Paul Janka, who I posted about previously here, will be on the Dr Phil show this afternoon so check your local listings. It’s titled “Male Egos Out of Control“, and does the blurb below sound familiar? =)

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Check out Paul Janka’s official website at http://www.attractionformula.com

Ladies, beware! Dr. Phil sheds light on men you might want to avoid! You know the type: They can turn you off with their confidence, offend you with their arrogance and make you wonder if they actually hate women.

“New York City is a playground for the single guy,” says Paul, 32. “It’s a perfect place to play the game. There are a lot of single women looking to meet a guy who’s straight, unattached, and can show them a good time. I wrote this 17-page little manifesto called ******* **** in New York City. We’ve got three things: A) ***** is the second most abundant thing after water, B) men should act more like cavemen. Grab that woman off the street, drag her back to your lair, and C) women ultimately only care about a man’s ability to pay and how well he makes love to her.

“I have to engage, build a rapport, have a few laughs and close. It’s exhausting,” Paul says, heading out to pick up women. “I don’t see anything wrong with sleeping with girls whom I have no long-term interest in. I’m more selective about whom I have dinner with than whom I have sex with. On a good week, I’m probably having 10, 15 dates. I’ve slept with 130, 132 women. I’ve had sex in a New York City cab, and the guy reached back and touched her, so they’re getting their jollies off too. A lot of my game centers around not wasting financial resources. I don’t even take girls out. I meet them out on the street, and I invite them back to my place. If I’m attracted to her and the end game is to be physical, I want them in a controlled environment where I can escalate it into a sexual scenario.

“My main goal today is to meet [upwards of a dozen] women, get their phone numbers. The law of being a good player is you’ve just got to get into the vibe. I’m almost 6-feet 1, I’ve got, like, a swimmer’s build, I’m happy with my looks and my physique, I’m healthy. I always keep a little bit of scruff. I’m never clean-shaven. Women respond a lot to facial hair, I’ve found. They like to touch it, and it’s manly … Women say I’m intense. It scares them off or turns them on. My eyes are like beams, like, if I see a girl, and she sees that eye connection, she knows it’s on, it’s just, like, locked on like a missile.”

Paul approaches a woman on the street. “I love your style. I wanted to come and say hi because it’s very unique,” he tells her.

After, he says, “The first girl I made eye contact with, I got her number quickly and moved on. Women generally know what my deal is up front. It’s about the physicality, and I’m very touchy-feely right off the bat.”

He approaches another woman. “Can I touch your cheekbone?” he asks her.

After, she says, “He touched me. I didn’t like how he touched me. It was weird.”

After some time and with mixed results, Paul calls it a day. He explains, “The big key there is to enter with confidence, keep it light and playful, get the contact information and then get out of the situation, and I effectively did that. My mojo is pretty good. I got three or four numbers in about 25 minutes. Two girls texted me, so we have plans for tonight. Not bad. So, it looks like it’s on,” he says.

“So, your theory is get in, get the numbers and get out,” Dr. Phil says.

“It’s not a theory. It works,” Paul says.

“And you’ve got a spreadsheet?” Dr. Phil asks.

“I do,” he says. Paul’s spreadsheet lists 132 women whom he’s had sex with.

“This was a quote that you gave in an interview that I read,” Dr. Phil says. “You said, ‘She may look fit, sexy and sophisticated, but after she’s naked with mascara running down her face, and she’s trying to stuff her thighs into a pair of too-small jeans at 2:00 a.m., you realize she’s just another person trying to get by.’”

“I wrote that, yes. And what exactly is offensive about that?” Paul asks. “In that statement, I’m basically saying, ‘Men and women are equal. We’re all just trying to get by in this world.’ And as a man who’s trying to learn a little game, don’t put a woman on a pedestal and think she’s untouchable. Everyone has their own foibles, everyone has their own hang-ups, and I think a lot of men’s insecurity is that they elevate the woman so much that they have fear of approach.”

“Are you always on the make?” Dr. Phil asks.

“No.”

“Have you been hustling here?”

“I was chatting with one of the [Production Assistants], very cute girl, yeah,” Paul says.

“You remember Sam here, our receptionist,” Dr. Phil says, pointing her out.

“Yeah, very cute girl,” he says.

