Why You Need Attraction First

Attraction is a difficult thing to comprehend at times. It’s often very illogical and unpredictable. However, attraction is essential if you are to form a solid foundation in an interaction. Another word for attraction is “sexual tension” or “sexual chemistry”. This “sexual tension” often goes unnoticed to guys who are unsuccessful with women. It is very noticeable to those who are skilled with interacting with women. You have to train yourself, and take note of your gut feelings.

Attraction is the foundation for any good interaction. Things to stay away from when you’re in the process of building initial attraction between you and a woman are:

• Talking about past relationships
• Talking about your “feelings”
• Discussing your future together
• Interviewing her with normal questions

The key to building attraction is to keep things fun, playful and flirtatious.