Comments on: My Life After College and What To Do If You Hate Clubs http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/ Thu, 19 Nov 2009 05:18:20 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Donovan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1710 Donovan Tue, 25 Mar 2008 01:46:29 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1710 Thirtyplus: Good news. Bobby Rio and I are writing a two part series on building a dynamic social circle in which you can meet women through, should be hitting our blogs within two weeks if not earlier. Thirtyplus: Good news. Bobby Rio and I are writing a two part series on building a dynamic social circle in which you can meet women through, should be hitting our blogs within two weeks if not earlier.

]]> By: Thirtyplus http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1709 Thirtyplus Tue, 25 Mar 2008 01:43:50 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1709 Lance is right on here (hey, Lance!) I like the fact that you're writing about this, but it is definitely a topic I'd like to see more ink spilled on (hell, I may even spill some myself). Lance is right on here (hey, Lance!) I like the fact that you’re writing about this, but it is definitely a topic I’d like to see more ink spilled on (hell, I may even spill some myself).

]]> By: Lance http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1678 Lance Sun, 23 Mar 2008 01:49:29 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1678 Unfortunately, my social circles, for the purposes of finding new chicks, is pretty poor. It's all marrieds or hand grenades, as I stated above. I'm no professional PUA, so I can't fill my rolodex with players only. When I want to meet new chicks, I HAVE to go out to bars and clubs, and often times by myself. I think most regular dudes who study game are like this, people with AFC-type friends. Unfortunately, my social circles, for the purposes of finding new chicks, is pretty poor. It’s all marrieds or hand grenades, as I stated above. I’m no professional PUA, so I can’t fill my rolodex with players only. When I want to meet new chicks, I HAVE to go out to bars and clubs, and often times by myself. I think most regular dudes who study game are like this, people with AFC-type friends.

]]> By: Seduction Chronicles http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1652 Seduction Chronicles Thu, 20 Mar 2008 05:25:33 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1652 @Lance Clubs meaning night clubs. Not organizational clubs in case I worded that wrong. Building a social circle takes on many different levels. My social circle isn't anywhere near the same it was when I was an AFC. Most of my new friends aren't AFCs. I find people that add to the value of the circle, not detract. @Lance

Clubs meaning night clubs. Not organizational clubs in case I worded that wrong.

Building a social circle takes on many different levels. My social circle isn’t anywhere near the same it was when I was an AFC.

Most of my new friends aren’t AFCs. I find people that add to the value of the circle, not detract.

]]> By: Lance http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1651 Lance Thu, 20 Mar 2008 03:13:10 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1651 I'm post-collegiate and I find the social circle thing is a pain in the ass. The problem is if most of your friends are regular AFC professionals, all the women will be a) married, b) LTR's, or c) hand grenades. Prospects are generally poor. They also rarely do what I consider "fun" things, and usually stick to grill outs and dinners and stuff. Kinda boring. What I recommend is to join clubs and organizations around town and develop circles that way. Those folks usually go out for happy hours or whatever, and from there you can either work the social circle or leverage your social value at the bars. One of my favorites is to join a college alumni club or a sports & social club. I’m post-collegiate and I find the social circle thing is a pain in the ass. The problem is if most of your friends are regular AFC professionals, all the women will be a) married, b) LTR’s, or c) hand grenades. Prospects are generally poor. They also rarely do what I consider “fun” things, and usually stick to grill outs and dinners and stuff. Kinda boring. What I recommend is to join clubs and organizations around town and develop circles that way. Those folks usually go out for happy hours or whatever, and from there you can either work the social circle or leverage your social value at the bars. One of my favorites is to join a college alumni club or a sports & social club.

]]> By: Bobby Rio http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1645 Bobby Rio Wed, 19 Mar 2008 17:58:19 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1645 Matt makes a good point.. mingle within a few differnt circles.. that way there are always new people coming in and out of your life. im with you Donovan.. i hage clubs.. beginning to hate bars as well... luckily i've always been good at building and ruling a social cirlce... maybe we should do a post about building a social circle after college! Matt makes a good point.. mingle within a few differnt circles.. that way there are always new people coming in and out of your life.

im with you Donovan.. i hage clubs.. beginning to hate bars as well… luckily i’ve always been good at building and ruling a social cirlce…

maybe we should do a post about building a social circle after college!

]]> By: Matt Savage http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/comment-page-1/#comment-1643 Matt Savage Wed, 19 Mar 2008 16:24:15 +0000 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/19/my-life-after-college-and-what-to-do-if-you-hate-clubs/#comment-1643 I always like to look at Social Circle building like you would as an investment portfolio - you don't want to put all your eggs in one basket. The trick is to diversify, the more different people you become friends with and the more different types of social events/venues you frequent then the better your portfolio of women to choose from will be. I always like to look at Social Circle building like you would as an investment portfolio – you don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket. The trick is to diversify, the more different people you become friends with and the more different types of social events/venues you frequent then the better your portfolio of women to choose from will be.

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