Dr. Phil shows Paul some dessert in a box. “You came up to her at the desk and closed the box and said she shouldn’t be eating this, it is empty carbs?”

“Right. I did do that.”

“He told you not to eat this?” Dr. Phil asks Sam.

“Yeah, and I told him I was going to eat it anyway,” she says.

“Do you remember Meg?” Dr. Phil asks, pointing her out.

“Yeah, I do, Meg, sure. Hi.”

“What happened this morning with you?” Dr. Phil asks Meg.

“Well, he wanted a high five, and I said no. Then he wanted a hug because he said we have to make some kind of contact,” she recalls. “And then he said, ‘Maybe a kiss, possibly with tongue.’ And, it was more the way he looks at you. No eye contact, just a lot of up and down,” she says, demonstrating.

Dr. Phil addresses Paul. “And you say you don’t buy dinner because you’re not trying to feed somebody. And ‘Don’t drink on the job,’ so you drink seltzer and tell the bartender to call it a Tom Collins, so the girl thinks you’re drinking with her, but you’re really not, because you don’t drink on ‘the job.’”

“Correct,” Paul says, “I no longer do that for a couple of reasons. One, it’s expensive, and two, I found the transition from the bar to my apartment was very difficult, especially on a cold New York night.”

“It’s hard to go from the bar to your apartment on a cold New York night because, does the cold sort of snap them back to reality?” Dr. Phil asks.

“They’re like, ‘Oh! I’ve got to get home!’ which, you know, I’m sure you dated in your young life, and have probably had similar experiences … ”

Dr. Phil smiles.

Robin laughs too. “All the time. Happened all the time,” she jokes.

Heather says she casually dated Paul for five months, and although he started out charming and handsome, he did something that ruined his chances with her. “I met Paul at this upscale restaurant in New York City. He was able to talk about history and politics and culture,” she says.

“She liked me, so I think it was in her interest to give me her number,” Paul says.

“He called me a couple days later, and then we went out to dinner. Paul admitted to me that he had a spreadsheet of all the women he slept with,” she says. “After he said that, I said, ‘OK, I’m definitely not touching your ****.’”

“She was both intrigued and kind of shocked by that,” he says. “We left dinner that night, and we ducked into an alcove.”

“We definitely made out, but it didn’t go very far,” Heather remembers.

Paul remembers it differently. “Short of having sex, we were pretty much at it,” he says. Eventually, Heather called him late one night and said she wanted to come over. “I wasn’t surprised when I got the phone call. I knew she’d come around.”

“I buzz his doorbell. He opens the door, and he’s ******* ***,” she says.

“I’ve never answered the door with my ***** exposed. I just think that would be an ineffective strategy,” Paul says.

“I was completely turned off and thought he was crazy,” Heather says. Although she stayed the night, Heather says nothing happened.

Again, that’s not how Paul remembers it. “If I’m not sexualizing the situation, I don’t know what we’re doing together at that hour. I mean, that’s kind of the definition of a tease, isn’t it?” he asks.

“Where is Heather on the spreadsheet?” Dr. Phil asks Paul.

“Well, she didn’t make it to the spreadsheet, unfortunately for her. We never had intercourse,” he says. “Not yet.”

“Not yet! Never, baby!” she tells him, laughing.

“I met her before my system was fully codified and worked out,” Paul explains.

Heather wrote about her experience with Paul on Gawker.com. She made up a nickname for him that won’t be mentioned here.

“Because some of your 132 are hookers?” Dr. Phil guesses.

“I would say I have extremely limited experience with that,” Paul says. “Out of 132 women, I think three, honestly, three are women I paid for.”

“Why was it so relevant to you that you told me that right away though?” Heather asks him.

“I think Heather is a very clever girl, very funny, and I felt an immediate rapport with her and disclosed my shtick,” he says. “Maybe I figured that it wasn’t going to go in the girlfriend direction anyhow, so I kind of laid myself bare.”

“You say there are three kinds of women: yes, no and maybe. So, what was she?” Dr. Phil asks.

“She’s probably a yes girl, but you have to earn her,” Paul says. “She’s a beautiful, quality woman, and I think she probably said, ‘This guy is interesting, he’s intriguing, but too much baggage to have a fling with.’ She didn’t want to get hung up on my stuff.”

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