What’s It Gonna Take Slacker? You’re PATHETIC!

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I’m getting some great comments on the blog lately… mostly when I produce such posts like this, and this. I’m interested in what you most like to discuss. It’s pretty obvious to me that those posts cause controversy, but I’d also prefer not to post them and get a healthy discussion on pick up talk that matters.

A few questions I pose to you:

  • Is the comment section to hard to read?
  • Do the comments take to long to load?
  • Do you just not care about a discussion?
  • Would you like an incentive? (Perhaps a prize to the most quality comments in a week?)
  • Would having NOFOLLOW tags influence your decision to join in? (If you have no idea what that is… don’t worry)

If you haven’t posted a comment in a few days, I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Post your thoughts… YES, by CLICKING WRITE A COMMENT!

This means you… SLACKER!

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  1. I think writing your own posts (more) would help with it. More personal experiences.

    Prizes are cool toO!

  2. I like your blog but I just dont get enough time to write a comment. thats really slack yeah, but thats the truth. i might start taking a more active role in the comments. probably help me with other parts of my life. you know participating in stuff!!!

  3. I definitely like current news about the community and the pick-up world.

  4. Don’t blame the readers, blame the content.

    I’m not hatin’ - I admire the fact that you are still trying to be active in the community, spread ideas and stimulate discussion. We can’t rely on the ‘gurus’ for that anymore since they’ve all become celebrities.

    But lets look at the last 12 posts:

    2 guest posts from Herbal
    A poll about the content on the blog
    A post about changes to the blog
    A dream girl post
    2 posts pushing David D products
    2 videos from Neil Strauss
    1 post about evolving your personality
    1 rant about RSD

    If you want people to take part in a discussion you need to stimulate that discussion. It’s no wonder that controversial posts get people talking but it’s not the only way. We want to learn, share experiences, talk about concepts, principles and techniques.

    My advice? Forget pushing products and create great content that gets people talking because its valuable to them. You’ll build a huge passionate community that you can push products to later on because you’ll have earned their permission.

  5. Look at any other community- technology, sports, politics, etc…the media stories have to have an “edge” to them to get the readers involved, and to get the spirited debate going.

    How do you create this edge? You have to imply and hint at things while not stating them explicitly. Leave things subtle and open to interpretation and let the readers fill the vacuum.

    On posts that don’t have a bit of controversy or edge to them, you’re not going to get much feedback.

    I think your intentions were good on the Tyler and Mystery posts- however, more subtle observations would have gotten the ball rolling as well- for example “Tyler Durden was portrayed as a villain and social robot in Neil’s book. Does anyone have any experience with RSD as of late? The seem to be doing there own thing in the community…” Even RSD would agree with this statement.

  6. “No follow” or “Do follow” :)

    Oh, shoot me an email when you get a shot…

  7. lol

    hey man -

    i think of your site as a place to find out about a school of thought and to let others know about schools of thought i’m familiar with.

    if i’m in “practical game” mood, i go through a forum rather than this site to ‘discuss’ stuff. thats the main fun of talking PU.

    i like this site and the way you run it. you have your opinions and you’re fairly objective. even when i don’t agree with those opinions - respect is there.

    the discussions i’ll throw my two cents in on are about styles or school of thoughts about PU. i like the dream girl section and enjoy the interviews - but theres not much to say about it - so i pass.

    but yeah… this is a good site and i appreciate your efforts - as do many people, i imagine. don’t confuse that with ‘comments count’.

    if you want to go wild on the ‘comments count’, start up a forum a’le MM, RSD or VA - the talk never dies there.

    cheers and thanks,
    S.

  8. Guys, keep it coming. I really appreciate your insights! A forum might be a definite possibility very soon…

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