If you had a connection she’ll just write it then you’ll exchange papers. No need to ask anything..

I think I first heard that from Neil Strauss. It works.

David Gideon

Awesome tips! Brilliant tactic! Love that that whole thing about hey i wanna know how creative you are.. Very playful

I’ll be using this one, thanks Kezia

Thank you, for this as a number close, please write a book or eBook or something all you’re stuff is always like Gold Dust and seams to work really well. I am only new to all this PUA stuff but am flying by and feel i can almost get anyone i desire but when i read what you write it always takes me to a new level.

cheers, Charmel

PS, Kezia are you on facebook ??

Yeah, that’s pretty obvious, but I bet there’s a lot of guys out there doing just that.

I know I did. After the wake up call, I deleted a lot of numbers of gals I never called or who I had forgotten who the hell they were. But it’s still a hard habit to break. I recently got numbers from two gals I had approached at Starbucks after having short conversations with them, but got very different results simply by changing the way I got their numbers.

On the first gal, I got her number by saying something like, “Hey, we have to get together sometime, let me have your number.” She gave it to me, and I promptly forgot to call her for 4 or 5 days and then when I remembered and left her a voicemail, I never heard back from her.

For the other gal, I got her number by telling her that I was going to be out of town for a week, but when I returned that we were going to meet for a drink. This was right in front of the barristas and though she seemed a little surprised, she said, ‘Okaaaaaay.” I then had her put her number in my phone and told her I would text her so she’d have my number. We exchanged texts once or twice when I was away, and she texted me asking if she could call. We had a couple of short phone conversations and then after getting back into town, I called her up and set up our get-together for drinks 2 days later. We met at a bar, had a couple drinks and she followed me home for a very entertaining evening…

The moral of the story…if you DON’T actually DO something with the number, NOTHING happens!

Keep up the great work. Finally, Kezia do you sarge?

One thing I would do different here, you don’t always have to get the girl to think of a cute name instead you can give her a cute name based on your observation about her.

David Wygant has some great stuff on connecting with women at a higher level. I personally favorite all his articles, they’re that dern good.

Even though I’ve had a girlfriend for 2 years, long before I even heard of the community.

But one thing I don’t understand is this obsession with number closes. I mean, usually, I did my work right there, and if it didn’t work out, I very seldomly would call or anything.

I mean, how many numbers do you need to have for each actual date that turns into something?