Peacocking Done Right
Grim has posted a very insightful comment about peacocking:
I find it funny the biggest complaint with Mystery is his clothing. Any woman who would judge solely on your clothes despite an amazing personality, charisma, and humor is not a woman worth dating. I say to hell with those types of women. Secondly, you have to know that Mystery goes for the more liberal type of women… What many people don’t know is that he prefers the stereotypical “club” type of girl. If you’re looking to pick up conservative women, then peacocking is probably not a good idea.
This is spot on. When pickup artists peacock, you should be doing it with congruency. That means, if you want to pickup a club, party, or “freaky” girl you should be peacocking appropriately for those venues. I would say typically look at what the “alpha” guys are doing in those scenes. We’ve all seen them, the guys in the corner that women seem to flock towards, or the guys that are constantly approached by these types of women. Take note and duplicate with your personality added.
For those guys looking for more conservative women, those women whom are working professionals, career women, students, and social circle friends, opt for a more conservative approach that will feel more calibrated for that woman’s personality.
You’ve only got one first impression, so don’t let your peacocking ruin it. Let it exponentially increase your successes!
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Comment by A Dude on 16 January 2008:
VERY good point, thank you. I hope many guys making their journey catch on to this notion. Within some of the forums and what not, it seems that there has become a sort of contest for just HOW outlandish you can get. I think the key word there is congruency. If rainbow colored slinkys on your arm and a sombrero aren’t kosher with your personality, I think that they really don’t have much to contribute to your success. Thanks again for posting this. I really enjoy your postings, keep up the good work.
Comment by Du Solier on 26 February 2008:
Oh well, tottally right.
I’ve always had a very good notion about clothing, grooming and fashion. So when I discovered the community, and based most of my game on an indirect game, and started to go out with other PUA’s, most of em’ were peacocked “mystery style” so uhmm, I never followed that way of dressing, I just didn’t felt COMFORTABLE with it.
Anyway, I found my own classy way to dress, without losing the peacock benefits. And it would be hard to describe it here, anyway. Just find YOUR style, one that you feel comfortable with, and peacock it from there.
Thank’s for the post man, keep up the good work.
Regards from Mexico City Lair.
Du Solier.
Comment by mark on 19 May 2008:
I watched his VH1 reality show, and I had two problems with it:
1) he made these men into something they are not by putting a costume on them.
2) canned openers that did not fit the personality of most of the contestants. It simply was not them so spew this crap from their mouths.
Comment by Mistery on 28 July 2008:
The whole point of peacocking, in my view, is to radiate high R (replication) and S (survival) values to any potential target.
I don’t know how Mystery thinks his unemployed and homeless magician look is going to do that?
That look, in my view, radiates low R and S values, and will attract women that themselves are low in those two scales and don’t think they deserve better. Like attracts like in mating.
Comment by pouria on 21 August 2008:
style is my idole nd im readin all of his books nd notes nd every single thing dat he ever wrote abt THE GAME nd let me tell u dis, it works even on d gurlz who kno d game better dan some guyz
Comment by Frank on 24 August 2008:
@ “Mistery”: Mystery’s look works (for him) because it is congruent with his personality. You have got to have a HUGE personality to be able to wear that stuff without looking like a clown. Exactly because it may seem like a DLV like you said, it is actually a DHV if you are able to pull it off congruently, because people (AMOGs for instance) will try to make fun of you or look for weakness behind the flamboyant exterior. As long as you have got something better to say and retain frame control, it becomes a HUGE DHV.
Comment by appolo on 4 September 2008:
Unlike the seduction community which only restricted Peacocking to clothing, Peacocking should not be restricted to just clothing. Peacocking can be defined as exhibiting ones’ attractive qualities (looks, confidence, sense of humor, intelligence,etc.)
If you watch animals, they don’t just display their beautiful feathers to attract mates, some of them sing (birds, etc). we human can do a lot more than that can we not?