Wow, You’re Pretty (Herbal’s Game Column)

Hello guys,

I’m now used to this crazy new time zone here in Tokyo and I’m back on track with getting these newsletters out on time.

Have I ever mentioned how beautiful the girls in Japan are? Wow. I’ve never had “yellow fever” before, but for the first time I’m noticing how insanely pretty these girls are. I don’t know any Japanese, so I’m trying to learn a few basic things to say to get the ball rolling.

Maybe I’ll write about that once I get the hang of things here. I haven’t even gone out yet – too busy catching up on writing, working on my book, and working on my other non-pickup product.

Enough about me, let’s talk about you…

———————————————-

Hey Tynan,

I saw a girl at the grocery store a few days ago on a few different aisles, and each time we made eye contact. I could tell her behavior became a little more self-conscious, less “aloof” I guess, which made me about 100% sure that she was at least somewhat interested in me.

But when this happens, I’m always thinking to myself what can I possibly say to convey that I like her and I’m a good guy without being so upfront like that? It’s just that, in situations where I see a girl daily, like in class or at work, it’s so much easier to develop a very easy ramp into a relationship, whereas in quick chance encounters, the pressure is so high to say just the right thing, cause there may not be another chance. What is the solution to this? What is there to say? For example, is it good to just say outright “wow you’re pretty”?

-SP

———————————————

Hey SP,

You didn’t really ask two questions, but I’m going to give you two distinct pieces of advice, because I see two issues here that need to be worked on.

From your first paragraph here, I can tell that you’re WAY too passive. You’re focusing on her desires rather than your own. Instead of seeing what you get, you have to go take what you want. Of course, I don’t mean that you need to be a caveman and club her and drag her back to your cave, but rather I mean that you need to take control of your own destiny and take responsibility for your results.

In other words – forget whether she’s attracted or not. MAKE her attracted to you.

As for your specific situation, do as Jay-Z says.

“Stick to the script.”

Didn’t I cover this in the last newsletter or the one before? Or maybe I’m thinking of a new chapter in my book (yes the new version is now available, yes you should buy it, yes you can get a refund if you don’t love it).

Either way, NEVER say anything like “wow you’re pretty”.

This doesn’t work. It never has, it never will.

“But I did it once and I got a girl’s number!”

Yeah, and someone won the lottery yesterday, but that doesn’t mean you should buy lottery tickets.

People fantasize about doing things like this because they see it in movies and they think it would be easier. Tell her she’s pretty, she says you’re handsome (or something… I don’t really know what people expect to happen), and you both live happily ever after.

This isn’t fair to the girl. This isn’t how she wants to be attracted, deep down in her core. She wants a challenge. She wants to pine after you, to think about you, to wonder about you. She wants for you to be this amazing guy that she’ll feel totally gratified to be with.

“Wow you’re pretty.”

She gets this all day. When you offer it, she instantly sees you as a carbon copy of every other guy and will come up with an easy way to dismiss you.

So what should you do?

Use the techniques that have been nearly perfected by pickup artists over the past ten years or so. The very short version is to be different, be interesting, and be a challenge.

SP, I’m going to send you a copy of my book to help you learn what really attracts women. It’s a lot easier than you might think and I’m confident that you’ll be able to do it within the next 30 days. Maybe you can report back then and I’ll let everyone know how you’re doing.

As for everyone else, you have to buy the book. I just released the new version and already I’m getting fantastic feedback on it.

The whole package now is a 125 page book that covers literally EVERYTHING you need to make your personality and lifestyle naturally draw women in and make them chase you, a 70+ minute hidden microphone audio program of me picking up some girls, a short guide on being a wingman that you can also send to your friends, AND a 30 day interactive course sent to you daily.

I still haven’t sat down and changed the price everywhere, so it’s still only $47, which is an insane value. I got an e-mail from someone who recently read the new version and he told me it would have been a bargain at $300. I agree.

Go to www.makeherchaseyou.com/newsletter and check it out. I don’t charge you for 7 days, so you get to read it for free during that time and decide whether or not you love it. If you don’t I cancel your order before you’re ever charged.

Tynan

P.S. Send me your question for me to answer in an upcoming newsletter. I send free copies of my stuff to some of the people whose questions I answer, and even to some people whose questions I don’t answer, so you never know! Send an e-mail to weekly@makeherchaseyou.com.