My Life After College and What To Do If You Hate Clubs
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I was a late college goer, I’m now 26 and finishing in December. College has been a great time, but lately I’m thinking about the changes in my dating life after I graduate. I meet a lot of girls in classes and social circles at college. The past year or so I’ve been experimenting with a few different things that I haven’t had to rely on since I was in college. Things like social circle game, facebook, and activity classes are ways I’ve been successful in meeting women that I can use after I graduate.
Unlike many guys in the community, I hate clubs. I can count on my hands how many times I’ve been. It’s not my thing and I hate the vibe. Lounges are different, I don’t dislike them as much. So what does a guy do that’s out of college and hates going to clubs?
Social circle.
With a social circle you can meet high quality women that are on a fairly similar level to your social value. Creating a dynamic social circle will help you stay on the offensive with meeting women. You’ll be invited to house parties, activities, meet random women, and generally have a fun time.
I think the single most important thing about creating a vibrant social circle in which you can meet women through is always be adding to it. Introduce people to each other and watch the opportunities to meet women grow. If you introduce cool people to each other, your social value rises and people will be more likely to invite you to fun activities.
So if you hate clubs first make sure it isn’t because you fear approaching in them, if so, get comfortable there and see if you still feel the same way. If you do, start building a massive social circle in which you can start inviting people into and meeting women through.
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Comment by Matt Savage on 19 March 2008:
I always like to look at Social Circle building like you would as an investment portfolio - you don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket. The trick is to diversify, the more different people you become friends with and the more different types of social events/venues you frequent then the better your portfolio of women to choose from will be.
Comment by Bobby Rio on 19 March 2008:
Matt makes a good point.. mingle within a few differnt circles.. that way there are always new people coming in and out of your life.
im with you Donovan.. i hage clubs.. beginning to hate bars as well… luckily i’ve always been good at building and ruling a social cirlce…
maybe we should do a post about building a social circle after college!
Comment by Lance on 19 March 2008:
I’m post-collegiate and I find the social circle thing is a pain in the ass. The problem is if most of your friends are regular AFC professionals, all the women will be a) married, b) LTR’s, or c) hand grenades. Prospects are generally poor. They also rarely do what I consider “fun” things, and usually stick to grill outs and dinners and stuff. Kinda boring. What I recommend is to join clubs and organizations around town and develop circles that way. Those folks usually go out for happy hours or whatever, and from there you can either work the social circle or leverage your social value at the bars. One of my favorites is to join a college alumni club or a sports & social club.
Comment by Seduction Chronicles on 19 March 2008:
@Lance
Clubs meaning night clubs. Not organizational clubs in case I worded that wrong.
Building a social circle takes on many different levels. My social circle isn’t anywhere near the same it was when I was an AFC.
Most of my new friends aren’t AFCs. I find people that add to the value of the circle, not detract.
Comment by Lance on 22 March 2008:
Unfortunately, my social circles, for the purposes of finding new chicks, is pretty poor. It’s all marrieds or hand grenades, as I stated above. I’m no professional PUA, so I can’t fill my rolodex with players only. When I want to meet new chicks, I HAVE to go out to bars and clubs, and often times by myself. I think most regular dudes who study game are like this, people with AFC-type friends.
Comment by Thirtyplus on 24 March 2008:
Lance is right on here (hey, Lance!) I like the fact that you’re writing about this, but it is definitely a topic I’d like to see more ink spilled on (hell, I may even spill some myself).
Comment by Donovan on 24 March 2008:
Thirtyplus: Good news. Bobby Rio and I are writing a two part series on building a dynamic social circle in which you can meet women through, should be hitting our blogs within two weeks if not earlier.