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	<title>Comments on: The Attachment (David Wygant)</title>
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		<title>By: chill</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/05/08/the-attachment-david-wygant/#comment-2799</link>
		<dc:creator>chill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 21:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yah, being a chill dude, just out socializing, going with the flow works awesome.

Here is what I do:

1. Create or assume attraction, depending on context.
2. Connect.
3. Gently mention my attachment... a man like me
being single, that&#039;s just not congruent.  Women won&#039;t
believe it.
4. Create social opportunity with me, or with me and
my girl, or with my girl.

Works gold.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yah, being a chill dude, just out socializing, going with the flow works awesome.</p>
<p>Here is what I do:</p>
<p>1. Create or assume attraction, depending on context.<br />
2. Connect.<br />
3. Gently mention my attachment&#8230; a man like me<br />
being single, that&#8217;s just not congruent.  Women won&#8217;t<br />
believe it.<br />
4. Create social opportunity with me, or with me and<br />
my girl, or with my girl.</p>
<p>Works gold.</p>
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		<title>By: Ross Jeffries</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/05/08/the-attachment-david-wygant/#comment-2798</link>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 19:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, David, first and foremost, great to debate with you.  You did a great job, and handled yourself well. I&#039;m eager to see the footage.

And very good presentation at the Art of Charm bootcamp.

Just my 2 cents here; I would have turned around and walked beside her and simply said, as matter of factly as possible(this is key!):

&quot;Hi...I noticed you as you were walking the other way and I realized if I didn&#039;t say something, I&#039;d never get a chance to meet the person wrapped in all the pretty....my name is YOUR NAME HERE&quot;.

 The decision as to whether or not you are &quot;chasing&quot; is really up to HER; how does she determine the overall &quot;feel&quot; of your approach?

 If you do it in a non-threatening and MATTER OF FACT way-VERY low key and very non-confrontational-and if you do it in a physical context that is not inherently considered dangerous: say it is daytime, in an open space with other people around-then she will more than likely at least be intrigued by the approach.

 Note that what you are saying in this approach is 100% honest. There is no way she can dispute the truth of it:

1. You DID see her
2. You DID realize if you didn&#039;t say something you&#039;d never get to meet her.

Then there is the IMPLIED compliment-the person wrapped in all the pretty.

You are not directly saying, &quot;I think you are pretty&quot;.

It is implied, and when someone processes something that is implied, they have to actively find the meaning themselves, and therefore that meaning is interpreted as being their OWN thought, as opposed to something be imposed on them.

No disrespect or insult in this post.  I would have handled it differently.

This, &quot;I noticed you and realized if I didn&#039;t say something I&#039;d never get to meet you&quot; is my &quot;fall back&quot; approach that I teach when you can&#039;t figure out what to say or extract a good working observation from her or the environment.

It&#039;s all covered in my Gold Walk Up Diamond

http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/walkup.php?pmc=AD-5</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, David, first and foremost, great to debate with you.  You did a great job, and handled yourself well. I&#8217;m eager to see the footage.</p>
<p>And very good presentation at the Art of Charm bootcamp.</p>
<p>Just my 2 cents here; I would have turned around and walked beside her and simply said, as matter of factly as possible(this is key!):</p>
<p>&#8220;Hi&#8230;I noticed you as you were walking the other way and I realized if I didn&#8217;t say something, I&#8217;d never get a chance to meet the person wrapped in all the pretty&#8230;.my name is YOUR NAME HERE&#8221;.</p>
<p> The decision as to whether or not you are &#8220;chasing&#8221; is really up to HER; how does she determine the overall &#8220;feel&#8221; of your approach?</p>
<p> If you do it in a non-threatening and MATTER OF FACT way-VERY low key and very non-confrontational-and if you do it in a physical context that is not inherently considered dangerous: say it is daytime, in an open space with other people around-then she will more than likely at least be intrigued by the approach.</p>
<p> Note that what you are saying in this approach is 100% honest. There is no way she can dispute the truth of it:</p>
<p>1. You DID see her<br />
2. You DID realize if you didn&#8217;t say something you&#8217;d never get to meet her.</p>
<p>Then there is the IMPLIED compliment-the person wrapped in all the pretty.</p>
<p>You are not directly saying, &#8220;I think you are pretty&#8221;.</p>
<p>It is implied, and when someone processes something that is implied, they have to actively find the meaning themselves, and therefore that meaning is interpreted as being their OWN thought, as opposed to something be imposed on them.</p>
<p>No disrespect or insult in this post.  I would have handled it differently.</p>
<p>This, &#8220;I noticed you and realized if I didn&#8217;t say something I&#8217;d never get to meet you&#8221; is my &#8220;fall back&#8221; approach that I teach when you can&#8217;t figure out what to say or extract a good working observation from her or the environment.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all covered in my Gold Walk Up Diamond</p>
<p><a href="http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/walkup.php?pmc=AD-5" rel="nofollow">http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/walkup.php?pmc=AD-5</a></p>
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		<title>By: Khiem</title>
		<link>http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/05/08/the-attachment-david-wygant/#comment-2797</link>
		<dc:creator>Khiem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 16:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is funny... I didn&#039;t realize David wrote me in his story LOL.

However, I do remember that day.  That was a nice hike.  Oh yeah... the woman was pretty good looking too ;p</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is funny&#8230; I didn&#8217;t realize David wrote me in his story LOL.</p>
<p>However, I do remember that day.  That was a nice hike.  Oh yeah&#8230; the woman was pretty good looking too ;p</p>
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