Ashley Youmans aka Governor Spitzer’s Hooker - What Would You Do?
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Everyone here in the US has heard about the resignation of New York state Governor Splitzer. We’ll you usually have a fat intern at the other end of a scandal.
Give props to Spitzer for at least choosing a beautiful call girl. I’ve always wondered what the hell Hugh Grant was thinking. Apparently this girl Ashley Youmans currently lives in a posh New York City apartment and is trying to get her music career off the ground.
BTW, if you went to high school with Ashley Youmans then you should check out the new Facebook group. I love the internet. It’s like shame virus central, equally as satisfying is her online dating profile (which could be a fake) that says “I do very bad things, and I do them very well.”. Awesome. Shout out to Bobby Rio - this girls dirty and from New Jersey!
Here are some Ashley Youman pics:

She certainly grew into herself:
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This girl is a knockout. Easy 8.5. It appears like she’s got more going on than just being a high class call girl.
The question I pose to you gentlemen is this:
How would you pick up a girl like this without using Spitzer money? Obviously she sees men as a prostitute, something which you would not be aware of. She would probably have money and might even associate a negative feeling with men with power, money and probably wouldn’t get overly jealous if you ever used jealous plot lines or social value tactics.
On the flip side, perhaps she is sexually drawn to that. Hence, killing to birds with one stone. Maybe she craves the feeling of security that comes from being a call girl for men with money and power. Those are just some of my thoughts, but I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below about how you would seduce a woman that seduces men.
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Comment by Zea on 13 March 2008:
Easy. You treat hot women like they’re not and not women like they’re hot. Treat her like a normal everyday girl. Treat her like the cute girl you live next door too, friendly, but not your style. When t appears that you don’t want to get intimate, she’ll chase you. I guarantee she won’t be used to it that way. That’s my ten cents.
And on a somewhat related note, I generally don’t fancy girls who fall for jealously plot lines. They more often than not end up being insecure and needy, and that’s not what I want. Actually, thats the exact opposite of what I want in a girl.
Comment by Seduction Chronicles on 13 March 2008:
True, I personally don’t use them, but they are effective for a particular type of girl that some men prefer, especially above 8+ socialites.
Comment by Stealth on 13 March 2008:
She’s still a prostitute any way you look at it. We all are prostitutes in some way or other, but she actually goes after the cash. Some people would just get with Spitzer because of his status regardless if he has no game, but she wanted him to pay for him fuckin her (which just seems really nasty). I’m very high status, the kind that she’s drawn to, but I wouldn’t let her get a piece of me, that way, she’d seduce me. She has plenty of guys around her, so its a very fine line though, she could meet another high status guy in seconds.
Comment by Yummy Stale Bread on 13 March 2008:
In reality though, is she really seducing men? Men pay her a lot of money to sleep with her, but seduction requires attracting someone that doesn’t obviously want to be with you. These men obviously want to be with her, that is why they are paying so much money, she doesn’t have to do much of anything but keep her clients happy. Also, I don’t think she is that beautiful…she is attractive, but that is all, nothing special to look at in my opinion.
But to answer your question…I would treat her like anyone else, because based upon the question you first said you wouldn’t know what she did for a living, therefore there wouldn’t be any reason to treat her particularly different from any other attractive girl ;-P
Comment by Bobby Rio on 13 March 2008:
I got into an arguement with a girl tonight.. she says she would rather her husband have an affair with another women… then fuck prostitutes..
i tend to think its better for a married guy to fuck pros then have an affair with a women he loves. at least this way everyone involved knows its only sex…
affairs hurt everyone…
i couldn’t convince her though
Comment by Anon on 13 March 2008:
This demonstrates the supply and demand problem of sex in NYC.
She’s just another one of the many AVERAGE cuties in NYC. But even an extremely rich and powerful guy like Spitzer has to PAY her thousands just to get some pussy. In Europe, whores who are hotter than her and who are bona fide TENS only cost 50 Euros!!!
The problem is that girls in NYC are among the most uptight, man-hating, fucked up chicks in the U.S. Prior to his pseudo-celebrity status, even Mystery hated NYC because he had problems picking up NYC girls.
Donovan, you know that NYC is home to LITERALLY at least TWENTY pickup workshops. That’s cause most chicks in NYC are super uptight. The supply of available and willing pussy is very low while the supply of desperate guys in NYC is high.
What does that lead to?
Pickup workshops that cost thousands and hookers that cost thousands.
Comment by Seduction Chronicles on 13 March 2008:
@Bobby Rio: Yeah I agree somewhat. Actually I think most women would agree with that, however, on the flip side I can see another view that the man had to PLAN going to a prostitute initially, and the implications behind that would be far more damaging to a woman’s ego.
@YSB: I think there is a certain level of seduction going on for repeat business. I am a true sucker for the plain jane brunettes with cute faces and nice bodies. So each there own.
