Comments on: Paul Janka: The Untold Casanova That Roams New York City (Video)

By: BFG

BFG — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 04:18:35 +0000

This method by Paul seems fine although, I still haven’t found the seduction community Guru or MPUA that can rival the Naturals especially the Italian Casanovas provided that, Casanova was too part french and part Italian. They just seem to say “Hey, [Longer than normal pause] How is it going?” or much less verbally without the need for a special opener which by the way is optimal since, which ever way you take it there isn’t magic on the opening lines. They’d move right into a kiss or a hug even with the Dancers at Clubs with precise accuracy and has a lot more fun in the process. Another, you notice that their conversations with men, unattractive women, official female contacts and the women they are attracted to seems all but the same. The Natural(s) I am referring to here are not having any specific academic knowledge in Psychology or at least on Neuro-Linguistic Programming although they seems to have those qualities anyway with some of their mind boggling logistical capabilities or abilities with women and even beyond that. How do you think that, that a Natural Seducer is different to some ASShoLE such as AFC Adam Lyons in relation that is.

The best way I can put this to you AFCs that can’t seem to think mild logistics beyond what is from PUA material is that its all in “EYE SEEK U!” as opposed to some puck line. Logistics on the other hand is better made by yourself since, only you know what you want. For example, Boat parties with never marring never validating courting Smarts Geniuses are not ever explained by the PUA losers at all.

But anyway, I can’t see to have my self bothered about the losers at all in the first place. If you want to learn then you should do so with a Natural at all cost. So, find one.

By: RedDuke

RedDuke — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 14:21:45 +0000

Well I think Im gonna try his method, but my question for him and the people out there: is it really easy to ask the woman to come to your appartment in the first date?!!! As far as I remember David D’angelo has the day2 technique of bringing the woman to your appartment first about 5 minutes so she gets familiar with it if he askes her agin after the date to go home.

By: carmelskin

carmelskin — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 14:01:41 +0000

… I love anything Paul does his day game always seams to work and has a flow, where as Pick Up teach what work in the US Paul’s methods work in The UK, UK, Europe anywhere ….

By: New Video Clips From Paul Janka’s Beyond The Digits

New Video Clips From Paul Janka’s Beyond The Digits — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:52:11 +0000

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By: Paul Janka’s Upcoming DVD Sneak Peek

Paul Janka’s Upcoming DVD Sneak Peek — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:45:24 +0000

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By: sandy

sandy — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 17:03:23 +0000

I dont know why some of you “social robots” try to dis Paul saying he has no game.

I actually met Paul at the seminar in NYC.
It was unbelievable.His non community mindset and lifestyle system in PU is unique. He has field tested everything himself direct from the source, he is a smart and yet humble guy wants to help and share his knowledge.

I feel very fortunate to learn his secrets at the seminar.
He touched on from his failures to success and even realationship management with the women you want to keep seriously in your life.

There were alot of topics he disscused and shared that Ive NEVER HEARD or READ before.
AWESOME!

The Q&A was surreal unstounding of his honest knowledge without BS .

This guy is the real deal and probably gets laid more than average PUA.

It was a mindfuck to see he is soo good at this without barely any effort.

He is coming out with a DAY GAME product and a DVD of this seminar som you might see me there.lol.

Well Worth it!

Sandy

By: My problem with Paul Janka | Tenmagnet.com

My problem with Paul Janka | Tenmagnet.com — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:07:52 +0000

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By: michael

michael — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 21:49:28 +0000

It’s a lot of knowledge, every bit of it is true as it pertains to male psychology. Men like it or not only want to screw. I as a man have made an attempt to be monogamous(spch?) and sometimes even fool myself into thinking “i can spend the rest of my life with this woman” after a while, anywhere from 6 months to 2 years, it wears off, my true persona appears, girl realizes i’m just a guy, I realize she’s just a girl, and it’s OVER, NEXT!

By: Eduardas

Eduardas — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 17:35:36 +0000

Paul Janka does what many ordinary people are afraid to do: he is not afraid to fail or if thats too harsh of a word for you- he is not emotionally reactive to the negative feedback from his attempts to succeed.
he tells everyone how many girls he has succeeded with, but he never reveals how many girls he has approached and later didnt pick or got turned down by as a result. this is, just like any other venture just a numbers game. the more you do it the more you succeed. the more you improve the bigger your lead to prospect conversion ratio becomes. hes a brilliant master mind and a master promoter! big props!

By: tamago

tamago — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 10:58:56 +0000

Im polyamorous, radically honest, and am in relationships with two women for over 12 years. I still make new women friends all the time.
I agree with Paul, if he is being honest to the women he is seeing, he has no further responsibilty. In order to have a good relationship for any lenght of time first you have to attract them(men/women) to you.
But you wont really find out who they are till you know each other. You dont owe anyone marriage or monogamy. Honesty is respect.

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 23:12:22 +0000

I have to disagree with his views.

I believe his ignorance will get the best of him. Women are not “lower” than men, and shouldn’t be treated as an object. The types that do let these creepy guys hit on them are suffering with self-esteem issues, or are so shocked by his forwardness that it is hard to come up with a decent reaction.

Oh, by the way. I know dingier guys who have easily slept with more women than this creep. His tactics are primitive and unintelligent; he has the wrong idea.

For all the men out there. I know that a lot of young guys are driven by more instinctual means of “spreading the seed”. I hope you realize someday (sometimes it takes men decades to realize this) that there is no greater wonder in life than having a good, trustworthy relationship.

By: Approach Anxiety I by Paul Janka

Approach Anxiety I by Paul Janka — Wed, 28 May 2008 22:11:14 +0000

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By: bubbafett

bubbafett — Sat, 16 Feb 2008 03:38:32 +0000

“This clearly shows whats pickup is about – mindset”

Well, that and GQ-like looks, lol.

By: Brad

Brad — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 19:41:47 +0000

Rule #1: Decide what you want… go for it… and kick the shit out of whoever gets in your way.

Rule #2: See if that way works. If not, tweak and repeat.

Works for me… lol.

By: Monin

Monin — Wed, 06 Feb 2008 11:53:42 +0000

This clearly shows whats pickup is about – mindset

All crap you hear is just adding up to a better mindset.

By: gigi

gigi — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 08:29:11 +0000

Paul Anka has actually written a manual about his methods, called:

Getting Laid in NYC: Technology for the Single Man

you can read it here:

http://www.puaratings.com/articles/janka-nyc

By: Seduction Chronicles

Seduction Chronicles — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 03:41:04 +0000

Yummy, thanks for the info. Great breakdown of the role of pick up artist community in the mainstream. It’s a great reason to stick around!

By: Yummy Stale Bread

Yummy Stale Bread — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 01:38:42 +0000

Ross Jeffries during an interview on Pickup Podcast has made a similar point about why the community would never become mainstream. He said that people in the community are portrayed as freaks, losers, or the stereotypical pickup artist and then further went on to describe the concept of the community being portrayed behind a laughter curtain. It was pretty interesting stuff. He describes it much better than I can. The interview can be found on Pickup Podcast # Episode 41 and this specific discussion began 9 minutes into the interview.

I also have my own beliefs on why the pickup community will never go mainstream. Most guys just do not believe this stuff will work and secondly most guys are not willing to put the time and energy necessary into studying and applying the material, concepts, and principles to their lives for it to work.

Most guys will watch that interview and think that Janka is either full of crap or feel threatened and make fun of him in some way while most women will characterize him as a creep or a jerk.

Our culture and our programming as a result of our culture are not geared towards accepting the pickup community as main stream. It will always be on the fringes of self help and relationship advice.