What you mentioned is quite truly but pretty much unpractical in the sub-continental region where the girls are getting their freedom and engulfing modernization. To be specific, what you talk about is only applicaple to girls who have the international exposure from abroad but you can easily seduce the girls here by using some exciting words alone.

Is she looking at your website full of good information or are you looking at hers?

Basically I think you have to calibrate according to the situation and see how she’s like within the first few mins and that’s what I do!!!

Point is this: what you say is almost totally irrelevant. HOW you say it is where the game is won and lost.

I had to comment because I felt that the double sided compliment really sounds like a subtle neg or a subliminal “I am better than you” sort of line.

why all this obsession on Making her lower value than you? why not approach a women with the mindset that she is of the same equal value. I stick to the idea that men and women both have an equal value to a society as a gender while keeping in mind that they are not similar and are quite different as human beings.

A society with a skewed male to female (or female to male) ratio (due to wars, famine, natural disasters, brain drain etc…) is less powerful in the long run than a society that has an equal number of both genders. Nevertheless having an equal male to female ratio does not guarantee a mate for every male because women are Hypergamous while males are polygamous (from my observations). in other words, the top leaders get the good ones (if not more than their fair share!) and the followers pick up what’s left.

Negs work on women that are overconfident and/or insecure (2 sides of the same coin) because are trying to hide their insecurities by putting up a fake “strong” facade. It is without doubt that there is a lot of ego flying high in a club environment and I do agree that a women (or a Man) with an overinflated ego has to be put back in her/his place. Nonetheless, this has to be done IF the other party crosses the line and is disrespectful.

Approaching a women with the mindset that “I m going to show her that I’m better than her by playing up her insecurities and breaking down her ego” is quite weak and bitter. This could work on the short run (one night stands and flings maybe) but will not help in building a long lasting and fulfilling relationship that is based on manipulative head games.

A strong man simply knows who he is and where he’s coming from, he does not have to prove anything to anyone and only follows the beat of his own drums.

he is genuinely nice, kind and caring towards others yet firm, assertive and hard-line when it’s called for. all in all he is well balanced and centered man.

Furthermore he is not in the business of giving insincere and excessive flattery to women just to stroke their egos.

Simply approaching a women in a bold, direct, upfront, straightforward and unapologetic manner regarding his own interests and intentions is a “compliment” in itself.

His cool, calm and collected swagger, his relaxed demeanor, his seductive voice and eyes coupled with his “Assertive and Outcome Indifferent” mindset makes him a genuinely strong man.

He knows what he truly wants and does not apologize for it.

A good compliment is simply a sincere and genuine compliment. No need to follow it up with a subtle neg in my opinion.

Again it is HOW things are said and done that matter more than what is being said. we all know that actions speak louder than words

this is just my 2 cents.
thanks

Some girls get incredibly upset when I ask if they’re retarded. Others like it. But I’m definitely not going to give them a retardation disorder if they don’t already have one. (Or several.) Smart girls seem to like it more, unless they have a personal reason not to (brain disorder, relative, PC psychobitch).

Great comments, keep em coming!