Taking Your Game International

March 11th, 2008 • Donovan • Related • Filed Under •

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This is a guest post by Roosh V, whose blog I’ve started to sponsor. Definitely check his writings out if you’re in the DC area or like women.

International Girls
Roosh in Brazil

The assumption guys make about girls is that they all respond the same, that game is game and things should work regardless of where the girl is from. I made this mistake and exported my push-pull, cocky and funny, and indirect game to Argentina with poor results. Here are some things I learned…

1. Do your research. Before you board the plane, ask your wingmen if they’ve had experiences with girls from that country. And when you arrive, make friends with the local guys and ask them for their opinions on the girls. One of my best friends is Russian and I can tell you that Russian girls will appear cold and distant when you first approach them but you should push on anyway.

2. Adapt quickly. On a two week vacation, you simply don’t have the time to learn a new game, but you do have time to make easy adjustments that affect how the locals respond to you. For example in Peru, the more you look like a gringo (think Abercrombie & Fitch), the better you’ll do with the girls in the club, so leave the soccer jersey at home. In Argentina the kiss is a big deal, so you delay your kiss attempt longer than usual without getting frustrated when things are moving along slower than normal.

3. Approach in massive numbers. The big myth of traveling is that you will get more abroad than you do at home, but there are so many obstacles (no cell phone, no pad, no wingmen, language barrier, lack of venue knowledge, and so on), that the only way to make up for them is to approach a lot more than you normally do. With many girls closed off to having sex with a gringo who is only in town for a weekend, sometimes you need to keep going until you find a girl who doesn’t mind and speaks your language. It takes a lot more energy than you are used to.

4. Western girls are easiest. American, English, Irish, and Australian girls are the easiest in the world. There are some exception (Brazilian girls are not difficult), but keep in mind you may need to put in more time with a local. American girls are so easy that I missed them in in Argentina while approaching the most beautiful (and difficult) girls I’ve ever met in my life.

5. Take it easy on the alcohol. While at home you’re mostly on auto-pilot, at a bar you know with wingmen you trust, but when you’re abroad you need to be full of energy and more mindful about what you are doing. It’s far better to pound Red Bull than beer.

If you can get laid with pretty girls who barely speak your language then there aren’t many challenges you can’t face. The last tip I can give you is simply to be fun: when you can’t talk with words, all the girl is going by is your positive energy and vibe. Sometimes all you’ll need to do is be the life of the party.

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  1. Comment by Ricardo on 12 March 2008:

    Southern european girls are difficult to approach, but once you have them speaking with you, you’ll experience the most open girls you ever had.

    It’s also an advantage if you learn some words in their languages, thats for sure.

  2. Comment by TM on 12 March 2008:

    Finally someone says it aloud. I always wondered in which world the U.S. PUAs live that they can score with the stuff they do. Eg. German girls are ALOT more reserved than yours which doesn’t make it easy for rAFCs.

  3. Comment by jaht on 12 March 2008:

    its only a porblem if you make it a problem, i call it fun because it takes something different for a change, its all about the calibration.

    this is also why all those routines and other monkey tricks are just detructive for your game, some routines might work better in USA then other countrys or the other way around.

  4. Comment by Bobby Rio on 17 March 2008:

    Brazil is by far the easiest place to score with women that I’ve ever been too. Montreal is pretty easy too.

    If you’re into Asians I have a friend who worked in the Phillipines for six months and was having threesomes and shit on a regular basic (and not by the pros)

  5. Comment by Xander on 17 March 2008:

    Reading the first post, I remembered a chat with a RSD intern guy where he told me about this “technique” he used when travelling abroad; since he knows nothing but english he will learn like 30 or 40 words in the country’s language (Spain-spanish) and then just jump on the first girl he sees and try to hold a conversation makin a senseless mix of all these words (mucho gusto ,a mi me gusta la pizza, donde encuentro el baño?, gracias , yo me llamo xander, etc) it may sound weird newbie stuff but hey never say never!! i got myself into tryin this one on field and i did it in both my own country and abroad just that i applied to cute tourist girls (I guess frame is the same since you still are a foreigner to her) and it gets pretty good results if you act cool and funny about it and just for a note, dont believe it was in sunny cancun or miami, it was a nice little town where you dont see your typical spring breaker and yet it worked

    PS: Some girls are harder to approach than others that is a fact yet I think here is where your game comes into play , brazilian and american girls make it great for wild club make outs and sex and yet the pleasure of that hesitant sweddish goddess in your arms makes the work more than worth it, remember they act cold cause they are used to guys acting the same way to them, so make the difference and give them the most passionate adventure in their lifes, their pleasure will return to you tenfold.

    Xander

  6. Comment by Diego on 20 March 2008:

    Hey guys
    I want to say I find this website quite good, it seems like its valuable comments and learnings sharing will take it far.

    I was particulary interested in Xander comment because I am on a scholarship in Europe, changing locations each semester for 2 years.
    I started in Madrid, which was great because I am Argentinian and was smooth in many was, women included. Also had a couple American girls that are, that is true, easy but wonderful, so maybe we should be fair and try use another word with no vab connotations.I wanna keep it short,
    my point is that I am in France now, another world completely, and going to Sweden afterwards, so your swedish “cold act analisys” captured my attention.
    can you elaborate on it?

    If you are interested in my perspective and experience, let me know.

    D

  7. Pingback by Taking Your Game International » Roosh V on 22 March 2008:

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  8. Comment by Rigoberto on 22 March 2008:

    I intend to visit south America next year, but I am curious about this; how do south American girls react to gringos with Hispanic backgrounds? I’m obviously American but my family is from Cuba and I speak fluent Spanish with, of course a Cuban accent. Would it be better to play as the gringo come mierda or just be the cubano popular I am?

  9. Comment by Diego on 23 March 2008:

    South America is not a single culture. Therefore you will find different responses to the same stimuli.
    In Argentina C&F, SS work like magic. They just don’t see what hit them.
    I strongly advice not to stay in frat boy attitude in Argentina use your Spanish and you will get far.
    Any reflections on the Swedish issue?
    D

  10. Comment by John Smith on 24 March 2008:

    Mad racist in South America. I’m Indian, and the girls in SA were really rude compared to girls in Europe or Asia.

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