@Anon: Word. I think the problem in NYC isn’t the low availabity of pussy, but the fact that there’s a serious bitch shield up. If you get in the social circles, you have no problem picking up hot women. The problem is that they have a shield so far up that you won’t ever see the genuine girls. Long Island Jewish girls were the worst that I encountered while living there. The implants from all over the country were awesome. I’ve got an upcoming interview with Paul Janka would does very well in NYC soon. Look for that over the next few weeks.
Comment by Lance on 15 March 2008:
The fact that she’s a prostitute totally de-attracts me to her. Consider that she’s handled by (real) pimps, has had contact with mobsters, has probably fucked a bunch of gumbas and club owners, was abused as a kid, abuses drugs, is likely the victim of sexual violence (as are all prostitutes), ran away from home, and has bounced all over the country. To put it bluntly, she’s totally fucked up. When she’s 28, she’ll be fat and nasty. Why bother picking her up at all? Am I being too harsh here?? Next…
Comment by dreamerboyinnyc on 23 March 2008:
Donovan, you know that NYC is home to LITERALLY at least TWENTY pickup workshops. That’s cause most chicks in NYC are super uptight. The supply of available and willing pussy is very low while the supply of desperate guys in NYC is high.
any suggestions on pickups bootcamps in NYC, please let me know suggestion of list.thanks
Comment by Brad on 25 March 2008:
Sometimes I’ve wondered if the higher status guys nail the prostitutes because they can disgard them at any time.
I don’t think it’s a “needy” type of thing. I think its a power play… a business transaction that is based on results.
Other than herpes… I’d venture a guess that getting with a high class hooker is safer than most of the club chicks out there… ha, ha, ha.
Comment by Hollywood on 28 March 2008:
you get a girl like that by being a f@#$ing PIMP– a true to life,go get me my muthaf@#$ing money- PIMP. that means that you do not give her any dick until she pays you. if you were to hit that w/o getting your paper (money) she would have no respect for you. you see for her to respect you, you have to run her game on her– money first — then she will respect you.then she will be attracted to you. you must be her PIMP aka manager, friend, confidant, boyfriend, father, husband, lover and leader — a partner,so to speak because after all it is your pussy.
you must dominate and own her, first. shes got to be dominated and pimped out within the first 3mins, as this is your test to see if she is a ho (because you wont be aware until you test) and this is you’re demonstration that you are a pimp.
it might sound something like this…
you: some charming/cfopener
her: hahah
you: do you date? (dont wait for answer) because ive got some friends that might like your type….these are very high profile individuals,with alot of power, wealth and status.. they are very generous.. but they expect complete discretion..know what im saying??
her: (if her eyes light up shes a ho) (if her face gets all twisted shes a good girl)
and then your pretty much IN…
if you want a peek at my entire system..say.. i do..:)
Comment by Gostosão on 28 March 2008:
Easy. I seduce women who seduce men ALL the time. Jealousy plotlines DO work on them, if they’re done right. They are aware that they’re making a living off their looks, and so are hyper-aware that they’re competing with other women. The proper way to do a jealousy plotline with them is to make it look like the other girl is hitting on YOU. This is not that hard. Just make sure you open lots of girls early and when you’re sure your target is watching, reopen a girl who gave you a very positive reaction earlier by saying, over your shoulder, “Hey stand a bit further away, would you? I don’t want people thinking you’re my girlfriend.” The girl almost never fails to jump all over you, wrap her arms around you, etc. Target sees this and gets jealous. She wants you for herself.
If your target brings up cash, you don’t tell her, “I don’t pay for pussy.” You tell her, “Nah, I like sex when it’s spontaneous and natural. When the two of you are just talking and laughing and you have that vibe, and you keep looking at his lips (this makes her look at your lips), and you want him to kiss you, but you don’t know WHEN he’s going to kiss you, and you’re almost going crazy for it… And then…he does…” And you move your head closer to hers, but DON’T kiss her. Turn your head at the last minute. Tell her how sex is “more than just a dick and a pussy, it’s every moment between two people, up until the actual sex, too.” Girls get really into this. And, frankly, it’s true.
What you’re promising her is an experience she’s NOT going to get with a client. They can give her money, but they can’t give her THIS.
They also get really excited if you hint that you’re not going to stick around. Tell her about how you always get bored with someone after a few weeks. You don’t know why. And how you keep hoping that someday you’re going to meet someone you won’t get bored with. I’m serious, they love this. Somewhere inside, she wants to prove to herself that she can be that girl. She’s got wealthy and powerful men getting needy enough to pay her big cash for her pussy. She’s WAITING for a real challenge.
Get to know her. The real her. Tell her what you like about her, what you think is cool. Then tell her you don’t want to be her boyfriend, but you want to take her home with you. Be direct and they’ll respect you more.
Above all, be HONEST. These girls have guys lying to them all day long. The more she senses that you’re straight up honest with her no matter what, the more she’ll trust you and get attracted. Everything I have said above is honest for me.
The city I’m in is chock full of hookers. You learn after a while. It’s not that tough.
Comment by osvaldo on 8 May 2008:
Easy pie.
Get close to her ear and whisper ” I love you”.
Done.