Comments on: Never, Never Leave A Voicemail Like This

By: sandrar

sandrar — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:05:03 +0000

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By: Acz

Acz — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 01:21:56 +0000

haha~!!!

good game.

By: Dennis

Dennis — Sat, 12 Jul 2008 12:23:41 +0000

My guess is this Dimitri fella was OVERthinking and OVERanalzyzing his game to the point off forcefeeding your brain things it HAS to say to ‘show good game’. In other words this lead to: not coming across genuine, natural but rather artificial, forced and not relaxed and is this case even coming across REALLY creepy.

I can understand the viewpoint of hating on it, but like Thread said everyone has his lesser moment, his ‘NOT bringing A-game’ moment and fucks up every now and then doing AFC stuff. The more experience you have the less FREQUENT these mistakes are, byt they’ll always be there. I know I have them. But point is that these are to your ADVANTAGE. Making a mistake puts you on edge, it gets you sharp again and looking for ways to improve yourself, to learn from it to prevent future mistakes. I also agree with Thread on advising the guy btw (byt yes, 4 to 5 minutes voicemails are WAY too long).

One more thing about these mistakes I’d like to point out: I’ve been in the game for years now and noticed how women DON’T make a big deal out of it (these mistakes), unless YOU do. In fact, I’ve gotten to the point of when I make a mistake? SHE auto-corrects it for me because I still do REALLY well in all other areas than that mistake, I don’t make a big deal out of it, and a woman actually LIKES to prove herself and as such tries to correct it. It’s like this: AFCs make a LARGE quantitity of mistakes from big ones to small ones, and come across as the clumsy, inexperienced, naive wussy clown women don’t want to be with. I make a small quantity of small mistakes, and I come across as a sexy, exciting, fun man with a human, softer side. Ever wondered how you could use women’s more emotional nature? By showing the softer side (in this case the mistakes) as an exception and not a rule, and having that human side makes you more REAL in their eyes, more natural, a genuine, real and relaxed alpha man.

By: Thread

Thread — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:36:57 +0000

Like none of us have never done AFC/ Chode shit like Dimitri before… Like none of us have ever come off creepy before, like none of us have ever screwed up an interaction before…

Get rid of the ego guys…

Even if it wasnt a joke, who cares?
You all still to this day no matter how good you are do CHODE or AFC stuff…

If hes embarressed, then he knows he messed up… GOOD!!! He learned

Stop the hate

By: John

John — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 12:14:03 +0000

“It’s extremely passive aggressive. You should actually look that up, passive-aggressive personality disorder.”

That’s priceless. Surely he’s kidding?

By: Mike

Mike — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:19:43 +0000

Man, this guy did not do this as a joke. He’s so embarassed by the negative feedback he can only say it was done as a joke.
That was so aweful, it made me cringe 95% of the time!!
Clearly the guy tries way too hard to overcompensate with “game”
and that’s why it comes across as double creepy. Ewww poor girl, she must have thought this guy was into some freakish mind gaming tactics and wanted to play with her on every angle.
Dude Dimitri if you’re out there reading this, All I can say is lay off the gaming for awhile and try to be normal person. That will help you greatly!!

By: Thread

Thread — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 22:09:13 +0000

I read that Dimitri just did this as a joke, and its 100% not serioius.

The funny thing about the seduction community is all you guys are supposed to be supporting eachother, and yet we all gather round to point fingers and judge “LAME” “WEIRD” or “OUT OF DATE” pickup artists…

If Dimitri was being serious (which I dont think he was) then instead of critizing him, give him some help/ advice? If he has an ego, who cares?

Now Im gonna quote JayZ

“Only god can judge me, either love me, or leave me alone”

By: Donovan

Donovan — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 21:53:35 +0000

Oh, there will be no interview. I point of this site is to help guys get less weird. He’s a freakshow.

By: Donovan

Donovan — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 21:52:25 +0000

of course its not Mystery. READ.

By: Kevin Salas

Kevin Salas — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 16:01:11 +0000

That’s not Mystery. That’s Dimitri “The Lover”.

It’s been back and forth around the internet hardcore.