Comments on: Relationship Management: Being In Control Vs. Being A Controller

By: Lance

Lance — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 18:52:15 +0000

Scot, just read this, but great article and great metaphor.

By: Scot McKay

Scot McKay — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 21:41:44 +0000

No question. And that same disorder is affecting a LOT of women out there also.

It’s all in having OPTIONS. It’s the single factor that separates those who are in control of their dating lives from those who don’t.

Once a guy learns how to attract women, he quickly learns that there are lots of hotties out there, but the women who bring the “whole package” are the only ones to bother with.

By: Ross Jeffries

Ross Jeffries — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 01:01:07 +0000

You’re welcome. I have a suspicion that most of us, in the first few moments, really can tell if a woman is going to be trouble, but loneliness or sheer lust will cause us to shut down our warning system.

Every time I’ve gotten into real trouble with a space-case, I actually had an inkling beforehand that I chose to ignore.

By: Scot McKay

Scot McKay — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 16:19:18 +0000

Thanks for the kind words, guys. I’ll gladly keep giving these articles 100%.

R.J.: Agreed, but man I have to focus on one aviation profession at a time in order to keep these under 1000 words, LOL. “Baggage Handlers”, ironically enough, are covered in the first section of the first chapter of the first book I wrote. Avoiding the wrong ones is a biggee, for sure.

By: Ross Jeffries

Ross Jeffries — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:22:02 +0000

Here are some good, VERY early clues that your “flight” with a woman is going to be bumpy and lots of hidden baggage will be in the hold. You can tell this usually within the first hour of conversation;

1. She shows little or no interest in you; no questions about who you are, what you like, what moves you. As in NONE.

2. She makes no effort at all, energetically or in her behavior, to make you feel at all welcome.

3. Cannot pay attention-I’m not talking about not being interested(which is YOUR fault) but rather she is jumpy in her focus, can’t hold a topic of conversation.

4. Talks over you/doesn’t listen.

5. Ungrounded

6. Demanding

7. Rude to staff/waiters/etc.

All warning signs that it is best NOT to get on this flight.

Peace and piece,

By: a

Sat, 28 Jun 2008 05:18:53 +0000

great writing. thanks for the good read.

By: Kevin (ReturnToManliness)

Kevin (ReturnToManliness) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 20:12:45 +0000

Scot,

Great post. Another one of my Manliness Traits not yet discussed on my blog, but will be soon is A True Man Is A Leader, But Also Can Be Led. Your comment on that leader being competent and confident are both core values, in my opinion, that every regal man is required to possess.