex they have ever had with me, the problem is I have ZERO desire to give one ounce of pleasure to a woman that flakes on me and disrespects me like that.

I also don’t want to suck in bed becuase then I look like I am lying about being a Sexpert and don’t want my professional credibility hurt by that.

So I just usually next them becuase once I get mad at them and tell them off the usually never want to see me again anyway I am kind of harsh and to the point it’s not the best way to get laid but for me that is usually my choice and feel that we should all tell them off.

Women do this crap to us all of the time and it’s time we put stop to it. But most of you are so desperate to get laid. That you tolerate that crap and give them another chance. If WE ALL would tell them off hardcore and I mean HARDCORE when they do that after a few guys doing that to them they would stop that crap! But as it is American men are p*ssy whipped toys for women to play with.

There is no consequence or punishment for their bad behavior. If flaking brought on emotional discomfort instead of the feeling of empowerment that they get now it would end!

This morning a chick texts me with quite a full on invitation asking me if I would like to sleep with her. I told her that i need to catch a few hours sleep as im lacking sleep and if she can come around late afternoon it would be great. She agrees. I go to sleep and wake up 4.30pm. I text her to ask when shes going to be arriving and she texts back saying ‘Sorry I can’t make it, I had some other plans, going with someone to see some fireworks and im sorry I didnt get back to you sooner.’ So in my mind this is ‘End Game’. If someone flakes I find that I am at a better statistical advantage to just cut my losses because lets face it why deal with a dead cat bounce when there billions of other women in the world.

I call her up and tell her ‘What you mean is that you made some plans then chose to make other plans over them because you you decided something else was a better option, well to me that is disrespect and not something I will be accepting. This kind of thing really irritates me.’ She says ‘Can I see you tomorrow.’ I said ‘No because tomorrow you might just say that something came up and you can’t make it and waste my time.’ She says ‘Im so sorry I made these plans with this guy several weeks ago and I forgot all about them, but we can fix this situation, I will come around to your 10pm tonight OK.’ I said ‘OK you do that but I’m not holding my breath because I don’t trust people who can’t handle plans in a reasonable way. If you’re near here at 10pm give me a call, otherwise don’t call me again.’ She says ‘Yes I will be there, I will call you then.’

In this situation the I think the probability of her turning up is about 25%. I am fine with the fact that I am not going to chase after someone who either has no manners or cannot manage to organise their life, given that I have girls who call me up to make dates. There is no excuse. If people don’t have a good memory they can use a Filofax or electronic organiser.

The only problem I face is that rudeness and inconsideration really irritates me and I want to know how to expell this irritation.

“I estimate about 20% of attractive girls are flakes.” – how did this estimation come up?

When I AM dealing with flakes, I just harden my game.
She calls? Im not there…she talks? Im not there or Im just leaving, she does something to desperately get my attention back? I dont return the favor, still leaving. Then I go and mix this with jealousy. Why? Most get a kick out of it to flake, makes them feel powerful. To be honest: I KNOW a lot of ladyfriends of mine who’re enjoying it, until the ‘f* that’ comes along disappearing for WEEKS, making them jealous and being distant while there and…they fall in love hopelessly. It’s a bold statement but, in my opinion?
Most flakes just have GOOD GAME, which means you have to take on the challenge and TOP IT. If not within the timeframe you set, eject. But it’s always a good learning experience in my opinion…

Really?

Last time I checked it was about 99.999%…

The only way to stop getting flakes is to start getting tighter game.

Flakey girls have sex too… They may act flakey towards you, but not towards the other guys shes having sex with…

They way i brought this flake to bed is that i diden ‘t return her phonecalls for almost a hole week. of course it almost hurt her pride somewhat telling me why i haven ‘t picked up the phone. I made up some bullshit that i was feeling ill and that i diden ‘t whant to spread bad energy around me. The respond was that i woulden ‘t ever spread bad energy over her and that she could put me in other thoughts. After the sex it diden ‘t last long she was back in controll again, becouse i was getting way to needy.

But on the other hand i got just what i wanted, lol